I feel uncomfortable and want to quarrel, why is it so uncomfortable to quarrel with my beloved?

Don't be too depressed, it may be your thoughts caused by a bad mood. It's not abnormal, find something to do, listen to songs, and take a walk.

Will arguing solve the problem? Knowing that being vexatious will make him ignore you, it's even worse, not only does it not solve the problem, but it is even worse. Let's let yourself be quiet, take a walk and relax, or something! Let the worries go away!

I wish you all the best in the new year! Happy New Year's Day!

Miscellaneous and miscellaneous are the same as me

Sometimes because of one of his looks, he will feel that he will change his mind.

So he always deliberately gets angry and quarrels, just to make him pay more attention to himself.

Actually, it's nothing, it's just that I care too much about the other party.

—！Gains and losses, all because you care too much about him

Try to think of other distractions

There are many beautiful things in life besides the so-called love.

And 、..Give it to me、:-

A few yelling in a place where no one is around, and you'll feel better.

This is love, and if that's what makes you sick, you're actually very sick.

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Hello, quarrels are inevitable, if you want not to feel uncomfortable after a quarrel, you can only adjust yourself and try not to quarrel with others. Think of it this way: it's someone else, not yourself, who is unhappy after a fight.

Therefore, it is others who are unhappy after a quarrel, and they should be happy. "When you think about it, you feel a lot better. ”。

You can also think of it this way: if others are not happy after a quarrel, but you are happy after a quarrel, it shows that you are open-minded and kind-hearted. ”。

In short, it is someone else who is unhappy after a quarrel, and you should be happy. ”。When you think about it, you're in a much happier mood.

If you can think like this often, then your mind will become more and more open-minded, your mood will become more and more comfortable, and your body will become healthier and healthier. ”。

What should I do if I quarrel with my friends and feel uncomfortable inside?

Hello dear, arguing is a hard thing to experience, but there are some things you can try to help yourself feel better: try to relax your body and mind. Try breathing exercises, meditation, meditation, or walking.

Try to identify your emotions and thoughts and write them down. This will help you understand your feelings and find a solution that works for you. Try to reconcile with a friend.

If you feel like you can, talk to a friend about your feelings and try to find a better way to deal with the conflict. Find support. If you find it difficult to cope on your own, seek help from a friend, family member, or professional.

Hopefully, these suggestions will help you. Remember, it's normal to quarrel and not every conflict leads to the end of a friendship. It's important to know how to deal with conflict and learn from it.

Summary. Hello dear, I see your question and understand you very well. There will inevitably be some misunderstandings and friction between the two mouthfuls! Now that you're done arguing and you're feeling uncomfortable, you can go outside for a walk or talk to a friend, which will ease your negative emotions.

Hello dear, seeing that the stool leaked your problem, it is very reasonable and coarse to understand you. It is difficult to do training between the two mouths, so there will be some misunderstandings and frictions! Now that you're done arguing and you're feeling uncomfortable, you can go outside for a walk or talk to a friend, which will ease your negative emotions.

Hello teacher, I have been with the object for 4 years, he has always loved to play and ignore the home, so far we have no house or car, the temper makes the hail more and more bad, every time he quarrels he does not realize his fault, we have been divided and combined many times, this quarrel said that it is good to break up and get together and disperse, last night after I went out to scatter Qi slip Zhaobu, and he locked the door and did not let me in, and then I called his uncle ** to persuade him to open the door, and then it was opened, this kind of man can not rent a high body, I won't have a good life together in the future.

In the past few days, I have been looking for a house and moving immediately.

After his uncle found out about the situation, he sent me a message, "Teacher, I'll send it to you, you tell me to give a better reply to his uncle."

Wang Juan, I didn't rest last night, okay, you have to do things during the day, right? Listen to my uncle's words, because since I know you, it's also a kind of fate, what about me, I also talked to him for so long last night, I also talked about him, I said about him, I said that you are a man with a tendon, you no matter what, a girl has been with you for four years, right, don't always look at his shortcomings, be a man to see his advantages, change to think, anyway, don't think so much, really, because you are all young. You must choose the right person for yourself, I am also a man, let me tell you this, a man must protect his woman, if this is not a vertical point can not be done?

I don't want you to be together, you know what I mean? Be sure to find a man who pampers you, protects you, loves you, cherishes everything you have, that's the key, you know.

This is a message from his uncle to me, we had a fight last night.

If his personality is really like what you said, I think you should revisit Zhaoxin to assess whether he is worthy of being able to stay with him for a long time. Keep your eyes open before the result, and open one eye and close one eye after the result.

I feel that I have been very committed to the round game for so many years, and I have nothing so far, and the other party is still complaining about the simplicity of the gods, and a man who has no responsibility and no motivation has advised me to leave now It is not too late, otherwise it will be painful for a lifetime.

Marriage is a big thing for a woman, and if this man doesn't even have a sense of responsibility, he can't love his woman. What do you want him to do?

You can reply to Uncle Senchi: I am grateful that Uncle Xie can say such straightforward words, your language makes me feel a lot more comfortable! I will recognize you as a good uncle for the rest of my life!

It is difficult for me to have a future with him, I want to find someone to rely on, not to find someone who breaks my heart every day.

Hello friends!

When it comes to the question of the meaning of life, I think many people should be confused about God or Remnant. After all, in today's society, there are more and more choices, but it is this diversity that makes many people not know what to do and how to choose, and then a new word "choice difficulty" was born.

People who know what they want to do in the future from an early age are in the minority after all. Many people gradually find their own positioning in life in the process of growing up and experiencing.

Now when you encounter a little thing, you may be irritable, upset, and want to cry, which is a catharsis of your emotions, but it also reflects your inner sense of uneasiness, full of fear of the world.

I think maybe there's a picture in your heart, you think of it from time to time, and that picture makes you very frightened, helpless, and overwhelmed, or you can say that there is a psychological shadow of hail, and you want to jump over it, but you can't do it.

Or maybe you are too lonely, you see the colorful life of others, you are very envious, and you want to make a change, but you can't take that step. And then in other aspects of life, such as a quarrel, it will make you confused, with a lot of ideas, but your ability to act is too poor, and you are dissatisfied with yourself, so that you can't find the meaning of life.

What is the meaning of life, and who am I for in this life. There is no set answer to such a question. Perhaps, as you try to live each day in the present, you already have the answer yourself.

Finally, I wish you a happy life, no matter what, the world and I love you!

Because you care about her, what you really love may not be the most deserving, the most worthy of love, and the most correct person to love, but just a person who makes you forget and can't help but love.

Love is not for being loved, not for the sake of being loved, but only for love. You don't lose your love because you haven't been loved, it's in the heart of the person you love, not in the eyes of the person you're loved.

There is no pattern to love. Different people, doing the same thing for you, you will feel a world of difference. Because what we care about is often not what people do, but only people who do things.

Love is in the heart, not in the mouth. Scum Li never mentions that he loves you, not because he doesn't love you, but because he loves you too much. I love too much, and I am afraid of hurt; too much love, so willing to suffer; Too much love, so it's easy to miss love.

There will inevitably be friction with their beloved, and if they don't even quarrel, then their road will come to an end!

Because of attention, disadvantage because of love.

Discord with the other party.

Make the other person sad.

Who would not rent a defense with sadness.

The beloved only wants to give him (her) the best everything, good memories, and the best love, not to bring pain and desire to hurt.

Because you care about her and love her

I feel that the noise is too early, which will affect her mood

She'll be sad and won't be cautious

That's why you're not happy

Oh wide pants feast

Go and coax it

I think I can understand you because I do that a lot.

Different people must have different views and practices on many things, and it's normal to not be able to figure it out. However, it may be more understandable to communicate more with people, especially to be able to think from the perspective of the other party.

I don't think you like arguing with people, and you don't convince the other party or let the other party convince you after the argument, so not only does the matter not get resolved, but you make yourself unhappy.

So, I think, you still have something to do first. Do something that interests you and can divert your attention and energy, so that you can have a sense of accomplishment and happiness. Secondly, even if there are some differences with the other party, as long as it is not harmful, there is no need to be more serious; If you feel that it is necessary to express your opinion, you don't need the other party to accept it, just say it for reference.

That's because you expect too much from yourself and others, or you care too much.

Hello friends! Learn to give up, let go of what should be let go, and let go of the heart to be relieved. When your heart is tired, give your soul a vacation.

The eyes should see more beautiful scenery, the ears should listen more to beautiful sounds, and most importantly, they should pay more attention to appreciate beautiful things. Our hearts will not get tired.

When you're in a bad mood, you can look in the mirror and say "I'm beautiful, I'm really beautiful", "I'm handsome, I'm really handsome" and all your worries will be gone.

When you're in a bad mood, you can yell a few times;

When you're in a bad mood, you can go shopping and buy food;

When you're in a bad mood, you can sleep, fall asleep, and run away with all your worries;

When you're in a bad mood, you can go inside and ask, "Why are you in a bad mood?" "Let someone else help you;

When you are in a bad mood, you can also call ** to tell your friends, think about so many friends who care about you, can you still be in a bad mood?

When you're in a bad mood, you can listen to songs, and you can read some motivational books.

There are many ways to do it when you're in a bad mood, it depends on your personality and hobbies

It depends on why you are in a bad mood, most of the bad mood situations that want to quarrel are because the frustration you encounter makes your self-evaluation lower, so the self becomes very fragile and sensitive, and some casual words of others will be intuitively perceived by you as a provocation or attack on you.

Quarrels are motivated by self-protection or a counterattack.

There are many reasons for a bad mood, but they all have one thing in common, that is, they need to vent their negative emotions, so wanting to quarrel in this situation is a form of manifestation. In fact, there are many ways to adjust your mood, and you can take some ways not to hurt others, such as sleeping well, finding a few friends to OK it, and so on. The most important thing is to have a good mentality, not to blame when encountering problems, not to be frightened, and to be in a good mood.

Hello, when the mentality is not good, it is a normal psychological phenomenon to want to quarrel, everyone is depressed or short-tempered, some emotions in the heart will have nowhere to vent, so when there is nowhere to vent, you will want to vent through quarrels. But if you use a quarrel to get rid of the dotted line, you will not only hurt others, but you will also hurt yourself in the end. So be sure to adjust your mindset in the right way.

You said I was here.

For example, when you are in a bad mood, then you can listen to songs and don't do things that upset you. Silence yourself and don't communicate with other people.

Or talk to your good friend about the bitterness in your heart.

Or use distraction methods to distract yourself.

Question: I don't know why I see my boyfriend in a bad mood, always want to quarrel with him but I don't want to quarrel with him, sometimes I see him in a bad state of mind, answer is he did something that makes you unhappy, everyone will not get angry for no reason, you have to find the problem, you can solve it