What is it like to live apart after marriage?

At this time, in addition to missing, the test of the young couple is how to manage this relationship perfectly. I still approve of 1-2 years of separation, but too long a separation will definitely sow a crisis in the relationship between the two parties. At this time, one party needs to compromise, and the other party needs to take more responsibility, otherwise the contradictions that do not understand the other side will intensify.

In the end, it will create an irreparable situation.

No matter what the reason, the life of the husband and wife who live separately in the two places is a disturbing thing, if you want to manage the marriage of the two places well, you must first communicate more emotionally, play more, use the buckle, WeChat and other Internet to contact more, because you are always lonely and lonely when you are alone. If conditions permit, try to go to him and her as often as possible, physical contact is indispensable after all. The best thing to do is to solve the problem of separation as soon as possible.

Since they are married, they must have a certain emotional foundation for each other, and they really want to be together after they get married, but because they are working and living, they have to live separately. Since you want to live in two places, you have to face the reality, and you may not be able to see each other often, so you can only solve each other's lovesickness through **or**. If the pain of such lovesickness becomes more and more intense, you may work harder at work, so as to get the opportunity to transfer work or leave your job with your lover and find a job in the local area after having a certain amount of savings, so as to solve the confusion of separation between the two places, after all, the two places have been separated for a long time, it must be easier to affect the relationship between husband and wife, and it is okay in a short time, but for a long time, they do not see each other often, and there is no difference between being single.

Many people think that as long as the relationship is good, it is okay to separate the two places. Some people even think that Xiao Bie is better than newlywed. Not seeing each other often promotes affection.

However, we live in a real society, and living is a matter of two people. The things of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea in life need to be shared by two people. If all these things are borne by one person, then gradually, there will be no need for another person.

Separation is indeed a test for couples, unless both parties love each other very much and trust each other, otherwise separation is unacceptable. But if you think about it another way, if you love each other enough, what does it matter if the man goes to work and settle down with the woman, or the woman goes to work and settle down with the man? If neither of them is willing to compromise and make concessions, it can only be said that the two are not so in love with each other, since they are not so in love, why bother.

If the relationship between the two people is very good, and the distance between the two places is not too far, it is good not to be the husband and wife of Zhou Wei. As the saying goes, "a long absence is better than a new marriage", Zhou Wei and his wife are busy with their own workdays, and Zhou Wei gets together, you can maintain a certain sense of distance and freshness, as long as the two trust each other and love each other, and can accept this way of life, maybe the relationship between the two can be kept fresh for a longer time.

What is marriage for? Two people who love each other enter the palace of marriage in order to be able to see each other often, live together, and live the life they want, and some people have been facing separation after marriage, because of various reasons can not be together, some are because of work, some are because of life, after marriage, life in the two places will have a great impact on the relationship, affect the marriage of the two, and affect the happiness of the two people.

I saw someone say that after 5 years of marriage, it has been a life of separation between the two places, such a long-term marriage between the two places, the man is not allowed to go out to work for the family's income and the family's livelihood, and the woman is at home to take care of the family, and such a family is a matter that many people face, although it is a helpless thing, if the two places have been separated for 5 years, it will definitely affect the married life of the two people.

1, the two of them gradually have no topic.

If you have been married for 5 years and have been living a life of separation between the two places, then, the two of you must not have much topic, there will be less and less chatting together, you can't find common ground, two people have been living a separate life, you can't find a common hobby, and the two of you have experienced different, so you will communicate less and less, and your feelings will become weaker and weaker.

2. You will lose your freshness to each other.

Seeing that many couples are now facing the separation of two places, when they have emotional needs, they cannot be satisfied, and if it takes a long time, some accidents will occur, which is irresponsible to the family, and sometimes, their feelings cannot be vented, and the relationship between the two people will face a great impact, and even go to a state of divorce.

3. I can't find a reason to continue living together.

After 5 years of separation, the two gradually got used to living without each other, and the two people had no topic, no intersection of life, and there would be some problems in the marriage of the two, and gradually they didn't know how to live with each other, how to continue the relationship, and there was the possibility of losing this marriage.

If you have been separated for five years of marriage, losing the relationship between two people will definitely have an impact.

If you are separated for a long time, because the two people are not together for a long time, they will gradually have no common language and cannot get good communication, so that the marriage will be in crisis.

After marriage, the husband and wife live separately for a long time, and the consequences are: the relationship between the husband and wife becomes more and more separate; The feelings are not deep and cannot be enhanced; There is no reality of married life, and each feels a sense of inadequacy.

If you have been living separately for 5 years after marriage, it will have a great impact on the relationship between husband and wife, because both parties cannot get the nourishment of love, so they feel that this kind of married life exists in name only, and they will choose to divorce because they hate to live separately from each other.

I think that two people have been married for five years, and living separately in two places may affect the relationship between two people. In the life of separation, we must remember to care about each other and not neglect our lovers.

If you have been living separately for five years after you got married, you will have less emotional communication, and the relationship between the two people will get worse and worse, you will no longer trust each other, and the relationship will become weaker and weaker.

The impact is still quite big, and if you have been living separately for a long time, there will be fewer and fewer topics between the two people, and the number of chats will be less and less, and the relationship will slowly fade, affecting the relationship between the husband and wife.

It will affect the relationship between the two couples, and the separation of the two places will reduce the communication between the two, there will be no sweetness, no happiness, and the marital relationship will be very cold.

Five years of marriage and separation between the two will definitely affect the relationship between the two of you. Relationships require face-to-face business between the two parties. While distance can indeed produce beauty, a long separation can also drain the emotions of both of you.

It will affect the harmony of the family and the healthy growth of children. Long-term separation will make the two people communicate less and less, and there will be more and more conflicts.

Married, two people do not live together, and the relationship will have no foundation. Separation within 5 years will make the relationship become weaker and weaker. Both parties will also feel lonely, and there will be a lack of communication between the two parties.

In such a marriage, both people are insecure, and they will slowly lose love for each other, and perhaps their relationship will break down.

This kind of impact is very big, if you have been living in a different place, the relationship between the two of you will break down, and the two people do not know each other's lives, and slowly they will become very cold, it is best to live in one place, so as to promote the relationship between the two of you.

has been living in a long-distance separation, so it is easy to have emotional discord or divorce in the later stage, so it is best to be together, so as to make the relationship better.

It will definitely have a big impact and affect the relationship between two people. Even two people are like ordinary friends. Although it is said that she is married, it is actually no different from living a single life.

It will affect the lives of two people, and it will also affect some family conflicts between two people. It will change the personality of two people, and it feels particularly difficult to get along. It is especially easy to lead to divorce, and there will be some misunderstandings.

If the two of you have been married for 5 years and have been living separately, then the relationship between you will become very weak. A long separation between husband and wife will only affect your relationship and even lead to divorce.

After five years of marriage, they have been separated, and after a long time of such life, the two will have an estrangement, because there is no way to be together again, so the common language is becoming less and less, resulting in the relationship between the two people becoming weaker and weaker, and after a long time, it is easy to have problems.

This will definitely affect the relationship between the husband and wife, two people will feel a lot of inconvenience if they are not together all the year round, they will feel very lonely, helpless, and they will also have a feeling of distrust of each other, so it is best to have the opportunity to be together more to increase the relationship.

It will affect the relationship between the two of you. The two of you have been living apart from each other, and after a long time, there will be no feelings at all. The only constant relationship is that of husband and wife in name.

Of course, it will affect the marriage, when the two are together, the quarrel is sweet, the two are separated, they can't see it, they can't touch it, and after a long time, it's not good for both parties.

After five years of marriage, they have been living separately, and the children are gradually getting older, you can consider everyone working in the same city and buying a three-bedroom house to live together, after all, marriage is supposed to live together, buy a house, the children have a degree to study, and their parents love them, and their childhood will be much happier.

It will affect the relationship between the husband and wife of both parties, and long-term separation is actually not good, because you do not have a common life circle, which will affect your relationship.

Of course, there will be an impact, which will have a relatively large impact on the marriage of two people, and even destroy the relationship between two people, may also lead to the breakdown of the relationship between two people, may also lead to divorce of two people, and may also lead to the complete breakoff of two people.

Generally, couples should not live separately after marriage, and try to live together as much as possible, because a long separation will definitely make the relationship slowly fade.

If you have been married for five years, two people have been living separately from each other, and the relationship between the two people is not good. It will make the marriage of two people unstable.

The impact is huge! Separation is one of the biggest killers of marriage.

According to authoritative statistics, if the husband and wife have been separated for more than two years, then the chances of divorce will be greatly increased.

Even if there is no divorce, the quality of the marriage between the two people will decline significantly.

If the feelings are strong. Heart-to-heart words. Although it is a separation between the two places. But it doesn't affect the emotion. It definitely has an impact on life.

It will affect the relationship between husband and wife, and if two people are not together for a long time, there will be misunderstandings, which is very bad for the relationship for a long time.

There will be serious problems in the relationship between two people, and there will also be some problems in marriage, which is likely to lead to a breakup, which will make each other lose trust, affect family harmony, and affect the feelings of two people.

When you are still living separately after five years of marriage, the first is that there is no way to support a child normally, and the child lacks maternal or fatherly love.

If this goes on for a long time, the relationship between each other will become very strange, and even if there is no third party, there will be cracks.

In marriage, some couples often live separately, in fact, this situation must be because of work, either because the woman will take care of the children in her hometown and take care of the elderly, and then the man will go out to work, or the husband and wife both have their own good careers, but they are in different places.

If the husband and wife both work in different places, and both will not give up their jobs, in fact, it means that the two people may be more career-oriented, and this situation must be childless, because there will be a bond when there are children, unless the two people have better economic conditions, they may hire a nanny, so that family and work can get a balance.

In addition, there are a lot of jobs now, and some people may travel frequently, and even most of the month may be in other places, so this situation has caused the separation of the two places.

After all, two people are seeing each other every day, and sometimes they can't get used to each other's small problems, and some friction will occur between two people, and some people say that the separation of the two places is the culprit that leads to these divorces or extramarital affairs.

But husband and wife must trust each other, and to be tolerant, I think the culprit is not because two people are separated, but that there are some problems between the husband and wife themselves, or there is no trust at all, they will be suspicious of each other, and this suspicion will make the other party particularly old-fashioned, and then meet a woman who is empathetic and beautiful and generous and understands herself, at this time it is very easy to throw herself into the arms of others. <>

So I think the situation of separation in marriage is not very special, but husband and wife must remember to call, this most important contact is necessary, even if there is no time to call, it is definitely necessary to send a message to call, even if it is not together, it is necessary to give each other some care, so that the other party feels that he is not alone.