Why are there more and more older single youths?

After getting married, there is a lot of stress and disharmony. It's better to be single, some are married and divorced, and it's better not to get married, although it's good to be lonely and get used to it, life is short, travel all over the world and eat all the world's food.

I got used to it, and there were too many unhappy reports on the Internet, and the pressure after marriage was too great, the man felt that the man suffered, and the woman felt that she suffered when she had a child, so now the remaining men and women don't like each other.

I don't know! I'm single because everyone hasn't married the girl yet! It's time to get married! The fans of Jiaju are so cute! Why did you get married?

Marriage and raising offspring requires the joint efforts of both parties, and then there are those who pay too much attention to their careers, those who are too spoiled by their parents, and those who pursue a high material standard of living too much to make themselves moonlight, for many reasons, anyway, they all patronize their own good life now.

I don't want to fall in love, I just want to get married!! It's as simple as that.

I can't meet someone I can talk to! Most of the times you don't like me, or I don't like you, it's really rare to like each other, and if you encounter it, please cherish it!

Men are not like men, and women are not like women. If a man is not responsible, a woman will not be loyal, and if a man is not strong, a woman will not be feminine.

The first reason is that they don't want to find a partner, this kind of thing is very assertive people. They like to be single in their creed, without the existence of the other half, they like the life of singleness, willing to live their own day freely and chicly, without any care, people with this character are not suitable for falling in love, and they do not have the idea of falling in love, they have their own way of life and live very well.

The second type is those who have been emotionally wounded. The biggest reason why this kind of older young people are reluctant to associate with the opposite sex is because they have been hurt by feelings, they have been in love very sincerely, but in the end they can't do it, or because of the other party, the two people are separated, and then they never talk again, because they feel too tired of falling in love, and they also feel too uncertain, so they decide not to fall in love.

The third is to be too picky. As they grow older, their experience is getting richer and richer, and older young people can balance their lives well with their own income, so their requirements for the other half are getting higher and higher, and there are fewer and fewer people of the opposite sex who meet their requirements, because as they grow older, more and more friends of the opposite sex around them get married, which will lead to an imbalance between the two sides, and finally it will become an older young man, unwilling to find the opposite sex.

In fact, when older young people reach a certain age, they should have their own plans about life and marriage, they all have their own understandings and ideas, and sometimes as bystanders, we can't judge the right or wrong behavior of the other party.

The first reason: a low-quality marriage is not as good as a high-quality single, many people will feel that two people live is also life, and one person lives is also life, so they would rather live a high-quality life alone than live a low-quality married life. Because once you have a family, you have to take care of a lot, not only the parents of both parties, but also the living expenses of the future children and so on.

The second reason: fear of marriage. This is one of the reasons why many people don't want to get married and don't want to fall in love, because they see too many people getting married and getting divorced.

The third reason: many people get married based on economic strength rather than feelings, resulting in comparison, resulting in excessive requirements such as expensive bride price, requiring a house and a car, and so on. I don't agree with the concept of choosing not to get married, there is really nothing to be single in the ** period of life, especially women, as long as you need to, every day, men will not be lonely, but as you get older, you will become more and more lonely, and women are even more so.

Marriage is generally good, family trivialities, strife, is also an experience, children are the best pleasure. The better the more single, both men and women are the same, there are many single men, many of them are also good and handsome, they just like to be single, don't give the pot to women, in fact, how lucky it is to meet the right person at the right time, in life, we often meet the right person at the wrong time, or meet the wrong person at the right time. Women will think about housing, cars, money and material aspects, and can understand that in order to make their lives better, this is normal.

Because now more and more older single young people, they have a clear plan for their future, that is, to always keep themselves in a single state, even when they are old, they can also face this problem well, that is, to take the way of group pension, but for such a pension method, I personally think it is still worth our consideration and discussion.

Although for many single elderly people, taking the way of group pension can help each other and take care of each other to a certain extent, and will also help themselves get rid of loneliness and loneliness through such a pension method, so as to make their later life more meaningful, but for some older single young people, if they really take such a pension method in the future, it may not be really suitable for themselves. Because at different ages, people often have different ideas, although for these older single young people, they can still accept this way of group pension at this stage, but when they are really old, it may not be the case.

After all, there are certain differences in everyone's living habits, and in the process of group pension, it is very likely that they will not be able to adapt to their own living habits because of their different living habits from others, after old age, the way I hope to provide for the elderly should still be in the family for the elderly, as long as their body allows, then they will take care of their daily life, and when they are really old and can not take care of themselves, they want to care for the elderly through the group, it is difficult to really change their own problems, so before they are old, Or should you take precautions, leave more savings for yourself, and when you are old, if you really can't, you can only choose to go to a special pension institution to provide for the elderly, so as to fundamentally solve the problem.

1. The inevitability of the age structure.

As the younger generation is becoming more and more educated, especially those in the 80s, 90s and even the post-00s, their perception of the world will change accordingly. Getting married and having children is no longer a necessary stage of life, and the younger generation pays more attention to the improvement of personal ability and the comfort of their own living conditions.

Women, in particular, are becoming more and more independent. The concept of "marrying a man, marrying a man, dressing and eating" has been completely abandoned. Girls can also buy a car and a house on their own, properly supporting half of today's society! Second, the promotion of the rhythm of life.

The pace of life in modern society is fast, and young people are under greater economic pressure. If the family's financial conditions are not good, then graduation means unemployment, it is quite difficult to start a business from scratch on your own, and you need to put in several times more effort than others. You need to constantly learn and recharge to enrich yourself in order to ensure that you are not eliminated by society.

Imagine, an ordinary migrant worker, in addition to dealing with the surging crowds of people in the morning and evening rush hours, also has to endure a day of heavy work. After work, I have to work hard to learn and expand my knowledge, which is quite tiring. There is no extra time and energy to talk about the so-called love, let alone think about each other and think about each other in everything.

It's a terrible day.

The impact of negative marriage and childbirth.

Modern society can be described as an era of information flow, as people's access to information is becoming more and more convenient, all kinds of negative news about marriage and childbirth are also emerging. In recent years, we have seen a lot of unequal experiences of women in the family, marriage and childbearing on the Internet.

All kinds of realities have a considerable impact on women's thoughts, and most of them are afraid of marriage and childbearing. I want to be happy and enjoy life alone. I don't want to be bound by my family.

Life is already difficult, why bother with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts, widowed parenting. Only those who are willful and free are worthy of themselves.

I also hope that everyone can be more tolerant and partial to the unmarried and childless people, and what kind of life to live is their own choice. You can't treat others as different just because they don't have the same choices as you. Maybe people are more comfortable and happy than you.

Being single at an older age is a common phenomenon, but it can also bring a certain sense of anxiety.

First of all, being single at an older age can make people feel lonely. Most people want a partner they can rely on, but older single people don't have that opportunity, which can make them feel lonely and sometimes even hopeless.

Secondly, being single at an older age can be stressful. Older singles can feel like they're left behind because they see their friends married and they don't have a chain yet, which can make them feel stressed and sometimes even hopeless.

Finally, being single at an older age can be worrying. Older single people worry that they will remain single, or even that they will never be stupid and not find their other half, which can make them feel anxious and sometimes even hopeless.

In short, being single at an older age can bring a certain sense of anxiety, but we should not give up hope of finding a significant other half. We should believe that as long as we work hard with a trillion, one day a partner we can rely on will appear by our side.

Perhaps because of the acceleration of the pace of life, or because of the increase in the pressure of life, many people are now busy with work and entertainment, learning and growing, and making money to enjoy, but they rarely take into account their emotional problems.

As a result, there are a lot of older singles. They miss the marriageable age and don't have the energy to have a big relationship.

Although they have always believed that when the right time comes, the destined person will definitely appear by their side, but as their parents, they are extremely anxious.

As a result, "urging marriage" and "blind date" have become a very headache for these older singles.

Netizen Xiao Zhang is one of the older single groups. She had a boyfriend in college, and like most campus romances, they broke up after graduation.

Maybe it's because of the pain after the breakup, or maybe it's because of the sharp increase in pressure from school to the workplace, in short, Xiao Zhang has put all his conversational power on work in the five years since graduation.

Although she is a girl, because of her excellent work ability and high dedication to work, Xiao Zhang's career development is relatively smooth, and she became the director of the company before the age of 30.

However, although Xiao Zhang's parents are relieved by the excellent work, because Xiao Zhang has been single, it also makes his parents worried.

knew that Xiao Zhang was too busy with work to fall in love, so her parents arranged a lot of blind dates for her.

In this regard, Xiao Zhang was very confused: "I am 29 years old, should I accept the blind date arranged by my parents?" ”

On the one hand, my parents were worried about my future, and on the other hand, I was afraid of blind dates. Xiao Zhang complained, "I know that my parents are good for me, but I don't know how to deal with this problem." ”

In fact, in real life, there are many cases with the same confusion as Xiao Zhang, and many people will reject blind dates, but at the same time they don't want to make their parents sad.

If you want to say that you are really not in a hurry about emotional problems, right? In fact, when I'm not busy, I still envy those who have someone to accompany me.

Nowadays, most young people do not want to get married, thinking that marriage is too tiring and hard, and the divorce rate is very high. has a fear of marriage, so I would rather live alone than fall into the so-called whirlpool of love.

Every year during the New Year's holidays, it is the most feared time for many older singles, because when they go home, they will be asked by their elders, and sometimes they will even be forced to go on a blind date. With the continuous development of society, the number of older single young people is increasing, and many of them have a more Buddhist view of love. Do you know why there are more and more older single young people now?

Let's find out together!

The first is the issue of the concept of love. Nowadays, many young people's concept of love is more Buddhist. They think that this kind of thing should be followed by fate, and everything will happen naturally.

But they ignore one point, that is, feelings sometimes need to take the initiative, and when you meet someone you like, you should be brave enough to pick up the empty ants, rather than passively waiting for others to tease you.

The second is that it is not proactive enough. Nowadays, many older young people are basically in a wait-and-see state or out of a state of waiting when they meet someone they like, and they will not take the initiative to confess or take the initiative to approach. They are all waiting for the opposite party to take the initiative first, but they ignore one point, that is, in the world of feelings, there is always a person who needs to take the initiative, if you like the other party, you should take the initiative to say, if you don't say it, how can the other party know your mind.

The result of not confessing all the time is that the other party is holding hands with other people, but you can only stand where you are and regret it.

Finally, it's a matter of time. Nowadays, the vast majority of older single young people are usually busy with work and their careers are on the rise. They spend most of their day at work, and the time outside of work is basically sleep time, and they simply don't have time to meet new people or develop a relationship.

No time is actually the main reason why many older young people are single now, because it definitely takes time to start or maintain a relationship.