Is divorce easy to ruin a man or a woman?

Today's marriage is really coming too fast like a tornado, if you say you get married, you get married, and if you say you get divorced, you get divorced. Of course, some of them are indeed because of the incompatibility of the personalities of the two people, so it leads to the divorce in the end; However, there are some reasons for divorce because one of the spouses has not fulfilled their responsibilities, or because one of the spouses has been unfaithful. But no matter which one it is, divorce still hurts both parties a lot.

But at the end of the day, who does the divorce hurt the most? Is it a man or a woman? In fact, to be honest, of course, it hurts both of them, but if there are children in the family, then the harm to the children is the greatest, why do you say that?

Homelessness

I saw a TV series, because my parents divorced, although the child was awarded to my father, but every time it was the New Year, my father would ask the driver to send the child to his mother's house after eating Chinese New Year's Eve dinner.

But every time I go to my mother's house, the child is not welcome, and I don't give the child a good face. The children of the family are looking forward to the New Year, and the children of this family are afraid of the New Year, because the children are really homeless. Do you think this will hurt the child the most?

Being ridiculed

Once it is divorced, the child will be ridiculed by the children around him, either without a father or without a mother. Sometimes it is possible to bully children with impunity. The child's weak body will bear the consequences of the parents' actions, do you think such a child will live well?

Aren't they all ridiculed by other children as wild children? Do you really want your child to be ridiculed? The child is innocent.

Bullied by his stepparents

The real thing we have there is because the child's parents are divorced and have remarried. The child was sentenced to his father, but after the father remarried, the stepmother was not good to the child, and did not buy new clothes for the child, but often let the child do some housework, and the young child pulled radishes in the snow, you said pitiful. This is not the most important thing, the most infuriating thing is that the child was not allowed to go to school.

Well, speaking of which, I want to tell those parents who have children, even if your relationship is not good, but please think about your children, and make good changes for your family, because children cannot be victims of your marriage.

Divorce not only ruins men and women, but the most regrettable thing is that children have become cannon fodder in divorce wars for no reason, they are all so-called freedom of marriage, men are equal, home is not a place to be reasonable, and daughters-in-law are accustomed to ......There is no way to do it, and it is also the most failed manifestation of society anyway, which is sad.

I think divorce is the easiest thing to ruin is the woman, because when a man reaches a certain age, if he has a successful career, it is still possible to renew his marriage, but once a woman reaches a certain age, she will look old and lose her personal attractiveness.

It is a man, because a woman is reborn after divorce, that is, a woman who faces all difficulties and will see the value and meaning of existence in the world, and chooses to raise children by him.

It is easier to ruin a woman, because women attach more importance to the family, and in general, divorce will hit a woman harder.

I think who to ruin depends mainly on a person's mentality, if they will learn a lesson in marriage, change themselves, and start in a better direction, divorce is not necessarily bad.

The two divorced women around me are both married for the second time, and now they look okay, they have no more children, and their quality of life is no worse than before the divorce. As for their ex-husbands, one of them has made money, and his life is quite nourishing; Another one who came back to divorce a female college student at that time, because she didn't make any money, the female college student ran away and is now poor, but she also found another woman who was not as good as her ex-wife to live with.

It used to be easy to destroy women, but now it's easy to destroy men, and the times are different

Whether you get married or divorced, the one who loses is the one who is weak. It's realistic, but we're living in reality, aren't we?

Whoever has a family will not consider his ex, and whoever has been single will be unbalanced in his heart, and he will slowly become extreme. Except if you don't want to find your next home.

The ex-husband who divorced in order to have a son and the divorced second-married woman gave birth to another daughter