How do you feel when you see more and more people around you ending up single?

All the roommates are in love, only I'm still single, but I really haven't met the boy I like, we used to watch movies together, go to eat delicious food together, and now when I see some recommended restaurants, they will say, send it to me, I go to eat with my boyfriend, and tell me about the progress of her and her boyfriend every day, and I feel a little uncomfortable when I hear it.

At first, I felt very envious, and then I felt that it was good to be single. After being single for a long time, I feel lonely, and I begin to wonder if my requirements for my partner are too high. Then start lowering your stature.

Although I found a boyfriend and girlfriend temporarily, I finally broke up because I was never the person I really wanted. After failing to find a partner, I feel good to be single again.

This kind of deep emotion will be a little lost, and even the friends who are usually with him can't always be by his side, and he has to accompany his other half.

It must be uncomfortable, when everyone else goes on a date and I'm still alone, sad, sad, hey.

Although I am a little disappointed, I can raise a pet I like, stay with me, take it out for a walk, and play with my pet at home, I think this is enough. In this world, everyone around me is normal, and I believe that there are better friends waiting for me at the next intersection.

My friends around me have a partner, I am still single, others tell me that fate has not yet arrived, I have always thought that fate is a comforting thing, why love never favors me. I don't think I'm bad, why haven't I been in love seriously in my 30s, why do people want to get married when they fall in love, I'm desperate for love, the pressure is too great, and I can't breathe.

There is more experience, I have the habit of going out with an umbrella all year round, why? Because they all have boyfriends to pick them up, I have the habit of listening to books and chatting with girlfriends before going to bed, why? Because they all have to answer the voice of their boyfriends.

There are four people in the room, three have boyfriends, and I am single, and then the normal state every day is to go on a date and watch a movie after work, and I am, eat my meal, watch my TV, come up to do my exercise, take a bath, and finally wait until eleven o'clock, they come back one after another, elated, say hello, and finally sleep with me, living like a lonely old man.

Many people say that there is only one trouble with being single, yes, there is nothing wrong with being single, and that is to end being single. And it is not wrong to have countless troubles after ending singleness, because when we end being single, we will quarrel because of differences in the living habits, hobbies, interests, personalities, family, friends, etc. of the two people, resulting in countless troubles.

There is only one trouble with being single, and that is that there is no object. After all, when you are single, you can go to ** if you want to, when you don't want to work, then you can ask for leave directly, and if you see that the boss is unhappy, then leave directly, too much is a comfort. However, when you are single, you will be urged by relatives, parents and other elders and the experience of ridicule from friends, which will cause the troubles of single friends, that is, the only trouble, that is, there is no object!

And after the end of singleness, there is more than one trouble, although relatives and friends will not urge you to find friends, but will ask your object about the situation, if the situation is good, let your object take them, and if the situation is bad, they will find an opportunity to ridicule you, this is a trouble; It is a trouble for two people to live together and not earn enough money, and it is also a trouble to earn more if you earn more; When two people are going to get married, the bride price, the car and the house are all troubles; When two people have children, the child's food and clothing needs to be considered by two people, which is also a trouble; When the elderly on both sides are sick, they need to be taken care of and need a lot of money, which is also an annoyance. There are too many such troubles, so there is more than one trouble after marriage.

In general, two people together may be troubled by such and such things, after all, the road of life is very long, when two people face all kinds of troubles together, they need to work together to solve their troubles calmly, not to be self-centered but to two people as the center, not only to consider themselves but also to consider the other half, so that two people will be together for a long time, happy.

Personally, I think it's because when you have an object, you're troubled by the restriction of your freedom, and when you don't have an object, you're worried about a lot of trivial things in life.

Because after the end of singleness, you will find that you will face a lot of problems, and your life is not so good, not as perfect as you imagined.

Because after the end, you will encounter a lot of things, and you will have a lot of problems in your heart, so this kind of thought will appear.

When you end up single and have someone you like, you may encounter a lot of emotional problems every day, so there will be a lot of troubles.

Nowadays, the number of singles is also increasing, so many people are also very troubled. They said that being single is also not conducive to their better development and performance, and the reason for this situation is also because young people nowadays have a lot of pressure, and they need to have a certain material foundation to fall in love. If people don't have money or housing, then many girls don't want to be with such boys.

Boys have no money and dare not find a girlfriend, and many young people also said that girls nowadays are really very realistic and materialistic. If some boys don't have money, then girls won't choose to be with such boys. Therefore, many boys said that they also took on too much pressure, and they also worked hard to make money to buy a house and a car, so that they could marry a daughter-in-law.

Otherwise, you will be single, so many people feel that this state is very bad. They feel that the reason why there are so many single people now is also because many people have no money, so they don't dare to find a girlfriend at all. <>

Girls are afraid of domestic violence, and some girls say that the reason why they don't want to fall in love is because they are particularly afraid of domestic violence and some bad behaviors. They feel that there are a lot of scumbags now, so many girls don't dare to fall in love and get married casually. They are afraid that their married life will be a mess, which also makes many girls feel panicked.

Therefore, their hearts are also extremely afraid, which leads to many young people who don't want to fall in love at all and don't want to get married. <>

The single population is also very largeI hope everyone can also look at some things reasonably, and sometimes it is very bad to have such a large number of single people. I hope that people can also face this kind of thing with a good attitude, and sometimes life after marriage is not so terrible, so everyone should also work hard to overcome this phenomenon. If you meet a very good husband after getting married, then you can live a happier life.

When modern people fall in love, they pay more and more attention to the inner needs of individuals.

Modern people are busy with life and personal ability improvement, and personal entertainment and leisure time is much less.

Moreover, modern people are increasingly enjoying the state of personal singleness.

Anxiety, everyone is psychologically unhealthy, they are particularly prone to anxiety, plus unhappy marriage, or will consider returning to a single life.

Because many people can't afford to fall in love, because falling in love requires a lot of expenses, and the reason is that they can't always find the right person.

Because more and more people are now aware of the importance of high-quality love, they are not willing to fall in love with someone casually, and they all want to meet the right person.

More and more people are choosing to be single, and many people are getting married later and later. In this society, there are always some people who one-sidedly think that people who choose to be single are pathetic, or definitely problematic, which is obviously a misunderstanding. Because after going to society, I found that the cost of falling in love is getting higher and higher, and you go all out, there may not be any results, from not having the right candidate, to the pursuit of failure, and then slowly getting used to living alone, even if sometimes I want to fall in love, but also with the busyness of work slowly forget, and finally this idea of love has become something similar to the big aunt, it will always come, but it will also go fast, of course, what is even worse is that I have been a waiter for a long time, but there is nothing, I don't dare to like someone easily.

And well, many girls in this society now, I don't know why, some are always scary with high vision, if there is a fifty point of appearance, there is seventy points of self-confidence, and they want to find eighty points of male tickets, of course, there are many boys like this, in short, I feel that the boys and girls of this era always float themselves too high, so they are single.

Being able to live independently, because of modern education, now more and more men choose to be single, just for the freedom to live and work independently, although such time may be very boring, but during the holidays you can want to do something you want to do, such as reading books, getting together with good friends, etc., so that they will not only not feel lonely, but also feel that they live independently.

No matter how much the two parties love each other, the relationship also needs the time it takes for the two to maintain, and the reason why men can choose to be single. It's because they don't want to go to the porridge and talk to women about some non-nutritious topics, so that they can spend more time on what they want to do, they feel that it is difficult to find a very independent woman now, so they would rather choose to be single.

People who voluntarily and regularly choose to be single are typical bachelors. According to a foreign survey, half of the 482 single men and women admitted that they voluntarily chose to be celibate. The factors they list are not primarily because there is anything particularly good about celibacy, but because marriage limits their career development, personal growth, and freedom of independence.

Because there are more and more interesting things, and the Internet brings a lot of convenience to people, you can make some interesting friends without meeting. It is difficult for modern people to spend a lot of time getting to know and understand someone.

The main reason is not meeting the right people. I didn't have the desire to fall in love until I met that person, I was more inclined to improve myself and have my own career. And a person will be relatively freer, because there are friends and family, and they will not feel lonely.

But there are risks associated with falling in love, and various conflicts can occur, so I don't think there's anything wrong with being single if you don't meet someone who is in love with each other and suitable for each other.

The reason why I'm single is that I live quite well on my own, and there is no need to find a partner. I have a job of my own, my income is good, and I have a lot of friends, I don't feel bored or lonely, and my parents don't push me, and I don't rush by myself because I'm still young.

I think the reason why people are single is because the pace of life is constantly accelerating, and now people are very busy with work, so they rarely have time to fall in love, and now people's concept of marriage has also changed a lot, so many people choose to be single.

Because they can't find someone to match with them to start a family, they passively choose to be single.

I'm lazy and too lazy to run a relationship. There are also times when you love freedom and feel that any kind of relationship will bind you. I can't be myself in front of a stranger I've known for a long time, and neither can they.

This is because once you are single, you will not be free, and you will not find a suitable person for you.

In terms of the proportion of developed countries, China's single population is not large. In the United States, 45% of the population is single, Japan is the same, and South Korea is the same. Compared with the proportion of single people in Japan and South Korea, China's single population may reach 400 million in the future.

The more the economic level develops, the more the individual consciousness is awakened, and the more people choose to be single, especially women, more and more choose to be single. In this group of singles, men are more likely to be "passively single" for financial reasons, or because they have not found the right person. Women, on the other hand, are more reluctant to find a partner for some reason, and belong to "active singleness".

I do my own laundry, cooking, and tidying up the house. I will try to make myself better, I will draw exquisite makeup in the mirror, I will learn to improve my temperament, I will enjoy the scenery and relax, I will often go home to watch my parents chat. She said she had a steady income**, three or five friends, hobbies, relatives, everything she needed and she was comfortable.

But on a spiritual level, singleness is the way in which a person freely chooses how to spend his life, an evolution from animal to divine. True or false? Which is more meaningful in life?

Everyone has a different perception of meaning, different choices, and there is no right or wrong. Falling in love always requires a certain amount of capital and a certain material foundation, because it is really but not as known to those who have been poor together. And when your own conditions are not very good, then you simply don't have time to take care of love, you will only spend all your time and energy on making money.

You always think about falling in love when the conditions and capital are better. Admit it, that's why you've always been single.