What to do as a high school student without a good friend

If you don't have friends in high school, it may be that you are more introverted and not good at taking the initiative to meet and make friends. If you want to get friends, you can only have friends if you take the initiative. In fact, if you really want to make friends, you don't have to do it deliberately.

Although I would play with my classmates in high school, but I was not a good friend, because they would ignore me, at the beginning I would care about them very much, just deliberately catered to them, in order to integrate into them, I often bought them small gifts, to help them do what I didn't want to do, but it was useless, and it was really tiring to make friends like this, so I didn't care about it later, and slowly I missed my good friends in elementary school, although we were not in a high school, but in front of him I could be my true self, We don't see each other often, but we keep in touch privately.

If you live on campus in high school, you may feel very lonely if you don't have friends with you. If you don't have friends, then there are a lot of reasons, is there your own personality is too high, alienated from others, or for other reasons, if it's not possible, you don't want to be alone, maybe sometimes you feel lonely, no one with you in class and out of class, no one to eat with you, maybe no one to help you bear when you're unhappy, but a friend is not so casual will have, if you really want to find a friend, you need to treat others with your heart first.

In fact, the most important thing in high school is to study hard and get admitted to a good university, as long as you work hard enough and are good enough, then you will naturally meet the real friends in your life who are good to you。Because after going to college, you will find that the level of the university is directly proportional to the excellence of the students next to you, don't think that the key universities are some introverted and boring students, when you really integrate into the circle of these people, you will find that they are not only smart and good at studying, but also very capable.

Even if you don't have friends, you can learn to get used to living alone, because in the future, when you work or go somewhere else, your friends can't stay with you forever. Human beings have to learn to adapt to something new every time they go to a new place. There is no need to fit into the people of this circle, because you do not belong to this circle and do not have much in common with him, friends are not a necessity, as long as you love yourself enough to be better than anything else.

I had very good friends in high school, and I would be with her almost no matter what I did. Between classes, after dinner, we walk around the campus holding hands and talking about interesting things or our confusion and sadness. I just want to say that I was really happy at that time, and I had such a friendship.

When I went to college, my roommates were very nice people, and they would help you warmly when you had difficulties, and they respected and understood each other. But after about a year, I really realized that my roommate was just a roommate, not a friend. People who have different hobbies and personalities in all aspects have a kind of embarrassment of having nothing to say when they walk together, because what they say has no resonance on both sides, and as a result, it is better not to say it.

I am now accustomed to studying alone and eating alone, from the initial reluctance to enjoying solitude. Of course, sometimes with them. If you can't change the situation for the time being, just relax and don't be overly anxious, because it may be that you haven't met the right friend at this stage, and it doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you in the first place.

My solution is to change my mindset and not build my security on others. Don't feel lonely or even embarrassed by a person, when you have a goal in your heart that you are willing to fight for, you have to understand what you want, what you want when you come to high school, broaden your horizons a little, in the long run, you will know that in fact, no one can accompany you for a long time, the normal state of life is a person, think about this more, you don't care if you have friends.

What's the problem if you don't have friends, your classmates are all paper tigers, and what you need to learn is how to sneer at them coldly at the class reunion after graduation. I'm that kind of person, the first year of junior high school.

2 years, 3 years of high school, I had friends at that time, so what, I have my notebook as a companion, a library as a companion, and a fantasy companion. I never mind talking to myself, imagining that I could see the elves and talk to them. It's not scary to have no friends for three years of high school, because when you go to college, you'll find out how beautiful the world is with just yourself.

I think as long as you are honest with everyone, your friends will definitely appear, don't feel that it's a strange thing to have no friends, don't feel withdrawn, just try to find something you like to do to satisfy yourself.

When I was in high school, there was a girl in my class, who was very quiet, didn't like to talk or laugh, and studied very diligently. She is alone every day, always knows what she wants to do, and does not care about other people's opinions. On the evening of studying farming, I quietly asked her, do you feel lonely when you are alone every day?

She lifted her head to read a book and smiled at me, not lonely at all. In fact, I know that she can't be lonely, she has an incomparably powerful and rich world in her own heart, she lives strong and proud in her own world, and she does what she has arranged to do all the time, and she doesn't even have time to be alone. I envy her, but I can't be her.

I can't have a heart as strong as hers, but I can learn from her to work hard to enrich herself to fight loneliness. We will inevitably have times when we are vulnerable, helpless, and confused, and although friendship is warm and beautiful, it is sometimes absent and unwilling to appear. When I was lost, I ran round and round on the playground, trying to adjust myself and cheer myself up.

When I'm at a loss, I choose to read a book, or start executing my plan right away, so that when you're busy, you won't be so confused. In short, if you can make a close friend, it is a great luck, and if you can't, you will work hard to precipitate yourself so that you will not be swallowed by loneliness.

I think you should look for the reason within yourself and try to open your heart and take the initiative to make friends.

I can only say that you haven't met the right person yet, friendship is sometimes the same as love, very, very hard to find, I have almost no friends in elementary and junior high school, but in high school I met two confidants who can be called lighting up my life. Therefore, no friends is actually a very common state, the kind of polite, superficial friendly relationship between people, in my opinion, is not called friendship, you will soon be separated because of the school, chances, industry, etc., and will never see each other again except for a friendship once every few years, become a friend in WeChat. You don't have to rush for a while, you can meet real friends in the future.

When we were young, we had a lot of playmates, because at that time, when others were willing to play with us, we were willing to play with them, and we didn't think much about it when we were young. When you grow up, there are some people who you don't look down on and don't want to play with them. Some people don't look at you and don't want to play with you.

In fact, there is nothing to be sad about, which shows that everyone's three views are gradually developing, which is normal.

Teach you a way, catch someone you think is good and go to him often, and the annoying person will become your good friend. Personally experienced, but I was the one who was annoyed, and I was really annoyed by that person at first, and then after that period of time, I felt that it was okay, and then I became good friends.

You can take the initiative to make friends and then blend in with them.

A "good friend" is someone who shares his or her goals.

This person, in some ways (attention!) It's some, but not all) has the same views as Kai Shimo, so he talks to him the most ......As a result, he and he can become good friends.

This kind of friend is also known as a "confidant friend".

Although the friendship of confidants is beautiful, there are too few people who can become their confidants.

In fact, it is very rare for a person to be able to find a good friend in his life, ......Many people have not found a like-minded person in their ...... life

Therefore, it is normal and not unusual for you to reach high school and not make a good friend.

At the same time, you have to recognize one thing: you're just in high school right now, and you're still very young!

High school students, only sixteen or seventeen years old, seventeen or eighteen years old.

At such an age, it is too young!

A person's life should take at least seventy or eighty years. ......As a result, high school students are only about a fifth of the way through life and have ...... to rent manuscriptsThe experience is still short, and the future is still long.

Therefore, I still have a lot of time to make friends and find my confidants and friends.

So, now that you haven't found a good friend, you don't need to worry. ......As long as you study, live, and socialize according to your normal state, you may meet someone who shares your goals at some point. ......At that point, you'll have found your best friend......

I don't have any friends at school, and I need to find a reason: I am withdrawn and don't like to socialize, and I don't like to get along with others, so I don't have friends to play with. Or they are selfish and only think about themselves. No one wants to be your friend.

So what should I do if I don't have friends at school? Share the following:

1. Improve your own quality, learn to be humble and respectful to others, and treat others politely.

2. Communication is the foundation of building a good relationship, and you need to improve your communication skills with others.

3. Overcome your own psychological obstacles, talk to people more, and actively participate in various group activities.

4. It is necessary to correctly deal with the contradictions between friends, empathize, and consider problems from the perspective of friends.

If you don't know how to compromise, be humble, and don't know how to care for your friends, it's also a reason for being unsociable. In addition, students with poor academic performance and always lagging behind, unable to hear praise, always feel that they are holding back the collective, dare not associate with good classmates, are easy to self-isolation, and are invaded by loneliness and loneliness, resulting in boredom in school. Children who enter adolescence will feel insecure without friends in life, and they will feel bored without playmates, and when they face loneliness, learning is not an important issue for them.

Everyone needs to have their own friends, talk to them about things they can't talk to adults, enlighten each other, help each other learn, and make progress together.

Hello, when you are in trouble, there are one or two trembling manuscripts that can really help you, and those who are true friends.

Friends don't care too much, they can help you when you need help at a critical moment.

Friends are also fate, and they can only be met at the right moment when they are in harmony with each other.

And you're still in school, so you have the opportunity to meet close friends in the future.

The road of life is still very long, you are only a high school student so far, it can be said that your life has just begun, and in the future college life and work will definitely meet friends who are more suitable for you in all aspects, maybe they are good friends of the same thing, maybe they are good friends of the opposite sex. At present, you should focus on studying, study hard, strive to be admitted to your ideal university, and then look for friends who share your interests, and finally wish you success in finding friends with whom you can talk.

It's okay if you haven't made a good friend in high school, because you just entered high school and don't know much about the relationship between your classmates, and you are all newcomers and new things, so you can make real friends with your own true feelings and kind hearts.

You must know that good friends themselves are difficult to meet, one person is brave, and two people are companions. In a person's day, try to live every day, and strive to become a perfect acre of Younian Senxiu, I believe that in the future days of the macro calendar, the people around you will definitely not be bad. Come on 0

Don't worry, bosom friends are precious, but they can't be found, and if you are too anxious, you may not be able to find a good one. Maybe I found it when I was in high school.