I have a very good, very good friend who was confused in his high school life

Well, as a junior high school sister, I don't know how miserable high school is.

But our school is a residential school, and we can only go home once a week.

Now that school is about to start, it's even more miserable aaaa><

Okay, back to the topic, I think this sister will be too much pressure to study.

Well, do they usually hold on to their school? If it's tight, you must sleep more at night to replenish your energy Also, you can call him once a day or every day or two**Talk to him well, let him open his heart, and tell you some dull things Good friend. Will she be isolated at school?

What kind of personality he has, these are all factors. If you are isolated, you will naturally have low self-esteem, decadence, etc., so, sister. You must understand your friend, of course, you can't ask rashly, don't let him definitely not say, you have to mention it inadvertently and then understand.

Ahh Be sure to call him regularly!

Then as for what to say, you can ask him about his situation at school, his daily study, his daily habits, and talk about some sunny topics this year.

Call her more** Let's talk about it, it's always better to have friends who care.

Don't talk to her about sensitive issues, talk more about happiness.

Talk to her and encourage her to try; And then I woke her up (it varies from person to person), high school life is not a big deal, we are very young, there are a lot of opportunities to do it again, just do it.

Needless to say, just do it! Cowardice doesn't work! Care, nothing else can but look at her!

Hit her often. Encourage her.

It's better to have a little buddy. At least someone cares when you're sick?

In fact, high school life doesn't want to be junior high school anymore, it is more mature than before, unlike before, the whole age is a friend, maybe high school needs one or two bosom friends, until the real growth of friends!

Cycling is a great hobby, both for exercising the body and mind, and for sightseeing excursions at a small cost. It is recommended that you stick to it, regardless of whether your friends insist on it or not. You're sure to make friends with other riders.

At the same time, pay attention to take good protection: such as goggles, sun hats, water bottles, cold weather and knee pads.

Some people like rock climbing, some people like mountaineering, and some people like adventure. There are also people who like bicycles, there is nothing wrong with life, only likes and dislikes, if you love, please love deeply, and ignore the eyes of others.

Try to make new friends who are in a good overall state, for old friends who are not doing well, help if you can, keep a proper distance, try to make friends with hobbies, so it is relatively simple, now society is changing rapidly, it is impossible to have forever loyal friends, in addition to their own relatives, to achieve to recognize.

First of all, you can realize that you are a perfectionist, which is very good, so you have to be clear about a problem, you pursue perfection, so you want the people around you to be perfect, but people are people after all, not gods, so they can't be perfect, so you will be like Big Brother to educate others, how to become the perfect person you think, so use your straightforward language to tell others how to behave.

When doing this, you have to think from the other person's point of view, he is also a thinking adult, he does not want others to tell him what is right and what is wrong, this approach of yours may hurt the self-esteem of friends, sometimes good friends have to make their own suggestions, but choose the right time and choose the right occasion.

So adjust your attitude first and avoid blame.

Don't be like an old girl.

I think it has a lot to do with the personality and experience of the landlord, so I have time to talk to a psychiatrist. You can also contact me.

In fact, this kind of life is very fulfilling, isn't it, wait for a few years, when you graduate from high school, you will never have such a fulfilling life in the future, even if you are tired now. I'm also a freshman in high school, and I'm tired too, but you have to think about your parents, think about your dreams, and most importantly, think about your future children.

Ahh!。h But I'd better be serious, ahem.

There's a saying that's pretty general, but it's generally good. "No one is seventeen forever, but there is always seventeen." A large part of the world's psychologists devote their lives to the study of the problems of adolescence.

From an academic point of view, this stage of emotional development is at its peak, but the intellectual development is not sound, and the gap and conflict between the two create a lot of problems in adolescence. Well, I'll admit that I didn't listen well in class, and I really don't remember clearly... But, I'm a little bit sure that's not what you're trying to hear, hehe.

High school life or something, it's really hard to judge anything if you're not in it. What is right, what is wrong, what is justice, what is evil, these questions have been asked since the birth of human society. So far, there is no answer.

I also don't want to analyze your life and state because it feels like I'm looking at my former self. A friend told me that you just think too much. It's a bit of an escape, but most people are running away from this problem.

How the others are, whether it is the same way, I have no idea to ask and **, unless I will sit in the seat of the examiner in the future.

Eh, I found out that most of them were talking about myself... Well, the only thing you need right now is something that you find fun. so！I recommend you to see Gintama hahahaha!! You're actually here to recommend anime, right?

It was very loose because there was no draft.

The world itself is a contradiction. We are now exchanging our physical and mental health for money, and we will use this money to ** our physical and mental health in the future, and people's lives are so contradictory. Even so, you can't use the word "cheap" to describe it, it's a contradiction within a contradiction, so there are some things you don't care about, those things will make you become like a headless fly, try to be yourself.

Also, I want to get to know you.

In fact, due to the limitations of China's education model, high school life is indeed very boring. However, everyone is the same, and if you can't resist, you can treat it well. Work hard for three years to get into a good university.

In order not to regret it in the future. Do a good job now, when you are sentimental, you might as well think about what you want to do in the future, and what dreams you have if you have a vacation. Plan ahead.

High school, in retrospect, was quite fulfilling and simple.

I can understand what you are saying, because I also came from that time, and it is normal to have a lot of homework in high school, which is the tone of all schools, and this is why high school is tight and college is loose. In fact, many things are decided in your own hands, for anything depends on how you treat it, happiness is actually very simple, just between your thoughts.

I feel that it is a tacit understanding, and the tacit understanding between two people may not be known to them, but it is natural for others to look at it.

If one of the two people has a sense of superiority, while the other has an inferiority complex or other uncomfortable feelings, it can be judged that the relationship is not good.

Whether you can listen carefully to each other, listening carefully is an important part of friendship, and it is related to whether you can think about each other.

The simplest point: whether there is something uncomfortable with the other person.

Gentlemen's friendship is as light as water is the best, people get along more with each other will definitely have problems, in the said, friends are friends, and relatives, lovers have a different relationship, please treat them differently, don't treat friends as relatives, let others treat you as relatives is a big mistake, it's wrong, there is that kung fu, it's better to be with mom and dad, wife, husband, children, when the key time is still these people work, friends such a relationship or don't look too seriously!

Friends, one is a friend, one is a communicative.

You don't have many friends, but he can help you, and he won't encourage you to do things that are not good for you.

It's not the same with friends, you can share ups and downs, and become strangers when you need them.

Friends can't see the old saying: see people's hearts over time, know people and faces, but don't know their hearts. The human heart is separated from the belly.

It depends on how you resolve conflicts of interest! Look at his tolerance and trust in you. I once caused a friend of mine to drop out of high school, which we made an appointment, but then I was rejected by my study and parents, and she dropped out, but she still kept me very good, told me anything on her mind, and often chatted and went shopping, which was very good.

And usually when we go out to play, we take into account that I am studying, and basically we are not allowed to spend any money, even if I invite me to eat, it is very economical for me. I guess that's what friends are!

The easiest thing is to borrow money and give it a try.

I'm ,.. the opposite of youIt may not be able to help you, but seeing your experience, I am really moved.

I didn't study in the first two years of junior high school, and I studied for a year in the third year, and there were almost 400 people in the city who could go to the key points, but I was afraid that I would not be able to pass the exam, and I applied for the second high school, and I was admitted to the third place in the second high school, and now I am in my third year of high school, about 100 in the city, and I was the first in the grade in our school, to be honest, I took the first place in the first grade for three years, which had a great impact on me, if I had not applied for this school and had always been the first in the school, to be honest, I might have been a completely different person. I'm not saying that my experience is good, I feel that my experience is not good, although the teacher has been holding it in the palm of my hand for the past three years, and the school has provided me with a single room accommodation, my temper has changed a lot, and I am very confident.

But I feel that if I had reported the focus of the project, I would have been hit and not taken seriously by the teacher, but I might have achieved much more in the future.

Didn't your grades improve? Not enough accumulation.

I feel like that, you feel like you're trying hard.

Heheda, just like a student in our school's ordinary class posted that our class sat down at 5:15 every day and finally took the grade 1 down

I'd love to say a word to him.

I'm in a class The class next door to us and our class are key classes, and the whole class next door sits together every day No one else has anything to say, and he is embarrassed to say.

To give this example is to say, you feel like you're working hard, you're trying to the limit.

Actually, it's still not hard enough. For example, your limits may be about the same as the minimum requirements of others, so be yourself.

Hey, I'm still resting at home, and there are 60 days left in the college entrance examination... I originally wanted to take the Harbin Institute of Technology.,It's estimated that if you can't pass the exam, you should take the Zheng University.。。。 Sighing.

Same as high school students, don't panic, I'm from Zhejiang, the kind of school that is the only focus, you are the first, you can talk.

Because you are good in school, it is normal to be bad in the first test, and you are in a hurry after the test, and your mentality collapses, and the more you take the exam, the more you break down.

It's only a freshman in high school, high school is not as terrible as you think, brushing questions does not necessarily produce results, hard work does not necessarily have results, the important thing is to slow down your mentality, take your time, and no results can be shown by short-term efforts Besides, everyone has different talents.

Ay! Grades! There's no way in this world Data scores make all the difference! But don't think about it! I've also taken the countdown test! In short, I am satisfied! It's good to find the best for yourself.

I've been like this since I was in junior high school! You can try to make more friends, you also have to have your own circle of friends, you can also make good friends in the class, you and her can still be good friends, don't care too much, there is a feast in the world, you can't be together for a lifetime.