What should I do if I feel confused ahead?

Updated on society 2024-05-11
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's better to calm down and go to the library to borrow some biographical books of celebrities, look at their lives, make a list of your confusion to see what you are worried about, and then think of ways to solve it, because whenever people encounter problems, if they are persistent, then even if it is a small thing, we will subconsciously amplify the problem, but if you make a rational judgment immediately, you will find that it is nothing more than that.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Make a life plan for yourself, a plan for a day, a plan for a week, a plan for a month, and after a long time, you will have your own goals and you will be confused again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Buy a mountain bike, ride around the Third Ring Road for 5 laps and then look at it, I believe you will not be confused again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Chat with friends, go to the mall to buy some clothes, then cook yourself something delicious and get a good night's sleep. The next day was fine.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Take a look at the books that interest you and relax. On the flip side, you've grown a big chunk.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When things are at the worst they will mend. Things work themselves out. It's useful to think so much. Live well now.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Indulge yourself properly, and then you will find out where the road leads.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Go to the hospital, it's best to stay there for a few nights, feel the atmosphere there, and feel good alive.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find something to do and divert your attention.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Rest well, relax, talk to friends, don't always be alone.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Stop and think carefully about where you are, what you want to do.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Be quiet and think about what you want

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Get a good night's sleep and wake up to get things done.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Thinking back to how your number of people came to pass, the confusion ahead will slowly become clear.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Some people eat to live, and some live to eat. You should be the former, so let's eat first.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In life, in fact, we should be grateful for those times of confusion, it makes you understand yourself better, will make you stronger, be brave, friends, try it yourself.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, I want to ask you, do you want to go **? What are you going to do? Why should you go? Then you'll have the power to act, think about it

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Read the book "The Moon and Sixpence".

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Think about why.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When a person is faced with a new environment, the original state has changed, and he needs to make a choice, he is easy to be confused. For example, after the college entrance examination, fill in the volunteers, new students enroll, graduate into the social employment choice, after working for a few years, do not know how to adjust the future direction, and there is confusion in the workplace, etc.

    Confusion is temporary, but at the same time normal. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up. To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself according to your ability and future needs, that is, planning.

    Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step. The goal must not be too big, it should be expected and achievable, so as not to make yourself confused and discouraged, and if you continue in this way, you can get happiness from the success of achieving the goal.

    Goals can be any, such as study goals, work goals, life goals, fitness goals, sports goals, travel goals, skill goals, ......In this way, set a goal, make a little progress every day, and accumulate successful experience, so that there will be gains; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try and you'll gradually get better and feel full.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is normal, as the saying goes, 30 is not confused, which means that the experience of life is slowly accumulated over time. No one will know what the future holds, that is to say, no one is not confused, it doesn't matter if you are confused, the key is that you have to understand what you want to do? Determine the goal and try bravely, go more, try more, slowly the road will come out, and life will not be confused.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because there is no goal, set a goal for yourself in life, and only when you have a goal can you be clear about your future.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because you haven't planned your future before, you feel lost now.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because I don't have an accurate goal, I don't know how to go on the road ahead.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Since there is no life plan, it is recommended that you first set a small goal and then make a specific plan.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think it's because you don't have a goal in mind, you don't have a plan, you don't know what you're going to do.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You don't have a plan for the future when you feel lost, and you don't know what your future holds.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You will feel lost because you have not found the right direction to strive for.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Because you don't have a goal for your future life, and then you don't have the motivation to work hard.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Because you don't have a clear goal, you can make a plan yourself.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Many high school students are confused about the future and don't know their future goals and directions, which is normal, I suggest you:

    1. At present, the most important thing for you is to study, have a good academic performance, and you will have more choices when you graduate. When you don't know what to do in the future, the best thing to do is not to think too much about it and do what you can do well today. Always remember that only by living every today well, will you have a yesterday without regrets and a promising tomorrow!

    2. Communicate with the class teacher, who may be able to give you directional suggestions for your future.

    4. As for hobbies, specialties and the like, it is often natural to determine after you go to college, as long as you are a caring person, you will eventually gain something, so don't think so much now.

    I hope you find the above suggestions enlightening and helpful.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Now the key thing is to do your best: be in good health, study well, have confidence in yourself, believe that I am born to be useful, live and study happily, and don't have to think about so many troubles.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Open Taobao**, be your own boss, you don't have to worry about how much money you want to invest, and you don't have to worry about not being able to operate, the opportunity is for those who dare to try, contact me.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    When you're confused, stop and talk about it, right?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's right to be confused, whose youth is not confused, whose life is not confused. Who can predict what will happen next? No one can predict tomorrow.

    All we know is today and yesterday's day. Strive to improve and learn in the present. There are some friends these days.

    Help each other and remind each other on the road of life. Set goals in life and keep working towards your goals. It's useless to be confused, it's useless not to be confused, you can only do the work and things in your hands.

    The people around you get along well, cut through the thorns and thorns on the way forward, don't set up too many obstacles, naturally you are not confused, there are not so many difficulties, your life is also the market, and there is hope for the future, not so confused now, life is like this, cherish every minute and every second to live a fulfilling life. Happiness, instead of letting yourself fear the way forward in these melancholy sorrows, how to waste time, and become more and more confused.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    People are always at the crossroads of choice, but we also know that many people have a phobia of choice, often have no clue about some choices to make in the future, have no way, are afraid to choose, and even do not know how to choose, resulting in a very confused future life path, not knowing what to do.

    If it's me, first of all, I don't choose phobia, if it's the answer I identify, the choice I identify is that is that, I won't change anymore, and I won't be confused anymore, if there is something I can't make up my mind, I will find a more experienced and educated senior, let him know how to go in the future, after all, the predecessor also came from your time, and you have some worries about his original time. He should give you a good piece of advice.

    In fact, when facing some very important decisions in life, I am not sure of my idea, at this time I will discuss the pros and cons of things with my teachers or my relatives, that is, the kind of people who are more knowledgeable, so as to make a choice, because after you analyze the pros and cons of things, you will have an overall grasp of the choice of this matter, so as not to say how much harm you will do to you in this choice, people generally seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and I am also like this.

    As the saying goes, three stinkers, one Zhuge Liang. This also says the power of many people from the side, if you find one more person to analyze the pros and cons of things with you, after all, no matter how shrewd a person is, he generally cannot be comprehensive, there are always mistakes and omissions, at this time, consult more people, you can avoid the existence of this kind of mistakes.

    If you are confused about the future, don't be upset, but to find a solution, so that you can take the right path of life, if you are in a hurry, but do not care about the serious analysis of the pros and cons of things. If you are really anxious about this matter, I think you might as well put down everything and go on a long trip, during the trip, you will think about a lot of questions, so that the pros and cons of things will come out unconsciously, and it will also relieve your pressure to a certain extent, so that you can kill two birds with one stone, it is not bad.

    And if you don't make a good choice, don't act rashly, don't make any foolish or anxious choices, because those are irrational behaviors, sometimes your life will have a variety of results because of your small choice, so in dealing with the fork in the road of life, you need to be careful and careful with analytical choices, so as to make your life more complete.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    What should I do if I am confused about my life?

    1.I think first of all, you have to figure out what the meaning of your life is, what you live for, what is worthwhile, how to be happy, and then set short-term and long-term goals for yourself. These seem empty, but they are worth thinking about, and when you think about it, you will feel that your life has a direction, and you will not feel so easily lost.

    In fact, I think that if you are healthy and alive, have filial piety, be kind, learn a skill, support yourself, and be able to do these things, life will be meaningful and have no regrets. Confusion is a stage in life, don't pay too much attention to it, at this stage you should observe other people's lives, read some books on life, and then find a goal for yourself, and that's it. Go out and play, read a book, listen to **, watch a movie, just come over this period, people sometimes think crankily, a certain period of time, just find something to do to distract and distract.

    I'm just as confused as you are, alas! In fact, I don't have much hope for my life, because I can't do what I want to do, my life is under control, but I secretly do it myself. There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain The boat will naturally go straight to the bridge It's useless to think too much Just do what you can do now and do what you should do Each other, let's wait together, maybe it will be okay after this I was quite confused for a while, but after determining what I wanted, I had a goal, and I was the same, waiting to grow up, I could only go forward without knowing the end, let him fend for himself.

    One of my famous sayings is to do what you like to do now, if you have the capital. This is something that everyone will experience, we find the direction by ourselves, and now we have said that we will calm down, analyze and analyze, and take every supplement.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Confusion is an extremely ordinary and common thing. When I was a junior, I was also confused to death, I was confused all day long, I couldn't be interested in doing anything, buddy described me in four words - the walking dead! In fact, there are many times of confusion in life, and confusion is not a kind of exercise for the mind, and when you come out of the confusion, you will find that you have matured a lot.

    After graduation, you can find a job to do first, don't ask too high for the salary (because the job just lacks a certain ability to work, it is impossible to want a high salary), you don't have to find a counterpart with your own major (generally it is not easy to find a counterpart with your own major, this is experience, of course, if you can find better), accumulate work experience and social experience when working, and at the same time pay attention to every opportunity that is beneficial to yourself, when you accumulate to a certain extent, you can change jobs! As long as you have real talent and learning, you will have to come soon.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you feel lost, the best way is to do what you can do at the moment, do one thing well, don't think too much, do the things at the moment, accumulate little by little, but also improve your own ability, be positive and optimistic.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Think well and make a long-term and feasible life plan! For example, if you go to learn beauty, hairdressing, shopkeepers, breakfast, etc., start a business, or take the postgraduate examination, or take the civil service examination, start to do it, work steadily, let yourself begin to transform, shine in life, and the ugly duckling will become a golden phoenix! Good luck!

    Good luck!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I am very confused about the road ahead, this is when I am young, maybe everyone will experience this time, you don't have to make a decision in a hurry, you can allow yourself to spend a period of time in this confusion, during this time, not to indulge in confusion and searching, but to do some small things in a down-to-earth manner, to recharge yourself. What I particularly like, what I always wanted to do but didn't do.

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