Does the old man s words work? Should you listen to the elderly?

If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you, and in my opinion, the "old man's words" are very useful.

The difference between us and the elderly is that we have too little life experience.

We have never experienced the things that the old people have experienced, and the scenery and humanity that the old people have seen are also unknown to us.

They are symbols of time, and in the same way, they are also invisible notebooks of time.

A lot of times, I'd rather trust things than they don't.

The words spoken by the old people, though to our ears may seem to us to be absurd at that time, are superstitions, and we will think that their words are baseless.

But it is often our kind of thinking that causes a lot of lifelong regret.

In our family, my grandmother gave birth to a total of 7 children, but only 6 survived, and one died in middle age.

Speaking of this uncle, it was precisely because he didn't listen to the old man that he took his life and left us forever.

At that time, no matter what people did, they had to visit Mr. Bazi and let him calculate when he should go out and when he should not go out.

In order to earn money to support his family, the uncle decided to go out to work, so the grandfather made a fortune for the uncle.

At that time, the gentleman made it clear that he could not go out this year, saying that as long as he went out, there would be a bloody disaster.

If you're lucky, you can save your life, and if God is ruthless, you'll send a white-haired person to a black-haired person.

Grandpa told his uncle about such a thing, and strongly objected to him going out, but in his opinion it was just an alarmist remark by a counter, just to scare him.

At the insistence of the uncle, he left to see, not like this, but the grandfather lost a son.

I was very surprised by this incident, and it also made me deeply realize the importance of the old man's words.

The old man is old, but his words are true.

We will analyze the pros and cons of listening to your elders and the circumstances under which you should follow them.

Pros and cons of following the advice of your elders:

1.Pro: The elders have a wealth of experience and wisdom, and their advice can help us avoid detours and avoid detours.

2.Disadvantages: Elders may have different ways of thinking and values than younger people, and their advice may sometimes be outdated, outdated, or not suitable for the current social environment.

When to follow the advice of your elders:

1.When faced with major decisions, such as marriage, career choices, etc., the advice of elders can provide a valuable reference and help us make more informed decisions.

2.In dealing with family disputes and family relationships, the experience and wisdom of elders can help us resolve conflicts and maintain family harmony.

3.In the face of unknown risks and challenges, the advice of our elders can help us reduce risks and enhance our self-confidence. Spring answer.

Of course, not all elders' advice is correct and desirable. Young people should make independent decisions based on their own actual situation and values, and at the same time, they should respect the opinions of their elders and deal with family relationships rationally.

When communicating with elders, the following methods can be employed:

1.Respect the opinions of elders, express their own views and ideas, and seek consensus;

2.Listen to the advice of your elders, but also consider your own actual situation and values to make appropriate decisions;

3.Avoid conflicts and quarrels, and maintain a rational, objective and harmonious communication atmosphere.

In conclusion, following the advice of your elders should be on a case-by-case basis. In some cases, the experience and wisdom of elders can provide us with valuable references; In other cases, we should make independent decisions based on our own circumstances and values. Most importantly, we should respect and cherish family relationships and maintain good communication and a harmonious atmosphere.

1) Throw the missing tooth on the roof or under the bed.

When we were children, we must have experienced a period of tooth replacement, where teeth fell out automatically in order to grow new teeth. The elders in the family will ask if it is the upper or lower teeth. If it is in the upper row, the child will be taken to the side of the bed and thrown under the bed; If it's in the lower row, you'll throw the lost teeth on the roof!

It is said that if you do this, your teeth will grow out neatly. The elders will say this, in fact, the intention of comfort is relatively large, and they hope that the child will not be attacked, and it will be sad because of this. In fact, after the tooth is lost, remember to check for other unusual conditions first

Than Zheng Sanque, such as bleeding, foreign bodies in teeth, and so on. The second is to brush your teeth in the morning and evening to make sure that there is no food residue between your teeth. In this way, the teeth will definitely remain in a "beautiful" state!

2) Shout to nibble on the fish bones early and draw the fish pattern in the cup.

When I was a child, I would be extra careful if I ate fish. If a fish bone is accidentally bitten, the elder will pick up the cup and fill it with water, then hold the bottom of the cup with three fingers, draw a fish pattern in the filled cup with chopsticks, and then slowly let the child drink the whole cup of water. Strangely, if the situation is not very serious, you will gradually stop feeling the presence of fish bones in your mouth.

When I grew up, I found that these are actually psychological effects. It is recommended that if you bite the fish bones, do not blindly believe in the soil method, if the situation is too serious or has not improved for a long time, do not hesitate to consult a professional doctor immediately!

3) Do not eat eggs before the test.

I believe most people have heard it when they were young: "Before the exam, you can't eat eggs, otherwise you will get zero eggs in the exam!" The elders would say this because both eggs and zero eggs have a relationship with the word "egg".

In fact, they also wish the children a smooth exam! Eggs can not only provide the protein that the body needs, but also refresh the mind and enhance memory. The most important thing is not to eat greasy food before the exam, and try to eat as light as possible to avoid stomach pain affecting the exam.

When you take the exam, relax and prepare for your homework, so you won't be afraid of doing too badly!

4) After eating, do not leave the rice grains on the plate.

When many people are young, if the elders of the family see that the child has finished eating, but there are some uneaten grains left on the plate, they will start to say: "When you grow up, your wife and husband will have such a grain on their faces!" It means that when the child grows up, the other half of the child will have something similar to pimples on his face.

In fact, the elders will say this, and the biggest intention is to hope that the children will not waste food. As the saying goes: "Who knows that Chinese food on the plate, every grain is fortunate."

From an early age, we must know how to cherish food and cultivate the virtue of not wasting food.

As the saying goes, "If you don't listen to the elderly, you will suffer in front of you". I didn't like this phrase at all before. Now that I think about it, I have made a lot of wrong decisions because I didn't listen to the old man.

The old man, as a person who has come from the past, they have their views and summaries of things, and there are many things that cannot be changed during the short period, and even some will never change. Therefore, the opinions and suggestions they put forward as a person from the past, we as young people should carefully consider or their suggestions, and generally their suggestions have a certain degree of preferability.

However, as a person who has come from the past, the old man is influenced by the ideas of the past, and their thinking is fixed, and some issues are not so comprehensive, and some are not innovative enough or dare not do it.

Therefore, we should take a dialectical view of the suggestions of the elderly, and we should not accept them in their entirety, nor should we deny them lightly. May we all make good use of the experience of those who have come before us or observe the hidden, and stand on the shoulders of giants, and you will see farther.

Listening to the elderly, it will generally be smooth sailing, even if there are ups and downs, at least they will avoid the part that their parents once encountered.

But is this smooth sailing what you want? If it is, it is better to listen to them, if not, you can only go your own way.

The old man's dialect we speak is characterized by his speech. Originally, we should treat anyone's remarks equally, but because the other party is old, it means that there is a certain amount of life experience, so what is said may be particularly referential.

Most of the words of the elderly are worth referring to, because they have a wealth of experience and experience. Especially in marriage, character is extremely important, and material conditions also need to be properly considered.

The old man is a person who has come from the past and has rich experience in life and knowing people, but the old man's opinion is always for his own good, and it is understandable that he may express himself in a tough way. The people who always listen to the old man are really cute. Listen to the old man all the time, this is a dangerous behavior, okay!

If you develop this bad habit, you will find that it is absolutely detrimental to intellectual development. I have no intention of defending [the younger generation] or the [Beat Generation] or the [post-80s] ... The great Darwinian principle of "the survival of the laity" has justified their existence.

All the roads are walked by people, if you just want to pass, then take what you have, but when you get to the destination, what ?

The older generation always thinks that the young people of today do not listen to persuasion and have to touch the nails themselves, in fact, the reason why human beings can continue to make progress is because young people have never been willing to listen to the older generation.

The old people have the way of doing things and the principles of the elderly, and we young people have the road we young people want to take and the rivers and lakes we want to break through. There are some things that we won't hurt if we don't hit the south wall. Living well in the present and grasping the present is what we should do.

Whether it is the words of the elderly, the words of the masters, or the words of the saints. You can refer to it, but you must not listen to it.

Tell the story of a pony crossing the river:

The pony wanted to cross the river, but he didn't know how deep the river was, so he asked the others around him: How deep is the river?

The old cow said: It's not deep, it's not deep, it's just no knees. I've been back and forth several times.

The squirrel said, "No, no, it's deep." My friend drowned in the river the last time he crossed the river.

Later, the pony made up his mind to cross the river himself, and found that the water was neither as deep as the squirrel had said, nor as shallow as the old cow had said.

When you are going to listen to others, you can distinguish between others and yourself.