I want to divide again, but I am reluctant to contradict each other, what to do

Updated on psychology 2024-06-02
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't think about it, don't be reconciled, do you think that happiness in the future is important, or unwilling is important, unwilling or reluctant You always have to come over You always have to live again, because you must know that he is already your past Your happiness is in the future, but there is no him in your happiness, he is just a memory of you now Over time he will talk about it, even blurring it until you can't remember The beginning is always sweet. Then there is boredom, habit, abandonment, loneliness, despair, and sneering. I used to long to stay with someone, but later, how glad I was to leave?

    Once upon a time, for a short period of time, we thought we were deeply in love with someone. Later, we learned that it was not love, it was just lying to ourselves. What you thought you couldn't lose is not something you can't lose.

    You dry your tears, and you have another person to make you laugh. You are heartbroken, and then you find that the person who doesn't love you is not worth your grief at all. Looking back today, isn't it a comedy?

    When the love is over, there is a new realm, and all the sorrow is just history. Yes I believe that everyone has experienced the first time, but is the first time important, or is it the happiness of a lifetime that is important? People can't live in love all the time, he has done this to you So what else do you have to say?

    Forget about him and live again, for yourself, not for others Let him know that you will live better and happier without him

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It shows that he still has feelings for you, as for when he will not feel it is still unknown Since you say that you are unwilling, then you must ask him to understand, only after asking can you understand, if he does not want you, then the answer will also be in your heart, in short, love is sweet, if it is painful, do you want love?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Make a fool of it. Divide and divide.

    If you go on like this, you'll only make yourself more miserable.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't wait, wait for him to change, he won't.

    He doesn't love you, really doesn't.

    If he loves you, he won't make you sad and make you sad.

    He only thinks about himself, how selfish he is.

    If you leave him, you will definitely have a better love than him, love you more, and be happier.

    Don't be afraid that you can't forget him, you can.

    And don't worry about not finding a better one, what is he?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Give him another chance, if there really is no more chance to recover.

    Decide immediately and break up.

    Because there is no good outcome if it goes on like this.

    Better a finger off than always aching.

    You can still be friends after you break up.

    If the other party wants to.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He said "change" countless times

    It all ended in our disappointment.

    I laughed, and the promises given by men were like ants trampled to death in the streets.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Although it is said that tearing down a temple will not ruin a marriage, but it is still recommended that you break up, you don't break up, he will propose to break up sooner or later, the first time you say that you broke up, he cried, it is likely that he is not ready, has not waited for the right reality, in this case, it does not make much sense to continue, the long pain is better than the short pain, you are unwilling because you think about his good, but in fact, you should give yourself a better choice.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Some are really scary because of hesitation, if you feel that he has no way to be good to you alone, only love you alone, in front of you, he will be so presumptuous with his friends, he doesn't care about you at all!! What's the point of being nice to you only when no one is around? Do you know what he does when he's not around you?

    There are some things that you should think about for yourself, and happiness is your own!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He's supposed to be a person who isn't too restricted, and he likes freedom!! Like you too!! Let him choose between the two, he's very conflicted!

    You might as well remind him in another way that you're too sensitive, and your boyfriend is so likable, doesn't it make you very discerning??? Don't be too careful

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    For each other, the reluctance to break up indicates that there is still a part of your relationship that needs to be relied on and needed. As for how to do it, it's up to you why you don't want to separate. I don't want to be separated when there is a big conflict between them.

    In general, there are two reasons. First, the other party has something that attracts me and makes me reluctant to give up. Another reason is that they are inexplicably dependent on the feeling of being together.

    If you don't want to give up, it lies in the other person's real strengths, such as good looks, good figure, loyalty and dedication to relationships, high emotional intelligence, and high income, so it's normal to be reluctant to break up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can forget about each other, and you can also divert your attention in some right ways so that you don't feel very anxious in your life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you should adjust your mindset and let yourself know whether you like the other person or not, so that you can make the right decision.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. If you really want to break up, then you should face this decision bravely and not hesitate because you are reluctant. You can talk to the other person first so that the other person understands your thoughts and respects the other person's feelings before making a final decision.

    If you really want to break up, then you should be brave enough to face this decision and not hesitate to make a decision because you are reluctant. You can talk to the other person first, let the other person understand your thoughts, respect the other person's feelings, and then make a final decision.

    I'm still a little confused, can you be more detailed?

    This may happen because the relationship between you no longer exists, but you are not willing to give up the relationship, so you will have conflicting emotions. Workaround:1

    Honest communication: If you can communicate openly with the other party, let the other party know your thoughts, and respect the other party's opinions, try to avoid quarrels, so as not to affect the relationship between you. 2.

    Seek help: If your relationship is no longer there, but you are not willing to give up, you can seek professional counselling to better manage the situation. 3.

    Respect for yourself: The most important thing is to respect yourself, don't give up your ideas because you are reluctant to match, learn to let go, and let yourself have more space to explore new possibilities. Personal Tips:

    When dealing with relationship problems, learn to let go, don't give up your ideas because you are reluctant, learn to respect yourself, respect the other person, communicate honestly, and ask for help in time to better handle the situation.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you and give you the following answers: First of all, understand why this happens, generally it may be because of some problems in your relationship that you are not willing to solve, which led to your breakup. Secondly, in order to solve this situation, you must first recognize yourself and understand whether you have made sufficient efforts to solve the problems between you, such as whether you regard the problems between you as a very important matter, whether you are willing to take the time to solve them, whether you give solutions to them, whether you regard them as the most important things, whether you are willing to respect each other's ideas, whether you respect each other's feelings, whether you have concessions and compromises.

    Finally, before breaking up, you can try some ways to maintain your relationship, such as contacting each other more, talking about more happy topics, spending more time hanging out together, giving each other more support, doing more interesting things, giving each other more love, saying more beautiful words to make the other person feel comfortable, giving each other more warmth, understanding each other's thoughts more, putting each other's feelings in your heart, expressing your heart more, and integrating each other's feelings into your heart. Take the other person's thoughts into account. In short, when you want to break up, but you are reluctant, you can try to use the above methods to save your relationship, instead of blindly giving up, but to use the limited time to solve the problems between you, to maintain your relationship, to save your love.

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