Is it wrong to be too nice to a friend, and how to treat a friend s fault?

In fact, a real friend is a lifelong confidant, only a true friend is called a friend's friendship, but not all friends are real confidants, friends also have ordinary friends, ordinary friends, sincere friends, the most confidant friends, real friends are to make themselves worthy of cherishing and trusting confidants, but also the most trusted people in their hearts, friends will know how to be grateful and return, righteousness and trustworthiness have a conscience, friends should be mutual giving, not taking, People who can share weal and woe with you, who can take the initiative to stand up for you when you need help in the most difficult times, give you comfort, do things for you, help you, and relieve your troubles. A friend is a mutual considerateness, trust, respect, care, support, help, understanding, tolerance, and mutual willingness to pay for each other, and a loyal guardian for each other. Friend:

It may not be reasonable, but it must be knowing; Not necessarily inseparable, but certainly sympathetic; Not necessarily the icing on the cake, but it must be a blessing in the snow; It doesn't have to be in touch all the time, but it's always in mind. A friend is a friend who reaches out to you on the road of your life, especially when you encounter difficulties; When you are happy, it is your friends who laugh and cry with you; When you are most painful, it is your friend who holds your hand to give you strength, the weight of your friend is not in words, not in material, not in wine and money, but in the care, understanding, help, and support between friends、、、 if you are in a lonely journey, remember what your friend said, you will no longer indulge in it, if you can feel your friend's hand by your side in the painful days, the whole person is suddenly full of strength; If you dial your friend's ** when you are depressed, and when you hear that familiar voice, even if you don't say a word, you feel that the hesitation is no longer shrouded, then this is the weight of a friend. The way each of us treats our friends is how we give to our friends, how to always leave an oasis with our name written in the hearts of friends, how to make friends always feel that there is a light ahead, a signpost to guide them, and a heart to hope, express and cherish in the same way、、、 such friends are real bosom friends.

A person will have a lot of friends, but the real confidant is very few, the confidant is able to meet in the heart, can understand each other, when you are troubled, even if he is troubled, will not tell you, confidant does not have mutual possessiveness, when you are happy, he will also tell you his happiness to share that joy with you, confidant only silently dedicate himself, confidant is each other's heart, confidant is each other's heart, life is enough to have a confidant. --

Wrong. It's your fault that you didn't master it. Don't be too close to your friend, he will be self-centered and think that you are around him.

It's not good to be too distant. This is a weakness of human nature, and sometimes you have the illusion that someone else is sometimes not as polite as a stranger, okay. Mastery of goodness.

There's nothing wrong with that, as long as you think you can help as much as you can, as long as you treat your friends like this, I'm sure your friends will repay you in this way

It's not a question of right and wrong, everything has to have a degree, and if it is exceeded, it may turn the good into bad.

Well, yes, everything has a degree, it's too good to be disgusted, everyone has their own shortcomings, and they will find out after getting along for a long time.

That's right. But after a long time, you will get tired.

I feel that he can be forgiven, as long as he makes a mistake, corrects it, starts over, gives others a chance, and forgives others is an open-mindedness.

Forgiveness is a kind of relief, and learning to forgive will find you relaxed, happy, confident, and mature.

Sometimes, some of your friends' words and practices may hurt you, and the misunderstandings of your family and colleagues make you distressed, and there are many things in your life that make you not as you wish, or even painful, why not change your way of thinking and learn to forgive? Forgiving others is an open-mindedness, and forgiving oneself is a relief.

If you don't forgive, it's because you don't forgive, and the hatred or resentment buried in your heart is often due to our own narrow-mindedness, inferiority, vanity, inability to let go, and lack of objectivity. Just like we often don't forgive someone for unintentional hurt, don't forgive others for the inconvenience they accidentally cause to themselves, don't forgive the blows of competitors, all of these will make us miserable and unhappy, we often have a knot of depression in our hearts, we carry the burden of the past and can't let go, and it affects the happiness and happiness of the present and the future. You step on the blooming flowers, and the flowers leave you with the fragrance of flowers; You pushed open a door and window, and a fresh fragrance blew outside the window; You have climbed over a mountain, and the scenery on the other side of the mountain is even more charming; You have waded through a small river, and when you see the ocean, you will feel so wide ......

Think about it quietly, is it necessary? Everyone's life passes in a hurry, just a few decades, it's too late to enjoy it, it's hard to be a day, and it's a day of happiness, why let these trivial things always exist in your future life? Why let those unpleasantness disturb our vision?

Why should those who have abandoned you and will not appreciate you still exist in your mind? Learn to forgive.

I will find that those who are confident, fulfilling, open-minded, generous, and happy in life are more likely to forgive others.

I'm like that too, I'm very introverted, and I'm trying to change now, and I'm starting to talk and change my personality. I always feel that I am good enough for my classmates, but they don't cherish it, such as pouring water and moving tables, I am the first to rush up, in exchange for just a sentence of "you are so good", I am very depressed, all I want is a friend. I used to be stupid and thought that I could get friends in exchange for food, but in the end I was wrong.

I don't even think I have a true friend until now I know that last time I watched a blind date show, there was a male guest who was very similar to me, and I always felt that I really treated my girlfriend, but in the end, my girlfriend left him. The judge just said something, and I think I benefited a lot. He said, "You always think that you are good to others, but do you really know what others want, what you blindly impose on others, too much concern will make people take it for granted, and over time you will get used to it."

So when making friends, of course, you need to give, but first you have to understand what others want, and what you can give him, this is the king. It's not terrible for a person to fail, it's terrible for you to just fail. "Actually, I have also reflected, is it not good to do well, or is it a boring place, I thought about it carefully, in fact, it is still a problem of personality, too introverted, not good at communicating, can not express their wishes well with people, you can try, like me to learn to be cheerful, to be happy, not to be too good to others, and when he needs help, he is helping.

Don't force yourself to do things that make you unhappy.

Do what makes you happy, keep your distance from those who make you unhappy, and be appropriately cold. Refuse unsuitable help, help that touches one's own interests.

When you are in good shape, look at the mood to engage with them. Don't be too nice to them, seven points are enough, learn to fight back, and say what you are uncomfortable with with a real attitude. Live happily, don't care too much about other people's feelings, think more about your own feelings.

To the people who are good to you, good. To people who are not good to you, not good.

Hello, I'm in my second year of high school, this is the experience of junior high school, I feel that this experience is also different, but the situation is exactly the same, I began to panic to find myself** wrong, why am I so good to them, but they are like this, I have not been able to figure it out, the whole junior high school is cautious, I was originally a more cheerful and lively person, I can't stop talking to others, but I am careful to talk to them, I feel depressed, and then I slowly figured it out, no one accommodates anyone, born as a human being, they are all equal, why should I accommodate you, Helping you is love, not helping is your duty, just do your best, don't think too much, the three views are different, you don't have to be strong, I will definitely pay twice as much for those who are good to me, but I am good to her, she is not good to me, I will be appropriately estranged, everything must have its own bottom line, others too much, you don't have to endure it, you can't bear it, you don't need to endure it, you can't have such a friend, you can slowly do your best, improve your level, prove everything with your grades, I believe that your future will be better, I will meet better friends in the future, I hope to help you.

Girls need to be willful

People can be good, but don't be good endlessly, and occasionally express their selfish side.

When you help someone, you have to unconsciously make that person realize that you are looking up to him in order to help him, not to let him spoil him

Little girl, it's actually very useful to pretend to be aggrieved occasionally = = crying nose or something, hehe

But let me tell you, some people are better to strangers than friends. You may feel that you can express your selfish side unscrupulously in front of your friends, right? It's right that you have to make friends like this leisurely!

You'd better make yourself stand out in a certain aspect, so that you can have a personal personality and find friends = =

My best friend was found when I was at my worst temper == hehe

In the end, if you don't take you seriously, you don't take him seriously, who can't live without him, he thinks he is the king of heaven?

Let me tell you about my situation. It's just a discussion of things. I have a friend who has known each other for 4 years, and I have given her birthday gifts three times, but she has not given me a single one.

If I don't send it, she will remind it, and she also knows when my birthday is, and she also said to send it to me). I don't care about the gift, I just don't understand what she thinks. The second friend is that sometimes he doesn't reply when I send him messages (he often looks at his phone), and sometimes if he is chatting, he suddenly doesn't reply.

Or when I have a problem to confide in, he will be very impatient, and sometimes he will not reply. If he has any news, I will definitely reply, if there is a problem to tell me, I will also give him a way to solve it, and I have never been impatient. I hope you'll like me, do I continue to associate with these two people, or something else?

Maybe it's really because you're too kind, and it's not good to let them dominate you too much. Maybe you should try to be independent. It's not like this world can't live without anyone.

Because you have fewer friends, you will cherish them more. But cherishing is not conniving, and you don't want them to do whatever they say. Assert your own opinions.

When someone borrows money from you, you don't mind when he doesn't pay it back. In this way, people will think that you are a bully, and they will borrow money from you unscrupulously and refuse to pay you back. It is a matter of course to owe money and owe money.

Don't feel embarrassed, it's not that you're introverted, just listen to others. Perhaps! Introverts are particularly sensitive.

Always care about what others say and do. But what does it have to do with you what others say or do? If you say it's good, you listen to it, and if it's not good, you can sweep it out like garbage.

Try to watch more news on a regular basis, and you can also say a few words when chatting. Over time, there were more topics. In fact, sometimes, it is really because we are too timid to succeed without experiencing failure.

Won't do what you tried to do, and no one will blame you. If you don't do something, you say you can't, and you're sorry for yourself.

Immanuel (Jehovah with you)!!

People are good and are deceived by others.

In fact, it would be nice if you had a clear conscience about themselves like this.

They don't cherish it is their loss.

A person only needs to have one or two true friends, it's enough, too many friends are also very troublesome, and I don't know if the landlord is a boy or a girl after reading the whole article.

The first half uses 'female her', and the second half uses 'male him'

Line 16 talks about sisters, but then it says that someone in the dormitory will have a girlfriend, that's a boy. . .

Let me know if you're a boy or a girl to help you.

Everyone else has said that true friends don't need to be many.

You're so good to them that they're used to it.

Humans are cheap creatures.

Try not to be so nice to them.

They take their sincerity for granted.

In fact, you are wasting time and emotions like this.

Put your efforts on people who really deserve it.

You can't even have a true friend.

That kind of selfish person doesn't deserve you to do this to them.

Have you studied the Analects of Confucius? Do you know what Yes Mr. is? You're too fraternal like this, I'm not doubting your kindness, it's just that your method is wrong, you indulge them like this, for them your good time is taken for granted, you should have your own edges and corners, don't be like anything can be tolerated, of course, we should tolerate each other when we get along with each other, but it depends on the situation.

People ask you to help, you want to help, but people don't need you to wash up, you don't have to be first, you don't have to lag behind, what should I do, do they die after washing, you are too conniving, but everyone is equal to get along, you are now yourself as if you are inferior, you know? I don't know if that's right, I'm just a freshman, but I'm about to be a sophomore, and we have big and small conflicts in the dormitory, especially girls, more than boys and men, but I think I'll slowly understand how to get along, hehe, come on!