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1. Demosthenes, a famous orator in ancient Greece, originally suffered from stuttering, stammered at an early age, and his voice was weak. He always had confidence in himself, and in order to overcome his illness, he took pebbles in his mouth every morning, shouted and practiced, and finally became an orator who spoke like a river and argued.
2. Helen Cara, a famous American female writer, was deaf and blind due to illness when she was a child. She is self-confident and self-reliant, and at the age of 14 she has mastered several foreign languages and is fluent in German, French, ancient Rome and Greek literature. At the age of 20, he was admitted to the famous Harvard University. Later became a famous writer.
3. Kepler, a famous German astronomer. When he was 4 years old, he developed smallpox, leaving a sequelae of numbness, and then he suffered from scarlet fever, high fever damaged his eyes, and became highly myopia. He was afflicted by illness for the rest of his life.
But he never lost his self-confidence, and he was fearless and high-spirited in the midst of poverty and illness. The three laws of planetary motion were established, which laid the foundation for Newton's discovery of universal gravitation.
4. Gao Shiqi, known as the "iron man" of science and technology, has created more than 600,000 words of scientific sketches and popular science in the case of his deteriorating condition, from half-paralyzed to full-body paralysis, and lost the ability to speak, and has created more than 2,000 lines of poetry and written more than a dozen new books.
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Summary. Dear, because I haven't received a reply from you. I'll just talk about it according to my own situation.
I was very fat when I was young, and I was the kind that was fatter than the average girl, so I had low self-esteem when I was a child, although I had a lot of friends, but they were all girl friends, and I envied those girls who looked thin in clothes. People think I'm chatty with other girls, but I have low self-esteem in my heart because I'm fat. But then I **, after I lost weight through running, there were a lot of boys chasing after me, so I slowly became very proud again, which can be regarded as conceited.
Later, a friend of mine once told me that he felt that I was too complacent, and from that time on, I slowly adjusted my mentality, realized that I had advantages and disadvantages, and should look at the problem dialectically.
Who has an example of low self-esteem, conceit, self-confidence?
My story is a bit long, you can listen to it as a small story, if you have any questions, you can always ask it, okay?
Dear, because I haven't received a reply from you. I'll just talk about it according to my own situation. I was very fat when I was young, and I was the kind that was fatter than the average girl, so I had low self-esteem when I was a child, although I had a lot of friends, but they were all girl friends, and I envied those girls who looked thin in clothes.
People think I'm chatty with other girls, but I have low self-esteem in my heart because I'm fat. But then I **, after I lost weight through running, there were a lot of boys chasing after me, so I slowly became very proud again, which can be regarded as conceited. Later, a friend of mine once told me that he felt that I was too complacent, and from that time on, I slowly adjusted my mentality, realized that I had advantages and disadvantages, and should look at the problem dialectically.
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People's understanding of self can be expressed in three "self", which are inferiority, self-confidence and conceit. People with low self-esteem have no confidence in themselves, are afraid of the whole world, and are even more afraid of themselves; Confident people have a clear understanding of themselves and meet life in the best state; Conceited people think too highly of themselves, look down on others, and are self-righteous.
So what is inferiority? Low self-esteem has the following three manifestations:
First, they are afraid of socializing and expressing themselves, they will give people a sense of formality, they can't let go, they don't dare to show themselves, when they talk about problems, they will agree with other people's preferences, and they are afraid of saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing and being criticized by others;
second, sensitive and suspicious, **, sensitive, suspicious, because of other people's unintentional words, will be delusional for a long time, that is, more absent-minded, easy to live in other people's mouths;
Thirdly, the act of avoidance, always feeling powerless and idle, a person with low self-esteem will deny himself, find reasons to escape before starting to escape, and when faced with a problem, do not think about how to solve it quickly, but think about how to escape.
People with low self-esteem are a complex of contradictions, that is, they want to be noticed, but they don't want to be the focus, and they are insecure, have a skeptical attitude, and when they are looked at by others, they will feel that the person thinks of themselves.
Self-confidence is the best state of life, it will not be indecisive because of inferiority, nor will it be complacent because of conceit, confident people will exude a strong aura from the inside out, and there will be some obvious performance.
First of all, confident people act neatly and neatly, because confident people can be aware and confident. Confident people know that anything just by imagination is equivalent to doing useless work, only by taking action can we get closer and closer to success, in order to better maintain and maintain their self-confidence;
Secondly, speaking loudly, how the tone of speech comes from a person's inner confidence, there is self-confidence in the heart, and the words spoken must also have momentum and strength;
Finally, the eyes are firm enough that the human eye can speak, and liking, disgusting, cowardice, and self-confidence cannot escape it. A person with firm eyes has full combat effectiveness, has a goal that is bound to be won, and has a strong and untransferable self-confidence.
So what is conceit? Conceit is overconfidence, blind confidence in one's own abilities, manifested as arrogance and a complete sense of superiority. The essence of conceit is ignorance, self-awareness, self-centeredness, and the feeling of "the sky is big, the earth is big, and Lao Tzu is the greatest" can be reflected in words and actions, but it has no substantive effect.
In daily life, we must not be inferior, nor conceited, and live a life with confidence, which is the most beautiful. The power of self-confidence is enough to make the weak grass break through the blockade of the land and show vitality; It is enough to make the drops of light water penetrate the hard and thick boulders, showing tenacious strength; It is enough to make the pine between the cliffs proud of the wind and snow, showing the life of the hidden ants.
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I have a life mission to complete against authority. Correct against authority, of course, correct here should be accurately defined as: I have disobeyed the will of authority, but I still do not complain about it.
When we come into contact with a person, we will consciously or unconsciously label him with some personality labels, one of which is inferiority, self-confidence and conceit. Low self-esteem is the ability that one's own ability is not as good as one's actual one's ability, self-confidence is one's ability to match one's ability to play one's strength, and conceit is one's own ability to think that one's ability is far beyond one's ability to play in the real world. When I define these three personality labels in this way, it seems clear that there are individual personality differences and the results of these differences.
In fact, a person's personality is extremely complex and extraordinary. We may be self-confident in event A and inferior in event B; It may be inferior at this time and conceited at that time; People who are familiar with you see you as conceited, and those who are not familiar with you see you as confident. More often than not, we will waver in our own self-esteem, and at a certain point in time, a specific thing is aimed at a real person, and perhaps we will stay somewhere on the coordinate axis from extreme inferiority to extreme conceit.
Of course, different performances may produce different evolutionary directions, and then produce different results.
I can be inferior, I can be confident, I can be very conceited. When we think like this, our souls are greatly liberated and thus free.
You can be inferior, you can be self-assured, or you can be conceited forever. When we encourage those around us in this way, it is a great kindness and tolerance. Emotions are the most delicious food for the spirit, and when they are able to flow normally, every soul that emotions cross is nourished.
In the face of the unknown, I have low self-esteem, and occasionally someone calls it humility; I'm confident in the face of what I know, because I already know the end. The conceit needs to be when others attack you, because even if you believe 20% of the others' attacks, you are still confident. Life is indeed a solitary practice, when you walk on the road, you must forget your emotions at this moment for the distant scenery; At the same time, enjoy the emotions of the moment and ignore the scenery in the distance.
Dear reader, are you inferior? Or confident? Or is it conceited? Do you have a complex personality?
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Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, that is, a very typical phenomenon caused by conceit and inferiority is the so-called conceit, which refers to an over-evaluation of oneself, and it is also a manifestation of excessive self-confidence, this type of person often likes to belittle others and elevate himself. But in essence, the conceited character is not innate, if in the early childhood, the parents' cowardice, indifference or even frequent abuse, will make the child will have a sense of self-blame and internalize, produce negative self-evaluation and psychological suggestion, so that the inferiority complex is deep-rooted, stimulating the child's rebellious psychology. But in fact, most of the conceited people we meet around us are disguised as a disguise of their inferiority complex in their hearts, so as to express it through a more extreme aggression and debasement.
If you want to explain it in plain language, it is like a person with a particularly big temper, almost no one can offend him a little, this seems to be a sign of conceit, but in fact, it is not, it is a manifestation of extreme inferiority in the heart.
For example, the coarse tea and light rice of *** life, basically do not eat fish and meat, and do not eat fruits.
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