What to do if you are abandoned by everyone around you 20

I can only tell you one thing:

Interpersonal communication is like a mirror.

Treat others as you would have them do to you. Not all people have abandoned you, it is you who have abandoned all of them first.

Advice: Be honest with others. You smile at others, and they smile at you. If you care about others, they will care about you. If you pretend to care about others, they will only make superficial statements with you.

As long as you don't abandon yourself!

Find yourself and others will be very optimistic about you!

Likewise you won't be abandoned again!

It feels like you're not adapting to a new environment!

Try to change yourself!

The problem is in itself!

Hehe, then you have to review yourself, I'm not used to seeing people, but I look at it pleasing to the eye, and I really make friends with the same purpose, so I have no friends, only brothers.

The human heart changes with the times, just as a plant adapts to the climate. By grasping the current situation, we can grasp people's hearts, and then control people's hearts. Whoever has an opinion, please speak up.

As long as you don't give up on yourself, it's okay.

If someone abandons you, you have to look for the reason first, and if you have a clear conscience, you don't have to care.

Just keep working hard and do your own thing.

If it's your own problem, you don't have to talk about it.

How could it be! It won't be all, so there's no answer to that question.

If you feel like you're being completely abandoned, or have been abandoned by everyone, you first need to face your emotional and psychological state, accept the reality and seek access and resources. Here are some suggestions:

1.Find support: Find someone to talk to, or seek help and support from a professional counsellor.

2.Make connections: Look for ways to connect with others, such as attending social events, joining online communities, joining volunteer groups, and so on.

3.Self-examination: Seriously reflect on your words and actions, examine whether your behavior is appropriate, and see what you can do to improve and improve yourself.

4.Change your mindset: Encourage yourself to have a positive mindset and develop a healthy mindset to deal with setbacks.

Most importantly, try to start over and give yourself a new opportunity and endless possibilities. At the same time, learn to let go and forgive, not to take things to heart, but to follow the flow and gradually rebuild relationships and trust.

When you feel abandoned by someone else, it is actually the other person who suffers the most. Because he has lost someone who loves him very much, and you are just missing someone who doesn't love you, sometimes you will find the person you trust the most, teaching you not to trust others easily. And the person you love the most has taught you not to be easily tempted, in fact, you have to learn to let go.

Human beings are supposedly social animals and need interaction between humans to meet their psychological and material needs. Extroverts are willing to interact, find happiness in the process of interaction, and find the information they want; Introverts, on the other hand, have less interaction and are less likely to find the information they need, so they are comparatively less happy.

Whether extroverted or introverted, if it is always a living environment. For example, I get up early every morning to study, I have endless questions, I don't have time to do what I'm interested in, and I don't communicate with others. It didn't take long for his mood to change dramatically, and he was very annoyed and irritable.

At this time, you need to change your lifestyle and change your state. That's why there is a saying that the combination of labor and rabbit makes every day happy.

There is no essential difference between the strong and the weak, the difference between them is whether they can cross the gap in the face of pressure, the strong if they can, and the weak if they cannot. I don't think anyone wants to choose the weak, so the only way for us to solve it is to release this pressure to be strong, to find someone to talk to, to our own life group.

Here I want to tell you a story, there is a man who said that I will change the whole country in ten years, and the country is still the same after ten years, and it has not changed at all; He also said that it took me another ten years to change my nation, and another ten years have passed, and the nation is still the same; He also said that it would take me ten years to change my tribe, and the tribe has not changed after ten years. In the end, he said that it would take me ten years to change myself, and after ten years he found that the country had changed, the nation had changed, and the tribe had changed. In fact, his country, nation, and tribe have not changed, and it has become just the mentality of this person.

He went from being a negative person to an extremely positive person. We are the same, the environment is the same, but the mentality of each of us is different.

Both the poor and the rich are happy and unhappy, but everyone understands the definition of happiness differently. I am a poor person, I have a job I like, every day I am striving towards my goal, after work I have a lot of friends to share the beautiful night with me... And my colleague is very rich, he has played where he should play, he has eaten everything he should eat, he has no goal to pursue now, he is forty years old and he is not married yet (he was too attentive when he was young), and he complains to me every day that life is boring and there is no direction to live.

Who do you say is happier? Happiness and unhappiness are self-founding.

If life is monotonous, change to another way of life; If you feel that you have few friends, go out and find friends, learn to dance, learn to skate... If you feel pressured, find someone to talk to, and it's all up to you. No one will abandon you, only yourself will abandon yourself.

Be kind to yourself, without anyone, life must go on, and be happy for yourself.