Is it wrong to be nice to a friend, and how to treat a friend s fault?

My friend is like that, too, and people don't understand.

She would always say to me, "Wood, why did I only know you in my third year of junior high school, alas, I didn't expect to mix so well after only knowing you for a year" and she would always do something that touched me very much.

Sometimes I think she's really nice to me, and I may not have paid attention to her before, but I still care about her, and I don't know when I started to think of her as my best friend, anyway, I really care about her, but she doesn't seem to understand, she always mentions my former best friend to me, and she always says that you are so bad to everyone, in fact, she may not know that I have regarded her as my best friend.

Every time we quarrel, it's over something trivial It's nothing, but when I see her look of nonchalance, I get angry, doesn't she really care about me at all? She has many, many good friends around her, and everyone treats her as their best friend, and she really seems so insignificant compared to herself.

It seems like too much, anyway, it's absolutely right to be nice to your friends, but you can't be too proactive, you can't rely on him too much, you have to be cold to him, maybe he will find out how important you are to him.

Alas, good luck.

If you don't feel that she has given you a reward for your friendship, then give less, it will be fairer, and you will not be disappointed, right? The past is gone, and from now on, they will only be ordinary friends.

Dude, pay it, as long as you think it's worth it, don't talk about anything in return, you also said, you are very righteous to a good friend, that's enough, whether you return it or not is her business, unless you can do it not treat her as a friend.

We don't treat our best friends with something in return! Do you know what I mean? If you need it, maybe you don't call it a friend! I've had your experience too, and now I don't think like that! Because I know the two will never be equal!

It's a blessing to be your friend!

I feel that he can be forgiven, as long as he makes a mistake, corrects it, starts over, gives others a chance, and forgives others is an open-mindedness.

Forgiveness is a kind of relief, and learning to forgive will find you relaxed, happy, confident, and mature.

Sometimes, some of your friends' words and practices may hurt you, and the misunderstandings of your family and colleagues make you distressed, and there are many things in your life that make you not as you wish, or even painful, why not change your way of thinking and learn to forgive? Forgiving others is an open-mindedness, and forgiving oneself is a relief.

If you don't forgive, it's because you don't forgive, and the hatred or resentment buried in your heart is often due to our own narrow-mindedness, inferiority, vanity, inability to let go, and lack of objectivity. Just like we often don't forgive someone for unintentional hurt, don't forgive others for the inconvenience they accidentally cause to themselves, don't forgive the blows of competitors, all of these will make us miserable and unhappy, we often have a knot of depression in our hearts, we carry the burden of the past and can't let go, and it affects the happiness and happiness of the present and the future. You step on the blooming flowers, and the flowers leave you with the fragrance of flowers; You pushed open a door and window, and a fresh fragrance blew outside the window; You have climbed over a mountain, and the scenery on the other side of the mountain is even more charming; You have waded through a small river, and when you see the ocean, you will feel so wide ......

Think about it quietly, is it necessary? Everyone's life passes in a hurry, just a few decades, it's too late to enjoy it, it's hard to be a day, and it's a day of happiness, why let these trivial things always exist in your future life? Why let those unpleasantness disturb our vision?

Why should those who have abandoned you and will not appreciate you still exist in your mind? Learn to forgive.

I will find that those who are confident, fulfilling, open-minded, generous, and happy in life are more likely to forgive others.

I am deeply touched by this question. People should get along with each other on the basis of equality. You are good to a person and you need to let him know that you are going to reciprocate and that you have a temper.

When you position yourself as someone who prioritizes everything and ignores your own feelings, the people around you will also ignore you.

In a relationship, when you put your posture too low, even to the dust, then you can only accept the fate of being ignored. In a word, you must love yourself before someone will love you.

When I was in high school, one of my girlfriends, A, threw an olive branch to me when they first met, who was introverted and had low self-esteem at the time. We became good friends, I tried my best to be good, but A pleases my girlfriend B every day, B can't get used to A, and when I'm annoyed, I say goodbye to A. I was angry and ignored A.

During a recess exercise, at A's request, I ruthlessly followed B. A cried, my heart softened, and I chose to forgive. But no matter what, A really hurt my feelings and made me feel trampled.

I haven't been nice to anyone since.

It's not your fault to be nice to others, but being too nice to others will make them make mistakes that they take for granted. Finally, I hope that all people will not take the good of others for granted, because no matter how warm the feelings, they can't resist long-term neglect and indifference.

I think so, because if you are too good to your friends, your friends will not always remember it, and if your friends are too good to you, you will feel that you don't care.

In fact, friendship is a feeling of mutual concern.

If, one or the other, there is pressure.

Then, this friendship will be very far-fetched.

Friendship between friends is mutual!

It is also natural to care for and reconcile with friends!

There is nothing wrong or right!

Why?

If your good makes your friends unhappy!

Maybe it's not your fault, it's his!!

But you can think about it yourself, and you can also have a good chat with your friends!

If there are too many contradictions, they will explode...

Huh

That's up to you to see how you treat each other

If you pay more

If you give a lot to him, and your friend doesn't seem to feel anything, or as usual, as if you are paying for everything, then you should think about whether you should be too nice to him, because you have to think about whether he really thinks of you as a real friend

If the effort is rewarded, then give as much as you like (but I think if we all live a life that we want to give in return, then we should live a lot of failures and boredom).

So, if you're really good to him, don't ask for too much in return

If he doesn't give you a real heart, then you have to think about whether you should continue to give and whether he is a friend you should give

Sometimes, don't let your heart be clouded Look for a friend who is worthy of what you should give, I know that if it's a real friend, everyone gives the same amount Even if it's not, there will be comfort in the soul

They can't be expressed in words

I'm going to tell you, not every friend is like that!

In our lives, we will meet all kinds of people, and good friends can help you and give you many, many things

But like you said, friends who don't exchange their hearts for friendships, those false friendships, often hurt our hearts, but, have you ever thought about it, it is these so-called "friendships".

Let's look at people more clearly! More aware that the world is not as beautiful and pure as we think!

There is a lot of hypocrisy, a lot of lies, ......Only after these pains can we deal with them better the next time we encounter them!

You're right?

Don't take these hypocritical and insincere people too seriously, because they don't deserve it!

Think of them as a lesson!

Don't lose your heart, because you still have a lot of friends who need it!

You still have a lot of friends who exchange friendship with sincerity!

I'm sure you are too!

So believe in true friendship!

It's that we're too simple.

Now, they are still jealous, I used to put those friends first, but both distance and time will make these vague memories that cannot be remembered... If it's just your own intentions, it's only yourself who hurts, so if it's really a friend worth treating all your life, it's still your heart.