I m a little heartbroken, help me make a choice

This brother, as long as he is the person he likes, must pursue it with all his strength, so that he will not regret it when he is old.

Don't care too much about what other people think, but don't care about it either. Sometimes the other person may be just as troubled by this problem as you are.

It takes courage to express your feelings. If you're suffering, pluck up the courage to say it, but don't be too direct, it's going to be troublesome if you scare others.

If there is hope, try it, don't do anything that you regret and ask her directly

Just ask her.

Love is a two-sided thing, if you don't ask her, how do you know if she also has a crush on you.

In fact, there is nothing about the third party, and happiness is to fight for it by oneself.

Fate is a lifelong thing, once you miss it. That's missing out forever.

As long as you have worked hard, you will not regret it!

If you love her, chase her, or you'll regret it later

The situation in Shanghai is very special, and it is a consensus to hope to marry a rich man. Your parents are right, if you don't make it clear to your parents about your boyfriend, you won't get through.

It's a good thing that love is unhindered, but if love is hindered, you have to think about it: what kind of life do you want to live? What kind of partner do you want to spend your life with? Is it okay to be happy or not? Whether it's your parents or your lover, do you feel that your love is real?

If you feel really loved, of course, you have to see that you are really in love, and go and explain the situation to your parents. There is always a reason why parents have a bad impression of him, so make the reason clear and solve the problem in a targeted manner. If you can't express your views well and see the problems, you won't be able to face the problems in life smoothly.

Wishing you happiness!

I think your boyfriend really loves you, you have to clear up this misunderstanding, you have to let your parents know that he loves you very much and that you are happy together. After all, your parents love you, as long as they think that you will be happy together, they will lend you this money, which parent in the world is not for the good of their children? Originally, your misunderstanding caused your parents to refuse you to associate with him is that maybe your parents think that you will not end well with him, now you have to show courage to explain the whole problem, you discuss it with your boyfriend first, after all, we outsiders don't know your actual situation, so we can only think of these for you.

First of all. True love can overcome all difficulties.

You may have a lot of helplessness when you hide it from your parents, but do you really have a knot that you can't untie、?? Why don't you calm down and explain everything clearly?

The greatest happiness as a parent is to see that their children can live happily and happily, if they know very well that you are with him, no matter how hard it is, there will be joy in the suffering, happiness, will they still try their best to stop it?

I think the most important thing is whether you have enough confidence and courage to face it.

Even if the current situation discourages you, you must believe that as long as you give something, you will be rewarded!

Think carefully about the sparkle in yourself, that is the killer feature of your success!

Don't lose to yourself

I understand your mood very well, in fact, I am similar to you, I fell in love with a man with no money, just graduated from college, nothing, and the family has no ability to buy him a house, I have been dating him for three or four years, he is my first boyfriend, I also love him very much, I have a big temper, every time I let me, clothes are rarely bought, are to save money to buy for me, I remember that time when we were together, there was only 300 yuan on him, and he also let me do my hair, I was really moved, Every time I got angry, I took money to get angry, went to buy food, clothes and cosmetics, and spent a lot of money, feeling that this was revenge on him, but he was not angry at all and said with a smile: Okay, let's get angry, let's go, let's eat! Really impressed!

This is also the main reason why my family has been unsuccessful in introducing me to someone, because I can't forget him.

Having said so much, it doesn't seem to help you Oh, I'm sorry, I've been talking about me, how to say it, I feel that your boyfriend loves you too, your parents don't know about the two of you, you should explain it to them, but I think if your family has more funds, you can talk about it, on the contrary, I think it's better not to say it, which will make your family more disgusted with your boyfriend, you also have to think about your family, you can't increase the burden on your family because of yourself, I think so, I don't know if I can help you.

If you really love someone, you will do your best and you will go to Bo; If he is trying to deceive you about this 20w, then you have no future; If not, but really want to be together, then what you win is your whole life; You yourself said that you don't care about marrying rich people like your sisters, or showing off, so long ask yourself what you need, is it this relationship?

Why do you think that buying a house is what a man does, isn't it good to support it yourself, the family in the future is shared by two people, don't rely too much on others, if he has the momentum of his career, 20w is nothing, and 100w in the future is nothing, believe in the talent of the person you like, give him confidence!

You should sit down with your mom and dad and have a good talk, since it is a misunderstanding, I believe that as long as you spread things out, you will be able to resolve them. As for the down payment, your boyfriend asked you and his family to bear half of each, that is, a down payment of 400,000 yuan, and you will have to pay nearly one million dollars in ......the futureThink about your future, you have to pay back so much money, have children and support your parents, why do you choose to settle down in Shanghai? Other big cities are no worse than Shanghai, you can buy a good house for 400,000 yuan, you have to think about this aspect clearly!

This guy is good!! Don't give up!! Also, life is for yourself, what do you care about your relatives?!

A man who has no interest, asks a woman for money, divide it, I'm also a man, I really don't know what he thinks, I guess there is something wrong with my brain.

China is so big, it has to be in Shanghai, how expensive is that house, don't take it if you believe me, 200,000 is not a decimal number. It's not a big number for some people, you're a girl, don't be too stupid, men are ruthless, maybe.

Not married yet???

It is advisable not to take money out、。。

Be careful...

It's very simple, directly say your family situation, and the situation after buying a house, if she is willing to pay the mortgage with you, that's okay, if she says no, then forget it, after all, being a house slave alone is very tiring and tiring, if she becomes your woman and is not far away to help you share, then it is better to marry her than to change to a woman who can be with you for a lifetime and is willing to share it for you!

Not long after falling in love, it is estimated that you don't love her very much, and judging from her reaction, she doesn't love you very much. If you really want to marry her, explain and analyze your situation with your girlfriend and add your future blueprint. You also have more snacks for her parents, and with the most sincere attitude, you can give their daughter a good life in the future.

Do you still love him?

Talk openly and honestly, ask these questions clearly, you can't quarrel with him, if he still lies to you and perfunctory you, you will divide it, girls must learn to cherish themselves, don't = others to love, youth is so long, eyes should be polished, choose the most suitable for yourself.

She hasn't discovered your goodness yet, you can try to distance yourself from her first, and also give yourself a chance, maybe you can find a more suitable girl for yourself. She doesn't choose you, it's because she doesn't have this blessing, if she still doesn't look for you after a long time, it means that she really doesn't have you in her heart!

Since you have chosen him, you have to accept the reality The reality is so cruel We should adapt to it Don't think about it anymore Forget it That only becomes the past Just wake up from a dream Renew your own journey Don't feel nostalgic If you can afford it, you should let it go Go and find her who really belongs to you People will experience these things Don't take things too seriously Let go of it.

Just because she chooses her doesn't mean she doesn't like you, maybe it's just because she can't bear it, or maybe their relationship is really good! But I'm telling you, long-distance relationships aren't as good as you think! I'm in a long-distance relationship, and no one understands my feelings better for three years!

If you don't like each other deeply, then there will be a day when you will separate! Long-distance relationships have to face too much helplessness and worry. If you really like her, don't give up!

It's yours who won't leave, it's not that you can't stay, your fate hasn't arrived, I believe that everyone has a fate of their own, maybe he (she) will know your preciousness when you give up.

But also gave up, indicating that your she is not her.

In the sea of people, there is always one suitable for you, why hang yourself on a tree. It is a kind of happiness for us to meet the right person at the right time, and it is a kind of torture to meet the wrong person at the wrong time. Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a kind of helplessness.

And at the right time, it is a kind of sadness to meet the wrong person. We can't know our future, so we can wait. It's not just her in your life, you have to look up at the world.

Perhaps, after a few years, you will pass by, but you will no longer recognize her. You will always meet the right person, and there is not only this one woman left in the world, so why be so pessimistic?

In fact, in terms of feelings, everyone is selfish, friends are not around, they want to have a stand-in to make up for their emptiness, learning to let go is not a good relief, not getting the best forever, thinking about leaving a little good memory for each other, not so that after you have a relationship, you know each other's bad habits and leave behind are unbearable, to come good, in fact, look back at the right time to see if there are other people thinking about you, and you ignore it, let it go. Give you, her, and him a relief! After all, it's still very uncomfortable to do things that are sorry for people, this is just what I said, if I can't help you, you shouldn't be sad, after all, the most difficult thing in the world to understand is the relationship between men and women, right!!

He didn't choose you because he was still in love with his boyfriend...It's as simple as that....Not much to say.

It's the man who gives up what should be released, and I recommend you to read the book "The Power of a Positive Mindset".

She has made her choice, do you think you still have the courage to wait for her. If there is, then you will continue to wait for her. But what I want to tell you is that loving someone really doesn't have to be with him, isn't it good to watch her live well.

Maybe she really likes her boyfriend, and she's willing to wait even if it's far away. How much you like her, if you just can't let go then you wait, after all, true love is hard to find, don't let yourself regret it for not sticking to it in the first place long after.

How to do it depends on your heart, we are still young, we can toss anything, if you want to love, be bold, let go and be chic. There is no need to look ahead. Maybe I'll really touch her.

The owner of the building is a male junior who deserves it.

lz good. It can be seen that you have paid your true feelings, and this time it is not a small blow. In addition to expressing regret, I still want to tell you to let it go.

Falling out of love is definitely the number one killer of college students' emotions. Your situation is not uncommon, you don't want to be too negative. Freshmen are relatively empty, it's normal to talk about love, I don't know if this is your first love, if it is, brother, it's okay, it's just the first time that it's not very successful, and this really can't be regarded as a broken love in the real sense, at most an attempt to confess.

If you want to open up, you just need to adjust to your new relationship with her, and you can still be good friends. From your description, I can also see that she has more or less meaning for you, but the other one is obviously more important to her, brother, maybe it is really fateful. I know that it will be painful for you to let go completely now, but long pain is better than short pain, brother, this experience of yours is just a beautiful mistake.

During this time, you can focus more on your studies or try to start a relationship again. I hope my words will enlighten you and bring you out of the shadows, and I wish you to cheer up.

You don't have to have someone to love...

Don't be too weak to be practical.

People have feelings, you like him, but you don't get it, it's normal for heartache. After a long time, it's good to take it slowly. Go out and play with friends and relax. He doesn't like you as his loss, and there will naturally be people who like you who are worthy of your cherishing in the future.

Because you like him, there's no way to give up.

Because you're not really giving up.

There is also the fact that your psychological tolerance is too low, and in layman's terms, your heart is too small.

Physically, because the taste of heartache is worse than physical pain, at least the physical pain can go away, but the heartache is not so easy to relieve.

Both are difficult to choose. If it were me, I'd choose heartache.

I'll find a way for someone else to choose.