Working with my brother, my brother s interest is not high, what s going on

Through your description, it can be seen that after your brother is gone, you can't lift your spirit for work, this is because you have your brother and you share the hardships with you when you work, so that you feel more motivated, but if you don't have like-minded people with you, you will feel more lonely, and your interest will not be raised, if you want to overcome this, you can only make yourself stronger, and bear the pressure of work and life alone, of course, you can cultivate some other hobbies, For example, exercising or reading some good books, use these hobbies to divide your attention so that you can continue to do your job well.

Because the two of you are motivated together, and one of them is gone, it is equivalent to draining away part of this spirit, so your interest is not high.

That means that your brother has too much influence on you, you may not have any self-assertions, in fact, you work just to make money, there is no need to think so much.

It's a normal psychological phenomenon, that's because you are often used to working together, but I think it will get better slowly, because you have to survive after all, and whoever puts the pressure of survival will be motivated.

Brother, when we worked together, I was not very interested, mainly because now you have no acquaintances around you.

You don't have a business partner anymore, so you don't have the energy to do it yourself, and it seems that you are a person who is willing to cooperate with others.

The reason why I feel this way is because I feel that there is no interest in having like-minded comrades to be my companions, and I guess it will be fine after a while!

It's rare to work together to have a like-minded friend, and a good friend will definitely be not interested in doing things on his own When he leaves, he will definitely be uninterested in doing things by himself Because no matter how hard and tired he was before, he was accompanied by a good brother Now he can only bear the ups and downs alone Adjust your mentality appropriately I believe that there will be good friends around me There is no banquet in the world Come on.

Maybe you feel that you don't have any friends around you and no one to talk to, well, that's why you have this kind of boredom. If you need this job, try to do it.

I went to work with a good brother, and my brother was in a bad mood, and then after a few days he got used to it, he was fine.

When the brother is gone, there must be the sadness of parting. It's normal for your interest to be low. It should be fine after a while. There is already a process of adaptation.

Hello, this situation shows that you are emotionally dependent, so your brother is gone, and your motivation to work on your own is not high.

This is quite normal because there is no one to work with you anymore. If you work alone, you will feel lonely. Because other friends are not as good as this friend.

It should be that my friend is gone, and I am in a low mood and in no mood to work. It's normal, the brother who has a good relationship is gone. It's understandable to be in a bad mood.

Working with my brother, my brother's interest is not high, it should be that I don't have a partner at work, and I feel a little boring.

I think it's all very normal, I've been with someone for a long time, and then I already feel that this environment is not unfamiliar, and suddenly the other party is gone, I feel that this environment is unfamiliar again, and I must be unhappy.

Because my brother is gone, I am very lonely, and I am also very lonely, there is no one to talk to, so I am not interested in anything.

It's that you're not used to it, and many times it's because you don't like people to leave, and you think that the environment is not used to it, and it may feel like it's because you're not familiar with it.

It shows that this brother of yours is very important in your mind, when she is with you, you are very secure and dependent, and when he is gone, your heart lacks security.

Because you may feel that you have an acquaintance who is happy to be together, so you are not happy after leaving.

Maybe it's easier and more enjoyable to work with your brother, and then your brother leaves, and you don't go first.

Now that means you're probably happier when you're with your brother, because there's something to do, and the two of you have something to talk about together.

Because your brother is with you, the two of you have a tacit feeling that if he leaves, you will feel like you have lost something.

The brother is gone, the opportunity to work together is gone, and you are left alone, feeling lost.

Brothers, who have worked together for so many years and have developed feelings for each other, and have relied on each other, and when my brother leaves, it is like losing his most precious thing.

Work together, your brother is gone, you can follow your brother to do a new job.

Working with my brother, my brother is gone, and my interest is not high, so you have to restore him and I can. I'm working with you.

If you and your brother work together, it is still together, and the effort is still good to cooperate, and it is still advanced money.

There is no banquet in the world, life is like a road, meet someone to accompany you for a while, but you can't accompany you all the time, because everyone has a different road, don't be sad to temporarily store this friendship in your memory! You'll also meet new friends because there's still a long way to go, so keep it up!

Life is like this, divided and merged. There is no banquet in the world that will not be dispersed, even if they are brothers, they have to live their own lives, and the separation between friends is even more useless.

Get used to it, and then you grow.

I deeply regret it, four words, too much emotion.

Agree with your feelings. It will get better after a while, and then make new friends.

Everyone has their own ambitions, although they are brothers, but everyone wants to live. Your requirements are different from theirs, and it is not good for everyone to be reluctant, I hope your brother can understand, long live understanding.

Don't be like this, there is no such thing as a drug for sale.

Don't borrow! Such a person should not be a brother!

It's good to borrow two or three hundred.

It's interesting to people.,Otherwise, there's something awkward.。。 Think too much.

If you don't go to work with him, it's hard to think that you will do something earth-shattering! What do you think!

You've made a big taboo: don't go to work at your friend's company. Two people are too good in private, there must always be a superiority when working together, there may be one person who is better and the other person will be jealous, there is nothing at the beginning, and after a long time, there will be a gradual estrangement, hold back your heart and not say, and wait for a little bit of trivial things that may become the fuse of friendship breakdown.

Therefore, it is better not to work in the same company to be a good friend, and not to work in the same department together, it is easy to have a difference in seniority, and the difference is getting bigger and bigger over time, and there will be a kind of mutual displeasure psychologically. Find time for two people to put it bluntly, two choices, one: two people make progress together, point out mistakes, and share good ideas.

Two: The two develop separately, don't cut off contact, turn hostility into friendship, encourage and help each other in different careers and different positions, don't run to a place to stick together, no matter what you do in today's society, you can't starve to death, and you can get ahead wherever you work hard. Young people do not have long-term righteousness, only deeper friendship, and the hatred of the present will become a witness to the friendship in the future.

Since they are the best brothers, let's put their faces aside and talk together, he won't say anything, after all, he is your best brother.

It's noisy, and there's no way to turn back, don't think about it, and do what you have to do.

Write what you want to say with him on a slip of paper.

Take the initiative to reconcile, maybe he wants to do the same.

The other party just likes it and is not together So you still have a chance If she really doesn't like you Just give up The twisted melon is not sweet Besides, it's her personal behavior to like your friend If your friend also likes her, I think it's understandable The most special thing is that kind of friend likes others must let it be allowed to be emotional? So everyone is equal in the pursuit of love, so if your friend ends up with her, please bless them.

There's no way around it. You can't quarrel with that male colleague (it's useless), and you can't quarrel with that girl, and the relationship will be even more stiff if you quarrel. Let it be.

You should work hard and manage the relationship between colleagues. When you meet the girl you like in the future, you should take the initiative to confess to the girl, and don't let others rob her again.

There is no sooner or later in love, it can only be said that you and her fate is not enough, if the two of them are happy, your best choice is to let go chicly, even if there is a pimple in your heart, sad for a few days, just carry it, in fact, what you want is often the most hurtful. If she's wishful thinking and you can't let go, you can keep working hard and maybe impress her one day.

You chased for a long time and didn't agree to you, it means that she doesn't like you, you can't force it in love, since she likes your colleagues, just bless them sincerely, you will always meet the person who really likes you!

There are probably some reasons for you, you don't know how to communicate, and she doesn't know how to communicate, so you can only endure it, and he can only endure it. You've been chasing her for a long time, has she agreed to stay with you? Does she like you as much as you do?

If not, it can only mean that you are wishful thinking, then it is normal for her to like others.

After all, emotional things can't be forced, and if you haven't chased this girl for a long time, it means that she may really not like you. And if he likes someone else, then you shouldn't bother him, and all you can do may be to wait silently for class.

The girl already has someone in her heart, it must be that brother. The twisted melon is not sweet, and the fate has not arrived, so bless them.

You can only blame yourself, you don't take the initiative to chase her, how can she know your mind, it's too late, others will strike first, you can only suffer later, who is to blame?

Love needs to be fought for, as long as you don't enter the palace of marriage, you have a chance, like is one thing, the most important thing depends on your attitude, for your own happiness to let go of your brother's righteousness, fair competition even if you fail, you will not regret it in the future, for your own girl has worked hard, brother cheers.

I hope you get rid of this shadow soon. Calmly, since this girl has chosen another boy, if you have a very good relationship with that boy, bless them. Because there are so many other good girls waiting for you.

If you think you are great, then put love in your heart, silently guard, and maybe one day you will discover your existence. If you can't do this, then simply give up, and you haven't chased it for a long time, which means that you really don't feel for you, and I hope you don't want to become the other party's spare tire.

No, aren't they also colleagues?..

Maybe they're just ordinary friends, you're too sensitive, right? Or do you have a sincere pursuit of her ?..

Very annoyed--! It's better to stay away and save embarrassment!

You can chase it, if you try to express your feelings and she doesn't accept it, then stop early, otherwise your friend may not be able to do it, and then go and bless her and your brother!

In fact, there are some reasons for you, you don't know how to communicate, and he doesn't know how to communicate, so you can only endure it, and he can only endure it.

The girl who chased me for a long time, she is very good, but I don't feel anything about her, but she is still very persistent, and to be honest, I also enjoy the process of her chasing me, but recently she suddenly liked someone else, which made me very uncomfortable, what should I do? Is it because I like her?

Hello! bai

You say that his brother came back and did not think about du

You, I can understand, but why don't you let you hold him.

In fact, you can try to communicate with him first, ask him why, and don't accuse him at the beginning that you are not as important as his brother.

After all, you live a lifetime, and it is possible to ignore your girlfriend when friends get together occasionally. At this time, you have to give him face, and everything can be discussed when you go back. If he really doesn't want to worry about you, then you can consider not going on the occasion where his brother goes.

Avoid such embarrassment. In fact, occasionally coquettish, the effect will be good, but don't go too far, that will backfire.

Either talk to him first and tell him that this feeling makes you very uncomfortable.

Either have a showdown with him and then break up.

Men love face, and a friend has just come back Long live understanding! Take the initiative to give them good ideas for fun and so on.

I think the reason why your brother likes the person you like is because it must be that when you usually ask your brother to help you chase her, your brother often chats with him, and over time they get to know each other, so they like each other. If that woman really likes your brother, I think you should bless them, because if that woman doesn't feel it, it's useless for you to force it, it's better to watch your brother and the person you love a little happier. Even if they break up in the future, at least they won't regret it, and the person you like will have a better impression of you, after all, you've been chasing her for more than a year, and it's impossible for her not to be bored with you, and if you do this, it may change your weight in his heart.