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1: Life is one's own, and you don't have to measure your life by other people's standards. Trying to make everyone like you is futile and irresponsible to yourself. It's impossible for us to satisfy everyone, because everyone has their own different standards.

2: There is something that makes ** forget to return, and it also makes people happy. One moment you can have the world, and the next you can have nothing. With so many people following one after another, how many happy endings are there? Laugh so sweetly in a fairy tale.

3: Everyone has a bottleneck period, a period of extremely low mood, just get through it.

4: One day I hope to understand you, but also understand the joys and sorrows of this world, accompany you to walk a thousand sails, still be able to do not mess up, may you work hard all your life, be loved all your life, may you have what you want, and let go of what you can't get.

5: Be cruel to yourself, force yourself to work hard, and in another five years, you will be grateful to yourself for being ruthless today, and hating yourself for being lazy and inferior today.

6: It has been said that happy people are silent. I couldn't understand it, so I asked a friend, and the other party replied calmly: Because happiness is never compared, if you compare it with others, you will only feel that you are in a sad situation.

7: Auspicious wind, blessing to run, New Year of the Rat, universal celebration, Wishing you prosperity, auspicious wishes, enjoy joy, health and happiness, reunion, happy and happy, good luck in the New Year, everything goes well!

8: Sometimes you are misunderstood by the people around you, you don't have to explain to him anymore, since he doesn't believe you, why do you have to explain. Even if you explain that you won, you can't win the trust he has in you. I feel that this sentence makes sense!

9: Feelings don't believe in tears, people who really love you are reluctant to let you cry. If you don't have feelings, it's useless for you to cry blind.

10: I plant love in the spring, irrigate with the scorching summer, feed with frost and autumn, and you will live in the winter, and we will be white-headed with the wind and snow; The people of the past have the meaning of their appearance, but don't be too obsessed. The people of the past are good in the past, but the best is still the one around you.

11: I will try my best to become, and you will regret not cherishing it when you see it in the future; Don't make yourself so tired in order to cater to everyone, try to make everyone happy, you will forget how you should laugh.

12: Ending, different actions write different lives. In life, there is actually a light in everyone's heart.

No matter what the setbacks and darkness are, it is important that faith is not erased. Turn around, change your mind, no matter how dark it is, no matter how much people carry it, it would be good to have a light in front of you.

13: When you feel that it is difficult, tell yourself: hold on a little longer, and don't let down the hardships and trials you have experienced.

14: There must be cracks in life for the sun to shine in. We have always been very averse to snobbery, but human society has always been snobbish, and it will not change that, and in another 100,000 years, if human beings do not become extinct, they will still judge a person by their appearance, clothing, goods, and income.

That is to say, when you are with others, you must not talk about them behind your back, they are all good words, and you should protect them together with your confidants.

I think that the words of a person's confidant behind his back should be a confidant and a white head, and it should be understood as two people, a bosom friend relationship.

The main meaning of this sentence is that people say some confidant words in front of people, and they don't necessarily say anything behind their backs.

Some people behind him have confidant words, but they should know that the new communist is white. It means that this person has a good character, he is not being said ill of you behind your back, you want to share your head with him, but it depends on fate.

This was said by Lin Daiyu at that time, it should be that he heard a person say something very in line with his heart, and he hoped that this person and him could be a confidant until he was old.

There is a word called prudence, which means to observe a moral character even when there is no one. This is a bit of a similarity, I didn't say sweet words to you in person, but behind the scenes, it seemed very real.

The people behind him say that they are confidant, but because of their confidants, they are white-headed. It's just that as long as you trust each other, recognize each other, accept everything from each other, and grow old together.

It is said by later generations, knowing the heart, but Ying Zhixing is white-headed, this sentence is that you should not say bad things about others behind your back, you should say good things about others, so that you can go far together.

The person behind him said that he was a confidant, that is, what he said behind his back was a kind of truth, and what he said in person was not necessarily true, and the latter sentence was to say that if he knew his mind, so that two people could be white-headed and old-headed.

My understanding of this sentence is to say that the words discussed behind the back, some may be from the heart, but this kind of heartfelt words, basically people who are old with their heads will be able to believe it.

Behind the scenes, people know their hearts, promise to know their hearts and minds, how to understand. That is to say, only the wrong person behind the back can speak in his heart, and the person who should know what he thinks in his heart can go all the way to the end of the day.

The person behind him says that he knows his heart, but he should know that his heart is white, which means that if two people want to know each other's hearts, then they need each other's hearts.

In the end, people say that they know their hearts, but they should know that their hearts are white. The person behind him speaks to his heart. Only intimate people can say something together. Confident words to know your people. Only those who know each other can be white-headed.

What he meant was that I wanted you to understand each other's feelings, and then you could feel some kindness from others, and I think that's the case.

Someone behind the back said that you can talk about the heart of the heart, and the white head can be a friend who keeps going.

I say that I know my heart, but I should be self-confessed, how to understand? It's about the people behind it, you should say people's words, you shouldn't say bad things about people, the heart of war is white-headed, that is, two people, if it's a harmonious heart, you can be white-headed.

What I mean by this is that when they are together, whether in person or behind their backs, they can think of each other and be able to speak to each other.

This sentence means that what people say in front of them is not necessarily true, but what they say behind their backs is true, so if you believe in each other and know each other's hearts, you will be able to grow old together.

Say the words of the heart, but how can the words of the heart be white, sometimes it depends on the mood of others, understands the intentions of others, and just says it.

Let's just say that behind the scenes, others are saying that they want to tell the truth, but everyone still has to understand each other.

I just helped you find out the meaning of this sentence, that is, you must have a heart-to-heart relationship with your beloved.

The person behind the back says that he is a confidant, but because the heart is white-headed, which means that although he is talking behind his back, the better heart can be white-headed together.

Well, this sentence means to say confidant words to people behind your back, but you should know that you should think of it from the bottom of your heart, and you want to grow old together.

How to understand that people behind their backs really tell the truth, but they can only say that they are with others and their lovers, and grow old together.

There are many people who say bad things about people behind their backs, if they still say good about you behind their backs and sincerely express their love for you, then this person is saying the truth and really likes you. If you like such a person, then you are really a very good pair of bosom lovers.

My understanding is this, it should be a confidant, and it must be the two of us who say it behind people's backs. But they both know in their hearts that they can share a white head.

Talking about confidants behind their backs, this is a very good model of husband and wife relationship (but obviously not husband and wife), or friends confidant and white-headed means that there must be friends who can understand and speak confidant words until they are old.

You can say confidant words behind your back, but you should know the meaning of the white head of your heart, that is, you can only say confidant words in the back.

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If you hear him say bad things about you for the first time, I think each person thinks differently, so the attitude towards things is different, and you don't have to care about everyone's opinions. And what we have to do is to calmly analyze the reasons, our reaction should not be too intense, first judge whether there is a conflict with this person before, whether we have offended others. As long as you do things right, you don't have to pay attention to other people's opinions.

Because only the little ones will slander others behind their backs.

Some people just want to mess with me, and when I'm angry, they're happy, and if I hold back, they're the ones who get angry, and I've had this experience, and then they may find it boring and never mess with me again.

When I go out and am bitten by a dog, do I still think about how to fight back against the dog? Some people, there are some things that don't need to be taken into mind, so why should they care. We must firmly believe in the sentence "good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in April".

You say that yours and I live over mine, I just hope that they will realize that they have accumulated some virtue in their mouths. A stomach full of heartache and pain will eventually become better and make you good enough, maybe this is the growth to bear.

Silence is golden, you must endure it first, and when he feels bored, he will not slander me. If I can't take it anymore, I can vent at home, say write it down on a piece of paper and tear it up.

If anyone does not offend me, I will not offend anyone, but if anyone offends me, he will be punished even if he is far away. I believe in this statement. If I don't speak, it doesn't mean that I'm a good bully, you say that I can't let you bully without a word, I will fight back bravely, you have to let people know that you are not someone who can talk casually.

I don't care about people who say bad things about you, because people who are really better than me don't even bother to compare me to me, and they don't have time to spend time on me, let alone go to great lengths to slander me behind my back.

I don't care much about what others think of me, I do my own thing, it's good to have a good conscience, if I make friends, I talk very little, I divide my friends and ordinary friends, people outside, I put my heart into others, people say I'm a fool, so I have to look at the villain around me and stay away from her.

I won't deal with this kind of person, I have to learn to be tolerant, even if I scold back, it will only make the two of them more angry. Let go and be happy every day.

Be yourself and don't pay attention to others, only those low-level people who are jealous of you and envy you have time to do these small actions, I don't care what low-level people think of me, and I don't disdain it at all.

Ignore them and live your life.

As the saying goes, "Who has no one behind their backs, and who doesn't say anything behind their backs?" Therefore, in the real life, we are not perfect in ourselves, and the situation of being said "bad things" behind our backs will happen from time to time, so should we "treat others in the way of others", or should we consider "if you can't bear it, you will make a big plan, and endure it?"

Today we are going to talk about this topic.

Pursue a plain and comfortable love life.

Hope it helps.

Feeling the feelings of purity and loyalty! Plain and long-lasting, a lifetime together!

Time flies, from meeting each other to knowing each other, the reason is that Jiaqing is accompanied by hahaha.

Sensual girls generally need you to care about her, chat with her, eat and eat.

I dazzle you with this bit of intelligence, true feelings are white-headed, from the beginning to the end, you can't understand what is written so clearly? Your IQ is not as good as a girl...

Senior brother: **The true meaning of the end is unknown, and I can't explain it. There is a knowledge of truth and goodness in the book "Lectures on the Theory of Faith", which promotes the righteousness of Ma Ming Bodhisattva. If the senior brother is fateful, he will definitely be able to understand it.

What the senior brother asked, as far as the last knowledge is known, is as follows:

The original mind should be true as the body, and it doesn't matter whether you are aware or not. Enlightenment is because it was in a state of unconsciousness before that, so there is "enlightenment". If there is no ignorance in the first place, there is no "awareness" at all. Therefore, awareness and non-awareness are matters of the sixth consciousness.

The knowing mind is the sixth consciousness, which is born when the root of the mind touches the dust of the law, but it is only when the eighth consciousness is hidden and the seed of the conscious mind flows into the conscious mind that the conscious mind is born. "Consciousness of the Mind and the Dharma as Dependent Beings" only means that there is an eternal Truth (such as Lai Zang) behind the outer edge, which is the root of all Dharma.

The phase of the cause is the six dusts. However, what can be touched by the conscious mind is not the outer six dusts but the inner six dusts: the eighth consciousness is like coming and hiding the corresponding objects, and the inner six dusts are manifested for the six consciousnesses to come into contact with.

Among the Eighteen Realms of Dharma, it goes without saying that the six roots and six consciousnesses are our own Dharma (not things outside the body). In fact, the six dusts are also our own Dharma, and the inner six dusts are realized by coming into contact with the outer six dusts, not things outside the body.

Therefore, the arhats can destroy the eighteen worlds and attain nirvana. If the six dusts are external to the body, the arhat will destroy the mountains, rivers and the earth when he takes nirvana.

As above, we can know and know, and we can all be born from our own hearts, and we can't hide them outside our hearts.

Awareness or non-awareness is a matter of the conscious mind, and has nothing to do with the eighth consciousness. However, there is no dharma that can leave the eighth consciousness. Therefore, it is said that it is not the same and not different.

Nyorai (alayya) is the mind that is in direct contact with the outer six dusts (our conscious mind has never been in contact with the outer six dusts, but can only touch the inner six dusts: for example, the color dust, the outer color dust that actually appears must be an upside-down image, and what we see is an upright image.) ）。

However, when the alayas touch the outer dust, they do not distinguish the cognition, but only manifest the same inner six dusts like a mirror, so that the six consciousnesses can be separated from each other.

Wisdom alone is the way for bodhisattvas above the beginning to become Buddhas. It is the ultimate righteous law. Buddhism is the same, and the bodhisattvas on the earth say that there is only knowledge, and there will be no two meanings.

If it is said by ordinary "intellectuals", "Buddhist researchers", "philosophy professors", and "Buddhist historians", of course, there may be various "family opinions", "intellectual thoughts", and so on.

Another: Among the Buddhist scriptures, the third turn @ @的唯识诸经, the number is smaller: "Ranga Sutra", "Deep Interpretation Sutra", etc., the song is high and low.

Although Maitreya Bodhisattva's "Treatise on the Land of Yogis" and Xuanzang Bodhisattva's "Theory of Enlightenment" are detailed, it is impossible for scholars to go deep before they become enlightened. Bodhisattvas above the beginning of the earth in the world are extremely rare, and if the bodhisattvas on the earth want to learn only knowledge and wisdom, of course, they must go to the inner courtyard of Maitreya in Tushitian and study with Maitreya Bodhisattva; Or the land of the Buddhas who have been reborn and studied with the Buddhas. You don't have to study on earth.

Therefore, many profound righteous dharmas do not exist in the world.

Nan no Master Shakyamuni Buddha.