Is the love of a blind date reliable, and is the love of a blind date reliable?

Updated on society 2024-05-12
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This one cannot be generalized. Relatively speaking, the love of childhood sweethearts has an emotional foundation, and the interests are light, and the blind date is very pragmatic from the beginning, to see the economic conditions, appearance conditions, educational qualifications, character conditions, etc., and then slowly cultivate feelings, during this period the bond between the two is mainly reciprocal, of course, this interest is not only money, but also the ability to take care of each other, satisfaction with life, expectations for the future, the degree of difference in living habits, etc., In short, such a love or marriage becomes easy to measure in terms of things (real or imaginary). And there is an emotional foundation, there are good memories of the past and the fit of life habits formed together for a long time between the two, relatively speaking, they are more able to withstand the test of life crisis, and those who come together from a blind date are more likely to fly separately in a big disaster, the most important thing is that the blind date itself has a great probability of failure, because two people are not necessarily suitable, but this is not suitable for you to get along to a certain extent to find out, so the blind date itself is not so reliable, so many people have to meet many times.

    This is also the reason why it is now popular to fall in love first and then get married. It is recommended that if time permits, you should fall in love for two years and then get married, in this case, there is no problem with the blind date, but it is not reliable for you to check it yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It takes a long time to get along with each other to know whether it is reliable or not, and when you meet you, you want to ask if it is reliable or not, and it must be unreliable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Reliable, because it's in the middle of nowhere, you meet him, he meets you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Personally, I don't think it's reliable, after all, love depends on fate.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It depends, the key is what you think of him or her

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think that the blind date should be rented scum should first fall in love and have feelings before determining the relationship, two people can first contact each other, understand, and then slowly develop into a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, not first determine the relationship between men and women, and then go to love.

    So how should we treat blind date love?

    1. Don't be too anxious.

    Falling in love is a matter of two people, not your one-man show, so you can't be too anxious when you fall in love, because it's useless to be anxious, don't do something radical in order to be able to confirm the relationship with each other.

    When falling in love, girls and boys think differently, boys care about the result, while girls enjoy the process, girls want to fall in love with boys stage by stage, so boys must not be too anxious when they fall in love!

    2. Be careful when giving gifts to girls.

    When many boys are in love, in order to brush up their favorability, they will give girls some gifts, which is correct, but you should also pay attention to the choice of gifts, according to the girl's preferences. You should also pay attention to your financial ability, if you can't afford to give expensive gifts, then it is also a good choice to choose some handmade gifts that can represent your heart.

    3. Take the initiative to create opportunities.

    When a man is in love, he must learn to seize every opportunity that can promote the relationship, but if there is no opportunity, then he must create opportunities, such as often asking the other person out for dinner, movies, weekend plays, sending her home from work, etc., and try to create opportunities to be alone.

    4. Hide from her He went to meet the opposite sex. Love is exclusive, exclusive, exclusive, in love should be honest with each other, whether there is affection or no feelings, you should tell him, not hide to meet another person who has a good feeling.

    5. Do things that go against the principles. Everyone has their own principles, and when men and women fall in love, they will also involve values and outlook on life, and they will also tell their beloved half about the principles, and they should pay attention to avoid doing things that violate the principles and hurt each other's feelings.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on whether you have met the right person, if you meet the right person, then it is reliable, because the phase liquid is bright, the other is noisy, this is all knowing, safer, if it is the right person, you can enter the marriage faster, in fact, it is quite reliable, if you have not met the right person, you can imagine, the blind date love reputation is unreliable.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Blind date is just a way to get to know each other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The relationship and marriage obtained by blind date feel more reliable. Because Nianhong has already learned about each other's family and economic situation when they are on a blind date. With a clear understanding of the material conditions, you can choose whether to continue or not.

    In a relationship, the most important thing is to keep running in.

    1. It is more reliableNow blind dates have become the mainstream of young people falling in love, and many people can only get rid of singles through blind dates because of their relatively small circles. When parents introduce the other half of the family to their children, they often explain the conditions very clearly. If you are satisfied, you can go to meet you, and if you are not satisfied, you can also refuse directly.

    Although there are some materials for blind dates, it is also a very good way for material conditions to add points to each other. When going on a blind date, I also pay more attention to the eye, if I don't value the other party, this relationship will not continue.

    2. Don't have particularly beautiful illusions about love Since you have found the other half through the blind date, it can show that everyone is satisfied with the other half. As long as two people can talk and have the same three views, it will be smoother in their future married life. There are many women I have watched too many idol dramas, and I have a very beautiful fantasy about love, and I feel that I must be a prince charming to save myself.

    But a long-term and stable marriage must be the progress of two people together, and they will pay for each other.

    For young men and women of appropriate age, you can try a blind date and don't have too resistant attitudes. If the other person is very sincere, you can also try to be together. Whether it's a blind date or free love, the most important thing is to look at your own maintenance.

    If two people are just because of their looks when they first get together, but there is no way to maintain any shortcomings in each other, it must not be a real love. There are many people who find their other half through blind dates, and their lives are very happy, so everyone must learn to look at it correctly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When a man gets married and a woman gets married, when he reaches the age of marriage, if he doesn't have a partner, the family will be anxious, urging you to find a partner, and he will also find someone to introduce you to and help you arrange all kinds of blind dates.

    Blind date is just to put two people with suitable conditions together, so that two people from knowing each other to getting married, maybe the other party is not the type they like, no heartbeat, no feelings, no true love, but not very annoying, just get married, this is more common.

    Blind date, how can there be true love, most of them are coping with things, the time to get along is short, not to fall in love with you, but to consider too much external conditions, it is difficult to find true love, but blind date is still one of the ways to find the object, from ancient times to the present, maybe you can find true love.

    I don't think there's a natural perfect fit, true love is honed in motion. Liu Yufei said that it is difficult to have a "Prince Charming" in the world, and a blind date can help you eliminate some unsuitable people, and you may also attack Rankai to shorten the time for you to find the most suitable person and meet the right person as soon as possible.

    Although Liu Yufei thinks that blind dates can meet true love, she feels that blind dates also have drawbacks, and there are elements of camouflage in contact in a short period of time, and it is possible to enter the marriage hall without knowing each other well enough, and when facing the contradictions of reality, it will not be able to support it for too long.

    Many people say that love begins with appearance and ends with character, and the same applies to blind dates. Dong Yue, who also went to university in Shandong, also believes that blind dates can meet true love.

    Blind date can find a partner who meets their expectations with the help of relatives, friends or intermediaries, compared with "free love to marriage" has a better choice, after meeting the initial expectations, it takes less energy to adapt to the run-in through blind dates, "In summary, blind dates can find a partner who meets their expectations in less time, and true love can be better cultivated under the blessing of this expectation."

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    With the busy work of people now, more and more people do not have time to choose the object of love, they usually start to think about love after doing a good job in their careers, but when people start to think about it, they will find that they have not had a lot of time to fall in love, but should immediately understand a person and enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible, this situation has promoted the prosperity and development of blind dates, let's discuss together, in this situation is the blind date to get love reliable.

    I can only hold a neutral point of view on this issue, because half of the people think that the love obtained by the blind date is very reliable, because the love obtained by the blind date has given themselves and the other party a relatively basic understanding when they are on a blind date, and they have learned about their material conditions, family life, economic status and other aspects. Because people have to rely on material things for the next step of survival and development in later life, it is more reliable to consider whether to take the next step after understanding a person's material conditions. Now blind date has slowly developed into a major way for young people to fall in love, because now young people have less time and everyone is active in their own circle, and the circle is small, so there are fewer people of the opposite sex who can understand, so people have to be able to get rid of the single through blind date.

    In fact, blind dates are more reliable under certain conditions, because blind dates are mainly parents who introduce the other half of their own family to people with similar conditions. People are able to get to know all the basic conditions of the person before they get to know each other, and if they feel that these basic conditions meet their minds, then they can meet up and have the next step of the conversation. If you feel that you don't meet your requirements, you can directly refuse.

    Blind dates are more material in terms of certain conditions, because people always look at that person's education, economic conditions, work and other aspects. But blind date also has certain drawbacks, if you have embarked on the road of blind date, then don't have a very beautiful fantasy about love, blind date is a process of two strangers slowly running in and merging in later life and finally becoming a husband and wife, it is not as sweet and romantic as the love experienced on the college campus.

    The above views are personal opinions only, and we apologize for any errors.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Reliable, there are many demanding people who are willing to find their other half through blind dates, and this kind of person is generally picked by our parents, so the conditions will be better.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think the way to get love on a blind date is still more reliable, because through blind dates, you can better understand the economic situation and family status of both parties, and better choose the other half.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Personally, I think that in the current situation, I believe that the love you get is unreliable, the two of you have no emotional foundation, and you will have a lot of problems in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1.The blind date is not very reliable, because the two people have never crossed paths before, although after the introduction of the intermediary, but still only understand a little bit of the other party. And most of the current agents are introducing the advantages of others, and they will not specifically check how many previous relationships he has for you.

    It is difficult to meet love at first sight on a blind date, and people who go on a blind date are interested in some external family conditions. It doesn't matter how many times you've had a baby.

    2.In the past, the probability of success of two people on a blind date is still very large, because the woman is affected by traditional education, it is difficult to have too much understanding of boys, but our fathers also came over like this, although the current blind date also inherited the tradition of the past, but now the psychology of girls has changed, they have their own standards for choosing boys, and they also have their own ideas for boys. What they seek is material freedom and spiritual satisfaction.

    3.I think the current blind date is not as good as online dating, at least two people still know some about online dating, unlike blind dates, they don't know anything at all, and the two people are just looking for black dates with their eyes. Blind dates seem to be to meet parents' requirements for finding a partner for themselves.

    And online dating is different. Two people at least know a little bit about it, and now the network is so developed, you can voice chat and ** call at any time, two people can also meet each other, although it is not as formal as a blind date, but it is still very free. At least there are no traditional constraints, and the two people can get to know each other better.

    In short, you can still find true love on a blind date.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Blind date is a traditional form of marriage, and people who meet on a blind date may have different personalities, backgrounds, habits, and beliefs, among other things. Therefore, whether it is reliable depends not only on the blind date itself, but also on whether the person you meet through the blind date is sincere, faithful, respectful, and understanding of the other person.

    Some people meet the right person through blind dates and marry at the expense of Pilly, but there are also some people who have misunderstandings and disagreements in blind dates. In fact, during the blind date process, one should enhance understanding each other by communicating, understanding, and communicating with each other, while maintaining an attitude of openness, acceptance, and respect for each other. If you don't feel suitable, you can refuse to continue the blind date and avoid getting married for the sake of marriage.

    I believe that blind dates do not guarantee the reliability of the relationship, but if the other person is taken seriously, understood and respected, it can promote the good development of the marital relationship. I once met my other half through a blind date, we exchanged and communicated in the mutual pin, and gradually found the advantages and attraction of each other, and finally developed mutual feelings, and we are currently in a good relationship.

    Summary: A blind date cannot completely guarantee the reliability of the relationship, but through mutual understanding, communication and respect, the good development of the marital relationship can be promoted.

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I'm glad to answer this question for you See your description of this question My personal opinion and advice to you is this: First of all, you describe whether you need to confess when you meet on a blind date, and then see your description below, You have known each other for more than a month, and you have met six times, but you feel that now, two people can't break through that layer of relationship, and they have been getting along with each other like ordinary friends, and you want to break through this layer of relationship, and you are thinking about whether you can only break through after confessing, or continue to get along with ordinary friends in this way Your description of this problem Well, first of all, confession must be a very good thing, and it is a very formal ceremony, right? Yes, you know each other on a blind date, and it proves that the two of you don't hate each other, at least, because there is still a certain difference between blind date and falling in love, and falling in love may go from a colleague, from a neighbor or from a classmate, to a good friend, from a good friend to a boyfriend and girlfriend, and it takes a process to determine the relationship, and the blind date is generally going to get married So since two people can talk for more than a month, and you have seen each other six times a month, it proves that you have a good impression of each other, and if you want to break through this relationship, it must be that you are in a hurry, so my personal advice to you here is not too abrupt, too abrupt to confess, and suddenly say, hey, do you want us to be together, then the two of you are now together Because you are in contact with each other after a blind date, you are both rushing to get married, and the two of you are going to meet now with that feeling, but what There's no real development, not even holding hands, not hugging, these are the things, I think you shouldn't rush to confess now, and don't get along with this ordinary friend, but make an appointment, don't think about it so much, just talk to him casually, don't take him too seriously, the more you take it, the more nervous you are, the more you don't know how to talk about it, talk about life, talk about something, get in touch more, let you both get to know each other, and then you can tactfully say to him, hey, you see we've been in contact for a while, what do you think of me, you go and ask him like this And then if he asks you in turn, you just say to him, hey, I think you're pretty good, and then I think you're quite suitable for me, and our values should be very compatible, and I still like you, and I like you like this, and I say it, and I think you're not bad, so you say, for example, I think you're good, then you say, well, should we confirm the relationship now, and then give me the opportunity to let me protect you, let's two of us together, one style, say this, so to confess, Ji has confession, and also expresses his feelings, this way is still relatively easy to accept So I personally think it's better for you to do this, and the above is my personal answer and advice to you, I hope this answer can solve the confusion in your mind, solve the doubt in your heart, and finally wish you life

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