My best friend of 10 years is about to marry a man who is 23 years older than her, and now she is 47

Updated on society 2024-06-13
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There is no gender difference in the world of love; There is no distance of height; Of course, there is no age for it

    So if that good friend of yours really chooses him, I think you have to support her and bless her

    Understanding her is what you have to do right now

    I don't think she's a brainless person either, and I think she should also know the current situation of his future husband, so I.

    I think she has also thought it through, every woman will not be very stupid and stupid to pay, if she knows not.

    As a result, I don't think she will turn back without your persuasion

    I don't think your friend will be impulsive, maybe that's the power of love, the two of them originally.

    Are you going to be together??

    So what you have to do now is to bless her and understand her, and I think that's what she needs the most right now. Yes

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're fooling up! ~

    It's not that people haven't thought about it, otherwise, they won't agree to get married.

    Besides, if you can't afford to repay the loan, you still have a daughter;

    Your friend is young and doesn't worry about the future...

    Feel relieved! ~

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't think most people will be optimistic about such a marriage, you think, that man is so much older than her! There will be a generation gap in the future! And the man's daughter is so old, even if he has a child in the future, the man will inevitably have a relationship with his ex-wife, well, what kind of man is not good to love, I want to find a man who is half old in everything!

    Let's think about it, marriage is a joke! If she doesn't get along and divorce in the future, her reputation and psychology will be greatly reduced.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love has no age limit, and if they really love each other, then what's the defense.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Feelings and things know no boundaries, so why stop them if they really love each other. But let's be realistic, they won't have a good life in the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First things first: as a good friend you definitely want to dissuade her from making unwise decisions now. Because the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear.

    It can be seen from the man's lack of money to buy a house that your friend did not marry him because of his money, in fact, your friend will be more painful in the future, after marrying him because of love, what should he do if his husband leaves first after a few good days, she will suffer for the rest of her life! The greatest happiness as a woman is to be able to marry a good husband. Personally, I think that if the man loves your friend, he should reject your friend, so that he can really love her, and loving someone will not selfishly make him miserable!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A man with a family is younger than you, do you dare to marry him if he continues to develop? Will he do to you in the future what he did to her wife? Think it out for yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Life is about living beautifully! Live with some responsibility and dignity, and would rather be a chic goddess than a vase for decoration! It is a man's responsibility to earn money!

    Women earn money is value! Being beautiful is an advantage! Living beautifully is the skill!

    The best way to love yourself is to be yourself!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Youth is limited, and it's time to think about your future. He can't give you a home....

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you go on like this, your whole life will be over, hurry up and leave, find a suitable one.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Leave, don't destroy someone else's family.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If it's been together for 26 years, it should be your dad!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Big is nothing, he has a family, you have to find a more suitable one.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You already have the answer, just do it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Do you have a paternal complex? Why do you love to be someone's junior?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't really want to answer this question in the hope of giving you an answer, but hoping to get an answer from you.

    I don't doubt that you say you love him very much, because I still haven't come to the conclusion that I understand what love is, what it means to love someone.

    I know that love is different in everyone's heart, and what you get from other people's mouths is not necessarily suitable for you, but still, I'm still looking for answers, and I think you can give me an explanation that I haven't seen before. I actually believe that love can transcend many objective realities, but what happens after transcendence? Our feelings can ignore age, health, gender and even time, but the carrier of every emotion, people, is still living in reality.

    No matter how passionate the love is, as long as you don't want to turn into a butterfly like Liang Zhu or follow the couple to another world like the chivalrous man in **, you will always have to live in reality in the end. In real life, love alone is not enough, there must also be family affection, friendship, and all kinds of interpersonal relationships. What is the status of love relative to these feelings?

    I think you have your own answer.

    I would like to talk about my view of love, I think love is a summary of life, and it can only be defined at the end of life. In this way, I can avoid doing a lot of things that I can't explain in the name of love. FYI.

    I wish you happiness. ps: Actually, I also want to say that love is not just happiness, it must contain a lot of pain and pain. A mature man is a fertile soil that has been cultivated, and he can easily reap happiness; But the work of overcoming obstacles and cultivating land is part of the whole love.

    You just want to harvest, that's not to blame, but the harvest after struggle may be more cherished than the direct gain, I think.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    So irrational, he is almost 60 years old, what can you get from him, once the children know about you, the evening is not guaranteed! Hurry up!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

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