What to do with a man who is often drunk

It is recommended to wait until he is sober.

If a man contacts you when he is drunk, it means that he has special feelings for you, otherwise he will not bother you.

1. Find comfort.

Most men are basically drunk and will fight with the person they like the most, but may not be together. Because he didn't have the courage to contact her before he was drunk, he only relied on the effect of alcohol to express his thoughts and tell the other party that he was thinking about her. Men just want to be with their favorite person when they are drunk, even if it's just two people sitting together in a daze.

2. I have a crush on you, but I don't dare to confess to you directly.

Alcohol is a stimulant that makes people understand their behavior and don't want to control it. Tell you that you are drunk, I want you to comfort and comfort him, through the power of alcohol, I want to express more emotions to you, and at the same time I want to understand your feelings about him, if you are unhappy with each other, you can say that you are drunk, in the eyes of others, it doesn't count, and men are dead to save face. If the communication is pleasant, the relationship will develop further.

3. I like you but have low self-esteem in my heart.

Some men are very inferior in front of the women they like, only after drinking, they will say what they want to say to women, when a woman meets a drunk man to send you WeChat, that is the moment when he puts down the pressure and boldly shows his heart, usually he feels that he is not worthy of you, but after getting drunk, he does not have so many scruples, take this opportunity to say whatever he wants.

4. Treat you like your best friend.

It is said that those who can come out to drink are the best friendships. Usually, due to the pressure of work and life, there will be a breakthrough in my heart to vent, and I am eager to have a few people around me who understand me. may complain with some big men, and you will feel hypocritical, so it is more convenient to talk to women, especially your confidantes, who can understand themselves.

5. Purely find a companion of the opposite sex.

Seeing that the people around me are all in pairs, I will have a little idea in my heart. Especially after a man drinks, his heart is the loneliest, at this time he will want to find someone to accompany him, maybe he doesn't have too many thoughts, he just wants to find someone to talk about his grievances in his heart and vent his emotions.

This man is very lazy, he has to make good money if he owes his debts, make up for this hole, he has no ability to borrow wine to kill his sorrows, and when he comes back drunk, he will also say that his wife, so that the marriage is definitely not harmonious, and the two in-laws go out together to make money to pay off debts, only in this way, what can be done.

When we are engaged in social activities, we must maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, and maintain an optimistic attitude towards the husband's love of drinking and often getting drunk, and feel that he can change for the better or completely change.

The most important thing is not to quit drinking, but to get out of your current predicament. Don't care what the situation is, face it bravely, you don't have any money to work hard to earn, it's nothing, it's a big deal to start all over again. Once you're out of the predicament, you'll quit drinking.

Let him fend for himself, this kind of man is mud, too cowardly, whoever provokes who is unlucky, my family also has a real deal, why let yourself suffer.

1. Communicate well and communicate well, let him understand my pain, and hope that he can change or reduce the late return.

2. Keep a tight watch on his wallet and control the family's finances.

3. If you can, go with him when he goes out to play, and accompany him when he comes back.

4. Ignore him, find the content of your own life, and don't focus and attention on him.

5. Dress up your home as a warm home to attract him. also dressed himself up beautifully to attract him.

6. It's better to change yourself than to change him, just follow him, let him, and come back naturally when he is tired.

1. Figure out why your husband loves to drink. Men love to drink, some need to socialize, and some use alcohol to kill their sorrows, only by understanding the reason why their husband drinks can they help him slowly get rid of the habit of drinking. A man needs to play an important role in his career and family, if the burden is too heavy and there is nowhere to complain, he will use drinking and smoking to vent, as a wife, he can let him say the uncomfortable things in his heart, and deal with him positively, he will not fall in love with drinking.

2. Don't argue with your husband when he comes home from drinking. After drinking, people will be in a state of excitement if they drink less, and they will be in a state of unconsciousness if they drink too much, and they must not reason with him at this time, and they should be in a state of contention, and they should echo his statement and let him calm down as soon as possible, so as not to cause a catastrophe when the two of them quarrel.

3. Covertly record his ugly state after being drunk. Take advantage of the time when he is not paying attention, record his drunken gibberish, and when he is sober, let him see how immature he is, people often change under the influence of self-esteem.

Smart students should not be proud of their high IQ and refuse to work hard. You must know that diligence can make up for the lack of intelligence, but intelligence can hardly make up for the lack of diligence. The smartest people are not the ones who perform best on IQ tests, but the ones who have the best grasp of themselves.

It is easier to get liver cancer, which will lead to liver cirrhosis, gastritis, acute gastroenteritis, and Wernicke's encephalopathy; Try to drink as often as possible, don't drink too much alcohol at once, and eat some light foods.

You may get high blood pressure, high blood sugar, high blood lipids, and liver cancer; Go to bed early and get up early, don't stay up late, don't smoke, don't drink, and eat lightly.

Liver disease is more susceptible. After drinking, you should drink some honey to relieve hangover.

Men usually have these manifestations after drinking too much: polylingual (will be faster and louder than usual), hyperactivity (will not be involuntary or out of control to varying degrees), irritable and irritable, drowsiness, etc., your husband's situation is normal, indicating that he has a certain psychological burden (only to say that he feels very tired and bitter). In fact, men are all psychologically a big boy, sometimes mature (bravely protect what they care about, fight for it, be cautious and thoughtful, comfort and take care of others, etc.) and sometimes immature (tantrums, complaints, impulsiveness, need comfort and encouragement, etc.), so you should give him some encouragement and comfort, so that he and the child love him very much, and you have seen his efforts and struggles, and I hope he is not too tired.

Some are drunkard, and they shout and scream; There are very quiet sleep drops.

Apparently your husband did release. You should take him out on a trip when he is free.

Actually, you just listen to him!

He does this with nothing more than 2 points:

1. It's really hard, but I usually endure it silently and carry everything! When you drink alcohol, your defenses will be reduced, and many things that have accumulated in your heart will easily be vented! And once it's leaked, it can't be stopped! Really drunk!

2. He is not particularly hard, but he likes to talk to you about wine, and it is not easy for you to know that he is outside, I hope you understand him and understand him, so that you can be kind to him!

The above 2 situations are usually estimated that he will not tell you, but when people drink, they either borrow wine to vent or borrow wine to pretend to be stupid! It's nothing more than 2 kinds!

So the landlord, you have to look at it, whether he is really hard or he just wants you to be nice to him, you should let him know that you love him and will be fine! You're all going to be fine! I think that's how he thinks it's worth it!

Don't worry! Convenient with others, convenient with yourself! - Ming Wu Chengen, "Journey to the West".