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After getting married, the feeling varies from person to person Personally, I feel that getting married is more of a sense of responsibility, and it can also be said to be more burden, with the birth of the baby, the feeling is getting stronger and stronger! In fact, getting married is a very serious matter, and there are many things to consider, especially how to face problems that you have not encountered! Some people get married so much that they don't care about each other's attitudes and cooperation in the face of difficulties together (women are more rational than men in this regard)!
Therefore, you may feel tired or miserable after marriage, and that is because you have not faced difficulties or hardships in life together. Because you are married and live together, you can't rely on feelings to eat, you have to live and live a real life! First of all, how do you live in the world of two?
Is it to put too much emphasis on the quality of life, or to lay a foundation for the future? When you have a child, you will have to think about it, you have to prepare for the baby's food, clothing, education, work, and marriage! How do you deal with the many disagreements and choices you have during this time?
Personally, I think that if a responsible and tolerant man and a rational and independent woman can understand each other, face difficulties together, and finally come together, they will be able to live a light and happy life after marriage! Life is a process, a process, and it is necessary to use the right attitude to face the difficulties that may arise positively.
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I feel the urge to change careers! Vowed to develop a regret pill!! Hehe.
Trouble, thanks!
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There are a lot of habits to change after marriage
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After getting married, you may save some unnecessary expenses, which varies from person to person. Here are some common areas to save money:
1.Pooling living expenses: After getting married, couples can share living expenses such as rent, utilities, food, and daily necessities. This reduces everyone's personal expenses.
2.Buying large items together: Husbands and wives can sell to buy some large items together, such as furniture, home appliances, etc. This avoids duplicate purchases and saves money.
4.Manage finances together: Couples can manage their finances together, creating budgets and financial plans. This allows for better control of expenses and avoids unnecessary waste.
5.Share housework: Couples can share housework and avoid the cost of hiring housekeeping or eating out.
6.Joint purchase of insurance: Couples can purchase insurance together, such as health insurance, life insurance, etc. This reduces the cost of personal insurance.
It should be noted that after getting married, some new expenses may also be added, such as children's education expenses, family insurance, etc. Therefore, couples should plan and manage their family expenses reasonably according to their financial situation and needs. Jujube with spikes.
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I feel that I cherish it very much, and when I get married, if I can get the care of my other half, I will feel very happy and feel that I am "married right". ...Specifically, when your other half prepares a delicious meal when you get off work, gives yourself a favorite gift on your birthday, and goes to pick up yourself when you return late, you can feel "married right".
1. When he gets off work, he prepares a delicious meal for himself, which will move him.
After a long day's work, you will feel very tired. ......At this time, if your partner can prepare a delicious meal for yourself and accompany you to dinner, you will feel very happy and feel happy from the bottom of your heart. ......At this time, you will feel that you are married right and have truly found a wishful partner.
2. On his birthday, he will give himself a favorite gift, and he will also make himself feel "married right".
When it comes to birthdays, I want to be able to get birthday wishes the most. ......If your partner can send birthday wishes to yourself and give you a gift you like, you will be moved and feel that you are married right from the bottom of your heart. ......At this time, I am the happiest, fastest, and most excited.
3. When he returns late, he can come to pick him up, and he will feel "married right".
When you come home late, you will feel lonely and lonely, and you need someone to accompany and care for you. ......If your other half can pick you up and go home with you at this time, you will feel very warm, and feel how happy your marriage is from the bottom of your heart, and feel that you are married right from the bottom of your heart, and feel happy and satisfied that you have found a husband who loves you so much.
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How do you feel when you're married? Do you agree? After getting married, I can finally end the feeling of thinking about it day and night, you are mine, I am yours, and you can stick together every day.
After marriage, the original appearance of both parties was slowly revealed, and my husband always said that I ate before marriage, and after marriage, I ate in large gulps, and I no longer had the previous reserve. As for my husband, when he eats with me before marriage, he always doesn't serve the third bowl of rice, and he says that he is full. And after marriage, the big bowl of rice, too lazy to use the rice bowl, the amount of rice suddenly became a lot bigger, I guess he never ate enough at my house before marriage.
Before marriage, my mother often said that I spent money indiscriminately, always extravagantly, and I couldn't afford to spend any of the pocket money my parents gave, but I didn't have any money left. Who knew that after marriage, I was in charge of the economic power of the family, and my husband always handed over a penny to me every day (for business). On the contrary, I don't spend money indiscriminately, I save money every day, I don't save money for a day, but I don't get used to it, I will be anxious, and after marriage, I will change against the sky, and even I am very shocked.
In response to what everyone said, there is a money-making rake outside, and there is a money-saving box at home, so it's hard to make a fortune! I went from being generous before marriage to being thrifty and thrifty after marriage, I had no concept of money before marriage, and I loved money after marriage, and I especially accumulated wealth, and I was very critical of myself and generous to my family. Before marriage, I was only generous to myself, I didn't care about others, and after marriage, I put my family first, and I never thought about myself.
After I got married, I wanted to buy anything, my husband didn't say a word, as long as someone else had it, he would buy it for me. And I was so generous before marriage, and I didn't see anything he bought for me, which shows that my luck is still good!
Everyone said that the relationship with the mother-in-law and sister-in-law was the most difficult. And since I got married, although I didn't call my mother-in-law a mother, but in my heart, I always treated my mother equally. I went out shopping with my mother-in-law, whatever my mother-in-law bought, I never asked her to pay a penny, I paid for everything.
If I buy something for my mother-in-law, I always pick the most expensive one, and my mother-in-law always picks the cheapest one, and we are not as difficult to get along as everyone says.
Conclusion: After marriage, everyone must have changed back to their original appearance, no longer have to pretend, speak naturally a lot more casually, Tong Chong will come with his mouth open, no longer have to scruples, if he still pretends after marriage, it will be too tiring!
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I always feel like someone is watching Sophi take me to sleep, uncomfortable, and slowly after getting used to the world, I suddenly have a husband on a business trip and I'm home alone! Feeling empty room!
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I think it's still very relaxing, and it's actually very wonderful to be able to be with the person you like after getting married.
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Marriage is different for everyone, of course, there are similarities, that is, before and after marriage must be different, that is, everyone's marriage is different from what they originally thought. It is reflected in all aspects, big or small, or small things, or big mistakes in principles, 1. Living habits. Before marriage, they basically get along with each other outside the home, and more than half of them are outside the home, so there is almost no getting along and integration in life.
It will be different after marriage, who washes the dishes and who wipes the floor, how to fold clothes, how to put furniture, all of which are collisions in life. There was once a friend who divorced because of a disagreement over whether to put rice in a Coke bottle or a bag. Therefore, living habits are still a very serious intersection point after marriage.
If the run-in is good, it will be done once and for all, and if the run-in goes wrong, the ship will be sunk and overturned.
2. Eating habits. When you are in love, everything you eat is fragrant. But after marriage, not necessarily.
He loves to eat stew, and she loves duck blood vermicelli soup. He loves buns, and she loves burgers. The beef stew is hard, and the chicken wings are too bad.
The beans are not too ripe, and the potatoes are all noodles. All sorts of eating habits are coming out. In the end, it becomes that whoever cooks is wrong.
Even eating rice or noodles may have to be debated. But none of this can appear before marriage.
3. Family concept. This one is even more terrifying. It won't be involved at all before marriage.
Their original families have given them some deep-rooted things, which will only be shown after marriage, such as whose house to go to during the holidays, the frequency of going to see the elders, what things to buy, the frequency of visiting relatives during the holidays, etc., which are easy to cause wars, and if they are not handled well, they will capsize.
Fourth, emotional output. Many men care less about women after marriage, and many women are less gentle with men after marriage. The changes in each other's holes and searches will cause dissatisfaction with each other.
You complain to me, and I complain to you. In the end, they all changed. This is the most terrible thing, in fact, everyone has problems, but they don't admit it.
So my conclusion is that marriage must be as different as you originally thought.
Change your lifestyle and find other joys in life, try to start getting into the habit of exercising, learning a musical instrument or drawing, singing, etc., to make your life more fulfilling. If you really can't regulate your mentality, and your mood is so bad that it affects your normal life, you should consider seeking the help of a professional counselor to help you regulate your emotions.
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