How could I have such a mom I hate her to death 20

Heh, such a mother? I thought you were just venting your unpleasant feelings

If it's me, I'll leave home.

If you're older, you'll go live with your sister. Don't go back to this home. There's nothing to be nostalgic about. Even if he gives birth to you and raises you, even if China has any morality. Don't bother!

This society is ruthless, don't learn badly! Don't take people's word for it too easily. If you really can't stand it, go find your sister now. Never come back!

Maybe I'm too extreme. You'd better listen to other people.

I'll just tell you that this society is too chaoticThere are all kinds of people. Don't trust your friends too much.

A letter of friendship worth 7 points is enough.

I'm not afraid to say that my mom and your mom aren't any better.

It's all poor children, and I feel helpless.

Because I was very confused, I was really confused and didn't dare to say it.

I have suffered too many grievances silently, but in fact, grievances are more uncomfortable than hardship.

I don't dare to thank LZ for saying it, and I also understand a little that I don't want to reason with people like that.

But why are you so confused?

I basically believe what you say. There are indeed such mothers, who are not responsible for the family and their children at all. But you shouldn't hate her so much, after all, it's your mother, and she has the nurturing grace to give birth to you and raise you.

It's no wonder that you have a bad life, such an irresponsible mother. You can only study hard or work hard, and striving for early independence is your only way out. Work hard, it's good to be independent.

Bear with it now, and there will be a day when you will come out.

No matter how you say it, she will always be your mother, you might as well communicate more!

Ay! Is your mother crazy? Even if you like gambling, you won't do this to your children!

At least you know what face is and what is shame, right? So why didn't your dad care? Since your third sister remembers you so much, you might as well move in with your sister!

What can be done, it's your mother, no matter what.

Can I live with your sister?

Mom's management method is very wrong, this kind of parent is often very impatient, I am in the same situation as you, I can only say that the farther away from her is to study hard, the better.

You're still in elementary school, but I think there's something wrong with you.

Maybe it's because you're still young, and the things you think about are relatively one-sided, I'm 24 years old this year, and I'm also a girl, and I'm also from your age, and my mother often scolds me, saying I'm lazy, I can't get into college A, and everyone says about me. Now that I've graduated from college and come out to work, a lot of things and a lot of perspectives have changed.

Parents want their children to be successful. Why don't you take the initiative to help your mom with the work? Have you ever thought about your mother's feelings? In fact, it is not easy for her. Every time my mom scolded me, I was angry, but every time I saw her tired, I felt so distressed.

I didn't put a lot of effort into studying when I was in school, but now that I'm working, I often think that if I could do it all over again, I would definitely study hard from the beginning and do my best.

You're young, not the very sensible kind. It's normal to think like that, but you also have to think more about your parents.

Oh naïve me too, my mom is simple, I definitely have to study hard to get to the edge of the sky.

Hate can't solve the problem, your mother is too grumpy, but sometimes you don't need to endure, but to understand her nagging, she lets you study hard is also for your good, if it is a strange child, she will not nag. Everyone cares differently, you can try to talk to her and talk to her. If you don't want to listen to what she says but keep putting up with it, sooner or later you will break out.

It's better to communicate with her, I'm sure she'll understand you somewhat. She is always nagging and tired, but she is still always nagging, and it is also for you. In short, I think you lack communication, and there will be an invisible barrier to your relationship in the long run, so talk to your mother more about what is in your heart.

My dad always beats me, but I love him very much now.

Why do you have this idea? Since you are not related by blood, then why do you call her Mom? Is it your father's stepmother who married you?

If you don't have a good relationship with your stepmother. Then you will be ugly in life. Maybe your dad will teach you a lesson.

Smart people. Especially now that you can't be financially independent. You should.

Come up with high emotional intelligence. Get along with your stepmom. The cost of this during your school years.

Clothes and so on can be fully guaranteed. Your hatred can be kept for a while. Wait until you're 18 years old and you're an adult.

You leave him again. Or yes. Looking.

The opportunity to get rich quickly. Because if you're not an adult now, then you have to be attached to him. Otherwise, your life is not secure.

Instead, he will abuse you. You will be more miserable.

You can also think differently, and you are not related to you. Mother. If you don't get along, you often quarrel.

Then you can look for help from your grandparents. Or yes. Help from aunts and uncles, etc.

Wait until it's too late, and they'll take care of you. It should also be a good choice, after all, they are really related to you. Especially grandpa and grandma.

They generally don't give up on their children. Will take care of their grandchildren. There are many unsatisfactory things in life at any time, and there is no way to do this.

Maybe you can't choose. And one more point. When minors.

It's even harder to choose what to do on your own. One is that your own mind is immature, and you can't choose the other. If you are not financially independent, you will not be able to choose.

Because you have to be raised by your father or mother to grow up. So. I've already talked about smart people.

We should try to hide these unpleasant things as much as possible. Do your best. Get along with these people who are not related by blood to ensure yourself.

can survive. Wait until you are an adult to decide on Li Ding. How to face such a thing.

I don't know you're hateful. His. What is the reason?

But read between the lines. Your life may not be easy, it will be difficult, but there are some problems you can talk to your biological father. He should understand you, or help you.

After a while, if your parents are divorced, you can also go to your biological mother to ** some questions. In a word. Divorced families are hurt, and the biggest thing is the children.

You have to recognize this correctly. But the damage brings. Whether it is a negative influence, there is also a side that makes you grow up quickly.

It is often said that it is easiest to grow up in adversity. So you have to be strong.

You can't think so. She failed to raise you and paid a lot. If you don't notice and argue with him, you won't be able to come to this world at all.

In order to raise you, she has paid a lot of financial pressure, and sometimes it will cause bad mood. He sometimes hates you often because you are not as good as someone else's daughter. She also thought that because you are not good, you will not be happy in the future, so sometimes you are really anxious to say bad things, you have to understand her more.

That person should not take hatred to heart, and it is normal to encounter friction and unpleasant things in life.

It shouldn't be so negative. She doesn't want you to be good, so you should try harder to show her. When she gets older, she will know that she is wrong.

Do you hear me, people call you "You", not someone's son and daughter, you don't live for anyone, you don't go to the death for anyone, who is the talker?

Peaceful and friendly coexistence, respect and stay away.