I fall in love with someone, but he has a child who is confused, please help me

In fact, the stepmother is the most difficult thing to do, you are strict with the child and he hates you, regardless of the child's words, others say that you don't care about his and his ex-wife's children, it's not kind. It's really hard to grasp the degree of this. So many people are miserable as stepmothers.

Love is great, but it will eventually be dull. Life is just life. So, don't make a choice and regret your naivety.

You should consider whether you can afford to handle all the things that will arise. If you can't, give up early. If you believe in yourself, stick to it, and try to communicate with him and his children when you think about it.

Some children still understand it very well. Some of you will always be just a stepmother no matter how good you are, and he won't even look at you squarely.

The child is not guilty, you should have seen the tragic experience of many children after having a stepmother and how pitiful a child without maternal love is.

Think about it as a small life, you really can't bear it.

If you really love him, this shouldn't be a problem, you say?

To really love him is to accept everything from him, and if you choose to be together, you must be kind to his children and accept everything from him. Otherwise, don't be with him.

Be a stepmother... What does his daughter think of you? Can it accept you? If she can accept you, it's half the story!

A woman is 5 years old when she gives birth to a child, and you don't have to give birth to a daughter and earn it!

Why him? Can't you do without him? Think about it before you hand yourself over, okay?

Not everyone can be a good stepmother, because it is a psychological struggle, and you need to be fully sure that you are better for yourself, isn't it? Why bother looking for someone who is looking for trouble for the back half of his body? Think about it and wish you happiness

Hehe!! Then accept his daughter !! After a long time, there will be feelings !!

The hall refers to having sincerity. No matter what others say, you have to be good for him [her]. From the details to move her [him].

You don't need any heavenly alliance sea oath, it's plain. Remember a lot of important holidays. The details of Fu Ling's life.

Let yourself slowly blend into him [her].

When you meet someone you really like, you won't be confused, because if you really like someone, you can't help you at all, what else is confused.

Intentions are the most basic, and when you love him or her, I think you should also increase your personal charm.

Don't just blindly love him, but also let him notice you, do it obviously, but don't say it all.

You have to love life, you try to like someone!

This is a question that needs to be considered in the long term. First of all, are you sure you like her? Which one is it?

Simple friendship between friends, or do you have thoughts and pursuits between lovers for her, or is it in between, and you can't figure it out? This is crucial, don't confess to her at the beginning, it's wise to be friends for a while. In this way, in the process of dating her, you can not only understand each other, but also further determine what kind of feelings you have for her, and you can also see whether she has a good impression of you.

When you feel that the time is ripe, that is, you are sure that you really like her, and she has a good impression of you, then you will be sure to act. So I want to say that if you like someone, you don't necessarily confess to her right away, the key is to get along, and it's never too late to act when you get along.

Hope you're all right!

If you think you can still be friends, you don't want to change the status quo, if you feel that you have to be one step closer to her, I suggest you be mentally prepared, to know that her ideas are not difficult, you can find people around her to understand indirectly, you can also send her a bouquet of flowers, wish her more and more beautiful, you can even jokingly say to her, what if you fall in love with her one day. There are many ways to do this, as long as it's not too direct and prominent, you can try it.

I'm afraid of losing face, confess to her directly, I'm afraid that I won't be qualified to fall in love if I am rejected, I look young, and if you wait for another ten years, you will definitely feel ridiculous about your current mentality, if you like her, chase it....Hey, I'm scared.

You can ask her friends what she thinks of you! Or be nice to her, look at her reaction, if she is estranged from you later, she will show that she has no good feelings for you!

Let's take our time, care appropriately, keep in regular contact, and confess to each other until we are familiar with each other to a certain extent.

Are you having an extramarital affair? If so, it will feel better in my heart.

If both of you are single, I support you in confessing. Even if the confession is unsuccessful, the bottom line is a stranger, isn't it?

If you say that you love him or her, you are willing to do it for him without asking for anything in return. Please understand what love is.

Of course, it's good to have it!

But if the other person doesn't love you, or various factors can't be together.

I think if you really love that person, you want him to be happy.

Even if the person holding him is not you ...

But how many people can do it? Because human instincts are selfish, especially emotionally.

There is a premise, the premise is that as long as that person is happy, it no longer matters if you are not by that person's side, if you can, I hope you can protect that person for the rest of your ......life

Mine is just for reference.

I think the answer is already in your mind, so why bother asking others.

Your own answer is the best ......Isn't it.

Work is very important for girls, girls will not give up their jobs easily, because if she does not have a certain economic status, she can't even support herself, she will think that she has no status and is supported by others, and the girl herself is bound to live under the eyes of others, that is to say, eat other people's food and see other people's faces live, which is something that most girls are unwilling to, and there are many reasons why the girl in the story is unwilling to give up her job, 1The girl doesn't believe that your love is so deep, because deep love is rare in reality, she is worried that she is supported by you, living under your control, it is not easy to have a job, she does not want to lose her independence 2Girls don't love you as much as you love her, and I think the best thing to do is not to tell her that you raise her, but to find a better job with her, and if you can find a better job for her than she is now, she will agree to change jobs.

As a woman, it is not easy to meet a man who truly loves herself, it is very rare in this world, and it is not easy for a man to meet a woman who truly loves her, so don't give up easily, as a woman may not be easy to believe that a man's love is true, because after all, this kind of love is very rare, and a woman may also turn her back on you and associate with other men, but after some experience, she will understand who loves her the most, she will regret that she did not choose you, she will want to return to you from the beginning, then she will cherish you, This is the psychology of most girls, so really love, don't give up easily, if one day the girl really leaves you and marries someone else, you should also bless her, if you really love her, you will do this, don't be too sad, you have to believe that time can help everything,

Career doesn't matter. Character is the most important thing. Now it's the same for what to do for life.

Attention. Your love is to encompass all that she has. Will you dislike her?

Will your family accept her?Will you accept her job? Will it be supported?

You also said that she is not a casual person, but you can't accept it easily, so I think you should examine your love. Think about how much you can love her? How much can you give him?

If I were that woman, I might find men unreliable, including you. It's still up to you!

Don't think too much, talk to her, ask her if she really likes you, if so, persuade her to change jobs, if she's just having fun, then please leave her, if you continue like this, it won't do you any good, all you get is sadness and remorse, believe me, if she really loves her, she will give up for you, really!

Stick to your own criteria for choosing friends, and don't be swayed by some voices from the outside world, what do you think? If you really care about the voice outside, then why did you have to confess in the first place, I think you should try to do your job well, and you can't be associated with the atrophy of your life because of emotional frustration, which is a very incompetent performance Reflected in a man I think you are now after a short period of pain, pick yourself up again and return to your job of competing for performance I think if I see you like this She can't help but be amazed, after all, the capable person is always better than the rich person Maybe, The scales of love will tilt in your favor, don't you think?

Maybe this girl loves you, and it is because she loves you that she will insist on completing a month, so that she will have an extra month's salary, and you can save a month's salary work, of course, this is my personal opinion, maybe it will be a little naïve.

Since two people love each other, they must trust each other, otherwise they will miss a lot of opportunities

It is much more difficult to know whether others love you than to start a business, because entrepreneurship is in your own hands, and whether others like you is in the hands of others. It's really hard to guess.

I really didn't expect that since you fell in love with a woman who made chickens, hey, I didn't expect the fake show to be really done

Write a poem "Sigh Love".

Xiaoyue is remnant, it is difficult to fall in love, and there is relatively nothing to talk about all night;

Love is strong, tears are left, and the more you want to talk about your heart, the more upset you feel, difficult, difficult, difficult.

Falling in love seems to be muddy, but a thousand words are difficult to say;

My heart is cold, according to the fence, no one to confide in, wipe tears and pretend to be happy, chaos, chaos, chaos.

Brave Nine] Original!

Fool, of course, a man who loves you will not be silent and ignore you. I don't know, how do you behave when you love others? If you think about it backwards, you will understand it all.

A man with a family will not easily express his stance to you, so you might as well let it go.

Never too late to mend! Do you want to be a junior that everyone spurns?

You were right to break up, stick to it.

Give up quickly, maybe you don't like to hear these words, but after all, he is a family man, and in the end it is you who hurts, let him go, there will be sacrifice, let him go, so that you can love others.

What are you confused about, does he or she not love you?