What kind of mindset do I have to be now?

Don't exclude others, unless they really have a problem with their character.

Try to be tolerant and understanding of others, learn to empathize, assume that you are him, you think about how you will treat him, all people are born equal, don't think too highly of yourself, everyone is the same at all times.

Learn to communicate with others, communicate with different people, you will gain a lot, you can also learn a lot of things you don't know, expand your social circle, and make your life more fulfilling.

It's good to treat the people and things around you with a normal heart, don't be pretentious, and when you are truly mature, you will realize how ridiculous you are today. Sometimes vulgarity is also a kind of truth, truth is the most beautiful, don't feel that vulgarity is shameful, let go of your loftiness and pretentiousness, contact more with classmates, sincerely care about others, help others, you will also get their friendship. Middle school is the best time in life, I hope you and your partners maintain a good friendship, it will be the best memory of your life, but also a rare wealth!

Adjust your mindset and try to understand what others are saying and doing.

In fact, there is something to be gained from communicating with anyone.

Being able to realize your shortcomings is already a big progress, and the next step is to find a way to change yourself, the reason is very simple, it takes a lot of effort to really put it into practice.

Recently, I had dinner with everyone, and I talked a lot with everyone at the table, and I found that my mentality has changed a lot from before.

Everyone has just graduated from college, and I've been graduating for a year. At the dinner table, I can feel the pressure of everyone, the feeling of not wanting to ask for money from home after graduation, the desire to be more free after graduation, and the idea of earning money quickly after graduation.

Actually, I've had these ideas for a long time, and I've always had them, except that I want to be more free, which is really not a big problem for me. But for the need for money and the family's economy, it has always been Bipi that I care about. But I found that the difference is that I have been able to calm down for these, and the idea is very simple, that is, everyone wants to make money as soon as possible to reduce the pressure on the family, but I have to have the existing ability, and if I don't have the ability, I still have to add pressure to the family in the future.

When I encountered problems before, I was always in a hurry, because I couldn't solve it and I was anxious, and now I will still encounter all kinds of difficulties and problems, but I will not be so anxious in my mentality, because it is useless to be anxious, if I don't improve my ability in essence, then I am anxious that the problem is still there, so it is better to stabilize and calm down, and turn the knowledge and skills into my own, which cannot be solved today, and will be solved one day.

In addition, after a year of training, I found that many problems were not as terrible as I imagined, and what I thought was particularly difficult to do was later done little by little. Therefore, the Nadong mentality is very important, in the face of these problems, first of all, you can't retreat, many times the problem will be magnified by yourself, you should have a calm, pampered and humiliated mentality, and the mentality of doing things and learning. There is no shortcut, and when the effort comes, it is natural to regret the poor results.

The right mindset is the law of success in the law. The first of the 17 laws of success in Napoleon Hill's Law of Success is a positive mindset.

How to treat your own mentality correctly? Here are a few things to start with:

Less desire; 2.Compare less;

3.Balance of mind;

4.contentment and happiness;

5.Change what can be changed, accept what can't be changed, don't lose yourself;

6.Live according to your abilities and don't let other people's living conditions dictate your mood.