Graduating soon, a confused 20

College graduates are confused and easily deceived.

I suggest that you first find a job and step into the society, enrich your social experience, so that you will gradually know what you need, and then work hard for it, and no longer be confused.

You will also feel fulfilled as you gradually get busy.

Do you really have nothing? At least you still have yourself. Are you really poor?

At least there is only one you in the world, and there is no second one that exists. Now the social competition is very fierce, college students are a big handful, first of all, you have to put a good mentality, the society is a new learning platform, you can work while learning, endure a little hardship, enrich social experience, the key is that you have to make good use of the work time to polish yourself, into a piece of gold, you will definitely find a good job in the future. Face it bravely, who doesn't have a difficult time?

A lot of things are about fate, girlfriend yet, maybe fate has not arrived, I think girls like some hard-working, self-motivated boys, there will be a day, you will meet a girl you like. Come on, come on!

I am also about to graduate, and I told myself that no matter what I do, I will never give up on myself, how is society like that, we are powerless to change, we can lose, don't lose morale. Let's do it together.

If those of yours are not practical, are they philosophically practical? I study philosophy, and I am more confused than you. Hey.

Well, mine is definitely not creative.

Because I'm facing the same problem as you

It's been more than 4 months since I graduated. Still doing nothing at home.

How so? Understands your feelings very well.

Let's talk about the reason why the job is difficult:

First, the number of college students is increasing, but on the whole, there are still very few college students. A large part of them are just so-called college students, just a label that has not learned what college students are supposed to learn at all.

Second: the country's overall industrial structure has caused college students to be useless, that is, many industrial chains do not need college students, but need labor, and college students are definitely not willing to do it.

Third: The current society as a whole is very frivolous, people are very impetuous, they can't insist on doing one thing, and they want to succeed quickly, resulting in a hurry to eat hot tofu. In addition, it is normal for many college students not to know what they want, and basically few college students know what they want.

This age is a time of confusion and hesitation, so you should get in touch with all kinds of new things, find your own interests, and find a direction that suits you. Young people are like this, spending a lot of time wandering and growing up in just a few moments. So, don't feel inferior at this time, don't be in a hurry, take your time, you will always find your way.

In the same way, I also graduated last year, just as confused, and even more confused than when I first graduated last year.