I have a problem, who will help me??

There are two kinds of successful people, one is the ball, sleek, can behave in the world, or it can be said to be hypocritical, but they have a very strong network, so they can do things unimpeded. One is a powerful faction, with rich experience in the workplace, and a top trick in doing things. So if you're not the second one, you can only do the first one.

Of course, there is a power called habit, if the people around you are used to your temper, then you will slowly integrate into the group! But then it's hard for you to get into the big world...

Life is already full of unsatisfactory, find a few more bosom friends, find a few more ways to vent your unhappiness...By the way, being sleek doesn't mean bad, and people must see the essence of the other person's thoughts, if his heart is good and hypocritical, what does it matter?

Even in the Northeast, the direct and bold character is also polluted by the slightest disobedience.

It's not a bad thing to talk directly, but it will bring a little unhappiness to your work and life, and to change these, it is more difficult at the beginning, and it may take a short time to change, such as a year or two. In fact, a big reason for this is because you don't pay attention enough and listen too much.

Other people talk, analyze others, speculate more about others, these need to be careful, of course, no one wants to.

I was forced to do this, and I had to do it.

You are a little extreme, and talking amiably does not mean that people are talking nonsense, against their will, and useless. It's good to be straightforward, but don't always think that you're right, what you're saying is the truth, everyone else is telling lies, don't have the idea that everyone is drunk and sober, first learn not to speak, listen to others, and learn to think before speaking. In a word, the principles should be adhered to and the methods should be flexible.

Speaking is an art, say it when you should say it, say it when you shouldn't say it, don't say it when the occasion is different, and control yourself. I'd rather be tired than uncomfortable. Otherwise, you will be the one who suffers!

Sometimes, hypocrisy is necessary because everyone is not so sincere!

Do you have a close friend? If so, just talk to her (him) when you have these troubles, don't feel how hypocritical you are, everyone who lives in this society is like this.

1. What to say to whom, 2. People must learn to protect themselves Speaking tactfully does not mean that you are not telling the truth....From the tone of your voice, I think you're showing off and criticizing people who don't speak very directlyYou're thinking everyone else is in the water, aren't you?

How do you feel like me? Depressed, I like this, too, I don't care who says it, my parents say I, I can say whatever I want, hey, you always talk around the corner, you're not tired, depressed, and it immediately became an intrigue.