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1. When you meet the other party, don't ask about things that you don't want to mention 2. After helping others, don't make a big deal about it to a third party 3. Expose less of people's shortcomings and praise each other more sincerely 4. Remember the details in the process of interacting with the other party For example, when you order food at dinner, you can say, I remember that you don't seem to like eating fish, right? 5. When persuading the other party, you might as well empathize with each other 6.
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When guests come, they greet them with a smile! Say hello! Welcome!
Ask how many of them come to dinner, and many of them will take them to the bigger table! See for yourself! What kind of tea is there in the restaurant?
There are a few words to ask them what kind of tea they like to drink, and help to flush and pour tea. Are you familiar with the menu? Ask them what they like to eat and help them order!
After ordering, ask them if they need some drinks and wine! At this time, you are also familiar with drinks and wine, and you must also know their ** and types, so that you will not know if you are asked by guests! If you don't know, you will have to deal with it, and make excuses for the guests to accept you!
If you want to toast with them, it's not easy, right? One reason is enough to wish them good health and happiness. That's it.
You don't have to toast with them. If they are happy to eat and want you to have a drink, you can do it! Eat happily and they will still come later.
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It's very simple, go to more parties, see what others say when they hold up their glasses, read more social books, and communicate with people more, listen carefully to other people's words, social is practiced, not to say that you can succeed overnight For your love, work hard!!
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See more, listen more, learn more, do more. Nothing is difficult. Believe in yourself.
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Distance produces beauty, persuade you not to go, if you really want to go, practice the amount of alcohol first, and be ready for quarrels.
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If you go through a little more things, you'll understand.
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Boost self-confidence: Improving self-confidence is the key to enhancing social skills, confident people are more likely to attract the attention of others, and leave a positive, cheerful impression on others, and can improve self-confidence by exercising their skills, dressing appropriately, etc.
2.Develop good interpersonal skills: including communication skills, presentation skills, listening skills, sharing skills, etc., through continuous practice and improvement of these skills, you can better communicate with others.
3.Reflect on your own and others' behaviors and attitudes: Understand how you behave in social situations and what others think of you, and think carefully about and learn how to improve your own behaviors and attitudes when you find yourself having problems.
4.Participate in high-profile social activities: Participating in various social activities can help you better understand different groups of people, various social rules and etiquette, and improve your social skills and social experience through practice.
5.Expand your social circle: In addition to participating in social activities, you can also expand your social circle by participating in clubs, volunteer activities, and online social networking.
In short, improving social skills requires effort, and it requires continuous learning, practice, and improvement, and continuous improvement of one's social skills through practice and reflection.
Actually, I was the same as you two years ago, just out of school, I was really shy at that time, sometimes I would blush when I spoke, and then after a year or two of training in society, I felt that I was really stupid at the beginning In fact, there is really no need to be shy, people have nothing to fear! It's just that I haven't experienced anything at the beginning, I don't understand anything, as long as I have experienced it, everything will be free, I hope you are the same as me. Self-confidence is not something that will be improved by a few words of encouragement, only if you have really experienced something or something, everything will pass, and slowly you will understand that what I said is right.
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