After a breakup, find someone to replace you, can you forget the pain!!! 5

Updated on psychology 2024-06-07
56 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No, you'll be more miserable, listen to everyone's opinions, find something to do, keep yourself busy and suffocate yourself, and you won't be able to think about him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Actually, it's not a good idea to stay with your former boyfriend if you can't get rid of him

    Or you find a place that is a little bit similar to your previous boyfriend, and you slowly accept the changes he has made to you, remember that he is good now, and compare it with your previous bad ones, so that you can slowly let go of the previous one. But don't let him hurt himself now, you know??

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You don't necessarily have to find someone to replace love, you can find someone to talk to and a good friend to accompany you more, don't let yourself be lonely. Going out with a bunch of people to go crazy and let yourself fall into the world of two people again, will it be a little more sentimental?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No matter how good things are, they will be lost one day. No matter how deep the memory is, there will be a day when it is forgotten. No matter how much you love, there will be a day when you will go away.

    No matter how beautiful the dream is, there will be a day when you wake up. What should be given up will not be retained. Never let go of what should be cherished, and you can't be friends after breaking up, because you have hurt each other!

    and not to be enemies, because they loved each other dearly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, unless you're in love with the person who replaces your ex-boyfriend.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Deliberately trying to find someone to replace you will only hurt yourself and others!But you're still thinking about the old one, just because you haven't found the one to replace him. The position of the heart.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Ay! You're so stupid

    If you find someone to replace her after the breakup, you will be hurt even more, because the person you like is not the person you are with now, and you feel an unspeakable trauma

    A breakup doesn't mean it's irretrievable

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You should learn from the experience and then have a good love! Because the taste of breaking up is uncomfortable, I can't find someone to replace it! You're going to be in a lot of pain, !

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Fate is self-determined

    Think that in hundreds of billions of years the earth will not exist and everything will be destroyed, so what else can't or dare not do?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't forget to add new injuries to old wounds, hurt others and hurt yourself, stop playing, do something meaningful!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Think about yourself, think about what you want, don't be rash, you will suffer, and you will regret it when the time comes.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think this can only temporarily make up for the pain in your heart and get a little comfort emotionally.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    That hurts yourself and hurts others. I disagree.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's not the best way to do it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Think about it and think about whether it will hurt others.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Draw the knife and cut off the water, the water is more flowing, and the sorrow is more sorrowful through wine.

    If the breakup hurts you, why should you break up? If you look for a substitute to cover up your pain, it may only make you think of her better, and it will only make you more hesitant and heartbroken.

    If the breakup is irretrievable, then I mind that you can go for a break, time can dilute everything, and I am not in favor of immediately finding another person to replace, which is unfair to yourself and to the other person you are looking for.

    Maybe you'll get better feelings after your pain fades.

    I hope so, it should be.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can find a substitute, but don't find a lover, and it's a substitute lover, I just found a substitute, and gave my love for him to my parents, and now my parents say that I am filial a lot.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If it were me, maybe what I would have done. Let another relationship fill the void, although it is yourself who will be hurt in the end.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you still love him, you must forget him first, so that you can face him with a smile, and I think you don't need to find someone to replace you at this time. Or start a new love!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Impossible, right? Love for one person cannot be replaced by another.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What this discusses.

    If you have it, you will experience it, and if you don't have it, try to avoid it, or it's OK.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not forgetting, so you will forget that you have amnesia?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Maybe the idea would be more selfish.

    But I think it's really effective.

    Although it may not be the right thing you can find.

    But you can try.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Not everyone who passes by will know each other, and not everyone who knows will be worried. At least we didn't miss the ...... in this life, in that place, when we turned aroundEven if you said I was in the wrong time......Maybe we have all forgotten ourselves and experienced that sincere love. It's just that there is a relationship that can no longer continue, there is a person who can no longer snuggle up to each other, there is a voice that can no longer ring in the ears, and there is a pair of hands that can no longer hold the temperature and comfort of the palms.

    Not every love has beautiful memories, and not every memory is so unforgettable. Since we can't grow old together, let me bless you here. Because you are a concern that I will never be able to part with in this life.

    It's just that no amount of thoughts and worries can be exchanged for the days when I had you. It turns out that it is not easy to love you as it is to give up on you. Although you are vague about the questions I have asked, I still give the most sincere heart.

    If you really love me, then I am happy. Even if I can't go to the end of the world with you, my heart is still worried about you. I will pray and bless you forever, may you be happy --- safe forever When you are unhappy, I want to shed tears with you.

    When you're unhappy, I want to be your pistachio. When you're lonely, I want to talk to you. When you're sad, I'm just as depressed as you are.

    When you dream of me, that's when I miss you again. I don't want you to give me too much, I don't want any promises from you, and I don't want any worries from you. I don't want you to remember me deeply, I don't want you to remember everything we used to do.

    I just want you to think of me occasionally, occasionally think of the person who once loved you so deeply, the person who once gave you tenderness with a smile--- gave you a complete heart. Remember! Your world, I once really came to ......

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes, as long as you don't enter a new relationship to forget, break up in order to enter a new relationship!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Time will slowly dilute the pain and will not forget, to see if your other half is better than her, so it depends on your fate and luck.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If the person entering into a new relationship is kind to you and cares about you, it will make you forget that unpleasant past.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, but it can also hurt another person, in fact, time can also dilute everything.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you are very emotional, it is irresponsible for a new friend to enter a new relationship as soon as possible, and I think it is better to deal with your feelings at the beginning.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Think about it! Go whatever you want! Don't get hurt again.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    No, but it's an effective solution.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Yes, but sometimes there are still a few drops.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In fact, to tell the truth, love has been painful, it is not easy to completely forget, how many people can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, and it is also deceiving yourself, some memories can only be buried deep in the heart forever, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

    When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

    Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

    A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The beginning of the beginning is always sweet.

    Later, there was boredom, habit, abandonment, loneliness, despair and sneering at the longing to be with someone for a long time, and later, how glad I left the person we thought we loved deeply for a short time.

    Later, we found out.

    That's not love, that's just lying to yourself.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you can't put it down, let it go slowly, but don't find someone to replace it, because then you will not only hurt yourself but also others. It's a vicious circle.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Upstairs is right! That can only be a vicious circle! Take your time to find what you love to do! Heal your wounds slowly! Forget about it!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Forced to forget、Think about his bad things, otherwise I will learn to get drunk with my sister, and when I wake up, I will be sober, and I will not be obsessed....

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    1.Find a strange city to relax2Find friends or relatives to chat more (not parents, but older brothers and sisters)3This is the next policy, just set up an idea for yourself, there are thousands of Chinese children, if this doesn't work, let's change it!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You can anesthetize yourself with work.

    Or travel to relax.

    Throw away everything that belongs to ta, and then convince yourself that you will find a better ta, and if you dump you, you are a loss to ta, you should be sad, you should cry, you will get better after being depressed for a while Some people say that when you are in love, you have a cold; If you fall out of love, please heal well

    Right now, you're going to have to take more medicine

    The cold will get better

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you can't forget, adjust your mentality and look at it in many ways, maybe it won't be so painful.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I've been through this kind of thing, you try to do something else to divert your pain, forget about her, and after a long time, she will forget to adopt it.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's hard to forget a person....Let's change over time...

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    This is not something that you or others can control, depending on each person's personality, you may forget it quickly, and you may remember it for the rest of your life.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's not a question of how long she forgets.

    It's a question of how long your boyfriend will not feel anything for her at all, and it won't be affected by her.

    Just grab your boyfriend and don't do anything to hurt her.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    She had forgotten that all she had left was remorse for her overconfidence, and she must still be asking: how could I lose to such a girl. After a while, her self-confidence has regained and she will be fine.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It depends on how much you love.

    And the question of who the reason for the breakup is.

    It also depends on the environment after the breakup and so on.

    Anyway. Breaking up is always painful and helpless.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Some people forget that it takes a few seconds, but some people will take their memories to the grave! Time will tell!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Maybe it won't be until she finds another person she likes that she might forget, but it depends on her personality anyway.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It only takes 1 second to fall in love with someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    If you don't contact it, it's almost a year, and if you do, it's hard to say.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    If you really love, you will always remember it, and then you will never hate it again.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    If your boyfriend is something he particularly likes, it's been a long time, and you have to pay attention to your boyfriend's safety, hehe, that kind of girl is crazy, hehe!

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Don't look at her, that's her business.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Not forgetting it only means that it is not time to forget it Find something else to do Distract yourself There are other beautiful things in the world besides love Don't just think about this aspect.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    It will be better to endure this period of time, maybe after more than ten years you will even forget what he looks like, and maybe even decades later, you will even forget this person, so there is no need to despair, everything will always pass, in this difficult time, you can find something beneficial to the body and mind to do, divert attention, such as running, reading, fitness, listening, etc., Nan no great wish to hide the king of the Bodhisattva.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    If you want to plant crops without grass in the field, find someone to replace him.

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