My husband is still in touch with his first love, did I quarrel with him? 40

It's not okay for me to quarrel, you have to make it clear to him, explain that he is now a family person, don't contact his first love anymore, both parties are married and have families, that will affect the family. So don't contact again.

I think so! You are sad and you are sad, you feel that your husband seems to have betrayed you and doesn't care about your feelings, so you feel that your efforts are not worth it, and then your husband, what he did really badly, can you give him a chance? Then it should be strictly controlled.

I can see that your husband still loves you very much.

Husbands and wives are most likely to be suspicious of each other, and there should be more trust and tolerance.

And after all, your husband has had a period with his former girlfriend, and he can't say that he can do it so ruthlessly.

After you found out, he also confessed.

If he had a ghost in his heart, he would have deleted the chat history a long time ago.

So for this, you should start today to set a rule for him, let him do it according to your ideas, everyone negotiate a way to deal with it, and you have to get out of this matter.

As long as you and your husband have a good relationship, it is impossible for others to intervene.

What I am most afraid of is that if you have internal conflicts, others will have a chance to take advantage of them.

When you encounter anything, you must think of a solution, and don't cry and quarrel, which will only lose points for yourself.

If you want your husband to compromise 100% and find an effective way without communication, there will be a crisis in such a relationship.

I wish you a happy family.

Dear, you Yan'er is newly married and pregnant, this is a double happiness. Although your husband chatted with his first love once, but, judging from the chat history, there was no ambiguous information, and the girl said "treat her well". You want to:

If your husband has a ghost in his heart, he will delete it after chatting, and he won't let you use his phone to help him play games, right? But this time it is a good thing for you, find out their contact as soon as possible, and eliminate the unfavorable factors in the bud (not yet budding, haha), so that your husband will understand your bottom line in the future, and people will swear to you: I will not make this kind of mistake in the future, only love you and the baby, and accept it when you see it, don't entangle, that will make men disgusted.

I wish you happiness!!

Men just like to flirt, but also self-inflicted, you can ask him mobile phones, communication software, etc. to be completely open to you, no privacy, if he agrees, and has always maintained, it proves that he has changed, otherwise you have to be careful.

Personally, I think that if this happens, then you should ask him the reason and ask him to promise that he will not look for his first love in the future.

You should lose your temper with him, and if you keep in touch with him often, it proves that there are still some feelings between the two people, and you have to lose your temper to make him change.

Should. Because this behavior of the other party is very incorrect, it is a sign of disrespect for you, so you should lose your temper with the other person.