How to see a person s heart from the actions of life

Among all the bubbles of my beautiful memories, there was one bubble that was exceptionally large and gorgeous, and the bubble contained a person who impressed me - an old woman. It was a sunny winter afternoon. I was walking on the way to the bookstore, and there were a lot of pedestrians on both sides of the road.

At this time, a fashionably dressed young man was eating a cake while walking, and then a piece of cake wrapping paper fell down. The paper swirled low in the air with the wind. I took a look, but didn't pick it up, thinking to myself, "It's not mine, it's okay."

The others just looked up and watched the paper fall to the ground little by little, and had no intention of picking it up. The originally clean road suddenly had such a piece of waste paper on it, which made it particularly conspicuous. But I walked into the bookstore on my own.

When I was shopping for books, I saw through the glass window that the plastic paper was still moving little by little with the wind. At this moment, an old lady on crutches came from a distance, and she walked with difficulty, bent over, hunched over. The wind blew the paper to her feet.

She looked down and looked around again. After some hesitation, she slowly bent down and picked up the paper on the ground with difficulty with her hands; Then he put his hand on the tree beside him, stood up again little by little, and staggered to the garbage can, and carefully placed the crumpled piece of paper in the garbage can. Immediately, she walked away as if nothing had happened.

I stood in front of the glass and watched her leave, the aging back giving people a feeling of weakness. When her figure disappeared into the sea of people, I realized that there were many pedestrians on the side of the road like me, looking at the gray-haired old lady in a daze, and there was a kind of admiration in their eyes. I walked to the checkout desk with the book in my hand, thoughtful, ashamed of myself.

There will always be people or things in life that impress you. A drop of water reflects the sun's brilliance. If you are a person with a heart, you will find that the noble quality of thought, the great spirit is everywhere!

Hehe, it should be difficult, you have to observe more.

You can read Social Psychology, Body Language Codes, Personality Psychology, Interpersonal Psychology, Behavioral Psychology, Psychology and Life, and Freud's Psychoanalysis, which are the main books on the psychology of speculating about others and understanding psychology through appearances and expressions, and improving interpersonal communication skills.

This kind of skill can not be achieved overnight, it requires rich experience and a sharp mind, I only know that when speaking, people whose eyes always avoid the other party's gaze are usually more introverted or subtle, when lying the other party's eyes always love to move left and right, when talking more body movements, usually possessive, impatient, scheming is not too heavy, few body movements are calm, relatively calm and calm, and can hide things in their hearts

People have a deep heart, and they can study psychology books, but it is difficult to actually use them very proficiently.

Maybe a small movement or expression doesn't really tell the quality of a person, but this ability is a must! It doesn't matter if you look at it for a while, you can see through a person by contacting it a few times Especially for this society in today's society, people are unpredictable When you go on a blind date, you have to learn this ability My mother also said Look at a person You can see from his speech, habits and thoughts A person may want to cover his heart through his own actions But the country is easy to change and the nature is difficult to change I will definitely judge from some details whether this person is as good as the appearance At least I can't learn to be as shrewd as her now But I think I can definitely in the future If I could have this ability now, I'd be very happy.

Laughing while talking: This is the kind of person you feel very relaxed and happy when talking to you. Most of them have a cheerful personality, never be harsh on life, and pay attention to "contentment and happiness", full of human feelings.

Single-minded feelings, especially cherish friendship and family affection. He is popular and likes a peaceful life.

You can see his personality from small movements, 1. Laugh while talking: This kind of person will feel very relaxed and happy when talking to you. Most of them have a cheerful personality, never be harsh on life, and pay attention to "contentment and happiness", full of human feelings.

Single-minded feelings, especially cherish friendship and family affection. He is popular and likes a peaceful life.

2. Breaking knuckles: This kind of person is used to breaking his fingers with a rattling sound. They are usually energetic, very talkative, and like to drill the "horns".

He is picky about his career and working environment, and if it is something he likes to do, he will work hard at any cost.

3. Leg shaking: This kind of person always likes to shake the whole leg with his feet or toes; The most obvious manifestation is selfishness, rarely thinking about others, starting from self-interest in everything, being very stingy with others, but very content with oneself. But he is very good at thinking and can often ask unexpected questions.

4. Slap on the head: This action is an expression of remorse and self-condemnation. This kind of person is harsh on people, but has a pioneering spirit for the cause. They are generally outspoken, sincere, compassionate, and willing to help others, but unable to keep secrets.

5. Fiddling with ornaments: Most of these people are women, and they are generally more introverted and do not easily expose their feelings. Another characteristic of them is that they are serious and down-to-earth, whenever there is a symposium, party or dance, people disperse, but they are always the ones who clean up the venue in the end.

6. Shrug your shoulders and spread your hands: This kind of action is to show that you don't care. Most of them are passionate, sincere, imaginative, create and enjoy life, and the greatest happiness they seek is to live in a harmonious and comfortable environment.

7. Wipe your mouth and pinch your nose: Most people who are used to wiping their mouth and pinching their nose like to tease others, but they dare not "dare to do it" and love to grandstand. This kind of person is ultimately a person who is dominated by others, who may do what others want him to do, and often can't make up his mind when shopping.

8. Always bow your head: cautious. I hate overly intense and frivolous things, and I am diligent and cautious in making friends.

9. Cheek support: The spirit of service is strong, hates the wrong things, and is very disgusted with the lax partner when working.

10. Cross your wrists: maintain a unique view of things, often give people a sense of indifference, belong to the loss-prone type, and have a little egotism.

11. Touching your hair: This is an emotional character who often feels depressed and anxious. Sensitive to epidemics, but hot and cold.

12 Put your hand to your mouth: Sensitive and secretive, often stubborn in his mouth, but gentle in his heart.

13. Holding arms in the hand: Conservative irrational people may suffer because they do not refuse other people's requests.

14. Relying on something: cold character, sense of responsibility and resilience, belonging to the type of struggle alone.

15. Look around: Optimists with social personality, conformity, interest in everything, and obvious likes and dislikes for people.

16. Shaking his head: This kind of person is so confident that he is self-respecting. They are very good at expressing themselves in social situations and are often admired for their indomitable spirit in their careers.

Psychology is a science that studies human psychological phenomena, mental functions, and behaviors. It includes two major fields: basic psychology and applied psychology.

When you lie, you touch your nose or ears, and your hands and feet are unnatural.

Social Essentials! A few small details to see through a person, and remember to pay attention to these actions when interacting with people.

You can read the psychology books of the FBI, there are still many books in this area, you can go to the bookstore to flip through it, and hope to buy it back and read it well.

If a person laughs and you don't have wrinkles in the corners of their eyes, they are pretending to be smiling.

If a person is talking with his eyes to the left, he is remembering, and if he is looking to the right, he is thinking about how to lie.

What happens after seeing through it? It's going to be boring.

It's like when you look at magic, when you know the mysteries, you don't think it's fun at all.

Try empathy. When he has some expression, if it were you, what thoughts and expressions would you have.

It's mainly a matter of whether or not you observe people. When you observe someone, follow their movements, words, expressions, and think about what they will do next. See what kind of habits other people have.

Observe more to discover.

There are two kinds of people; Some people don't show their joy and anger, and they don't say anything to them. Others, on the other hand, are very direct, often saying things that you don't like, and it is useful for them to observe what they say.

Take a look at the books on psychology.

This is incomprehensible by experience!