Emotional issues, please tell me your moral opinions, thank you

He said so much to you for your own good. After graduation, it is actually very hard for girls to work outside without anyone to take care of them, so he said so. Since they care about each other and can't help the future, then cherish every day that they can still be together now.

You can support his ideals or wait for him, but please don't put too much pressure on him.

You can have a good talk and ask you if he prefers to be admitted or to be a soldier.

Then all you have to do is "support". You don't have to tell him you're going to wait for him, trust him and understand that you will.

But because of this promised waiting, your lives will be more uncertain, and you don't know what will happen in the future. So you can say to him, "No matter what happens to us in the future, we have to trust each other because we love each other."

If you have any troubles, you can tell me again, or turn to my team for help - let life go away from troubles.

Have a great day.

If you know very well - it is to love each other. Say what you mean to him, and when he becomes a soldier, do the same, and he will feel it. Slowly, the problems he was worried about in his heart would melt.

Now he may not have listened, but his concerns were too great).

In addition, you don't have to worry that you forget you when he is in the army, in that kind of place full of gentlemen, when you are tired, you will only miss your family and your loved ones more and more!

You like him, you wait for him.

Encourage him and let him take the exam well, if he really doesn't do well, the distance is not a problem, just have each other in their hearts.

Emotions are chemical reactions in the human brain, and the factors of reality can make the chemical reactions change, which is the law of nature, not the human mind can change.

If you have faith in your relationship, wait.

Adolescent love is mostly a hazy good feeling. In fact, such a hazy feeling is still quite beautiful, you don't have to pierce that layer of paper, ** whether he likes you or not. After all, you are still young, and it is unrealistic to talk about love.

He likes you.,I used to be the same as the male protagonist.,It's not that I ignore you.,But I'm afraid that there's no chance to say it and look at you secretly.,Don't dare to break it.,And unwilling.,That's why I'm like that to you.,Actually, I regret it when I think about it now.,I should have fought for it at the time.,Hey! Shaohua is fleeting!

Silently ask, how old is the girl??

This is a typical stick beating mandarin duck. It is indeed unfortunate not to have the blessing and support of the family.

You also said that he doesn't want to leave you, and you have feelings for him. I feel sorry for you. Why can't we be together? What happened? Let the family oppose your marriage so strongly.

experienced a return of gift money, and a very stiff turmoil. Facing internal and external pressures. If you want to break the mirror and reunite, it is not easy.

At least your performance is still very obedient to your parents' opinions. You have to tell me the ins and outs of the matter first. I'm going to give you advice.

If you have time to communicate with me, here I also sincerely wish you happiness and happiness.

It's not easy to find a like-minded partner now, although parents can participate, but you still live your own life, and it's important to be happy in the future. Parents are distressed about their children, and it is good to have opinions and open them, and communication is very important. You both work together to see if you can succeed.

Since you have a good relationship, don't be swayed by your parents, and continue to interact with each other, no matter how they make trouble, you just have to persevere. It's been a long time, and your parents can't break you up no matter what, and slowly both sides will compromise, it's a matter of time, my sister-in-law is like this,. The result is that regardless of previous suspicions, the relationship is good.

The main thing is that you have absolute confidence in your relationship.

There are two outcomes in your situation: one is that the two of you continue, but it seems that the family does not agree very much, but it does not affect the feelings of the two of you: one is that you are separated, and you still have feelings for him, but time can dilute everything.

Read your description.

Be deeply touched by what you encountered.

Since you have chosen to withdraw from your family.

It should be cut through the mess quickly and completely.

Even if there is still affection between you.

Don't be together anymore.

There's a good chance you'll be the one who gets hurt.

Because in marriage, it is always the women who are hurt.

This kind of thing, you can't be a lover, you can still be a friend! It's best to listen to your heart when it comes to feelings.

There are feelings to continue to socialize, and the thoughts of family members are one-sided.

Why do you put so many commas?

Why doesn't your family agree?

There may be too much helplessness in life, every day to face oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, happy and depressed, how to face it, I believe that everyone has their own choice, everyone also has everyone's way of life, there is no best, what suits you is the best.

Judging from this incident, you are an emotional person who still has fantasies about your ex-girlfriend. At the beginning, you didn't ask him why he borrowed money from you, but now it seems that she is using the funds for the marriage with her later boyfriend, and she should have made it clear that I lent you money to restore the relationship between the two of us, otherwise I wouldn't be able to lend it to you, and now you haven't left any evidence, and you have verbally promised not to pay it back, so you can only suffer a dumb loss. I think that since she is getting married, you should ask for the money back, there is nothing to be ashamed of, and generosity depends on who you want to be right.

You said you don't have to pay it back, and you didn't say any conditions, that is your mistake, you didn't ask him why he borrowed money from you, now it seems that she is the money for the marriage with her future boyfriend, you should have made it clear that I lent you money to you to restore the relationship between the two of us, otherwise I can't lend it to you, and now you don't have any evidence, and you verbally promised not to pay it back, you can only suffer a dumb loss.

Judging from your narrative, your purpose is not very pure, your girlfriend is still a relatively simple person, she doesn't hold a grudge against you when you break up, she still values you more when she encounters difficulties, you think you can tie her by lending her money, wrong, you don't care about her, love her, and you can't feel your love for her, is she going to hang herself on your tree? It seems that you don't love her very much, but you are a little reluctant! As a man, you can ask her for money, but don't overdo it, it's still good to be a friend.

It is said that all the evidence is retained, so it is the most realistic to ask the other party to make a repayment, so for this kind of relationship, sometimes do not have too many illusions, and focus on reality.

Okay, I'm very distressed about something now, let's answer it, thank you for this welcome, what do you say we can solve, and you can tell me about it sometimes.

I'm afraid it's a little difficult, there is no IOU, you go to her, if you have self-knowledge, you will pay it back, and you don't know how much.

Seriously, were you holding the idea of her or your girlfriend when you borrowed money at that time? Then you go to her boyfriend now and get the money back.

I know that love is getting farther and farther away, but you just can't get out of the whirlpool of feelings, and now you are still living in fantasy.

In any case, you must get the money you borrowed back immediately, and you are not a philanthropist, do you need to worry about getting your money back?

Friend, first of all, a crush is the most tempering person, and a long-term crush may be more affectionate than an open crush. Secondly, I feel that when she says "maybe the relationship between the two of us will be better", she has already given you the opportunity to contact her, and if you have time, go to him and say it to your face. It's worth working hard, even if it's rejected, it's also to let the stone in your heart fall to the ground, the worst result is to continue to be good friends in the future, there's nothing to hesitate.

Finally, a digression: feelings are very precious, a thing that is difficult to get back after people have lost them, and sometimes they should be cherished.

Then you just try to do something and see how she reacts.

For example, gift-giving, deeper communication, and so on.

See if he repels you.

If not, then there is a chance.

If she doesn't think you're a good fit, then keep being friends.

You should fight for it so that you don't regret it. The best way to end a crush is to confess. And the way to confess failure and not give up, and let yourself die is to fight. Go for it! Some things are missed for a lifetime.

I think it's very hopeful, you better try for it, like you said, don't let yourself regret it. Maybe she's still waiting for you. Come on, discouraged? You dare to confess, so what are you afraid of, what about your original confidence? I'm rooting for you, come on.

There is no real friendship between men and women, if you like it, you will fight for it, even if she doesn't accept it, you won't regret it in the future, I recommend you to watch a TV series, Ariel Lin's "I May Not Love You", I hope you can like it

Hit a **, ask directly, in fact, you want to be with him, you just don't have the courage, you have proven your idea by typing so many words, strive for the following. But I don't think I'm very optimistic about it, bless you, maybe you only have this one chance to say that you like him.

Go to the times. Supply. Credibility. and Johnson & Johnson. Such a large shopping mall or supermarket is not far away, and the goods in the large shopping mall are guaranteed.

What's wrong with you? People are transmuted, and if you always chase after her, she will be annoyed. Don't contact her. See how she reacts. Always ask her, she thinks you are annoying, and she will suffer more!

It is impossible for a person to hate a loved one for no reason, it may be a little thing at ordinary times, or a little misunderstanding caused by a conflict, I didn't feel how it was at the time, and slowly one thing added up, and I hated you... You can change your own shortcomings and what she doesn't like, don't contact too often, lest she get bored, and then slowly try to recall the happy things with her before, you say that your girlfriend belongs to the gentle type, just create a romantic thing for her, generally OK·· I wish LZ success ha··

Wait quietly and wait for the opportunity to make some space for each other.

In fact, you love her, you can't tell whether it's friendship or love for her...

If you just want to be friends, you don't care so much.

You can try to be with her, but only if you confess to her first, because you must not hurt her.

You have to think it out for yourself, once you miss it, you won't have time to regret it.

Go give it a try, because once you loved her! Even if you end up with the end, you will feel relieved when you think about it in the future, because you will not regret it, you were brave for love once! Got it?

Haha, give me a bounty.

When you're young, you're often not sure what you want, and of course, older people aren't necessarily sure, but now it seems that since you're both adults, your ideas should be more mature, and after such a long time, you can try to ask the other person's heart Maybe she also has a heart, but she can't speak, hehe, good luck.

If you like it, you will pursue it, even if the result is not ideal, but don't let yourself regret it for life, the opportunity will not come to your door, cherish it is very important, friend.

Then be a normal friend, have a normal mentality, then it's fine.

Men and women are unmarried, and when they look at Luo together, maybe in the process of dating, they can understand whether they have subconsciously loved her ......

Now I can confess it again.

You actually still like her.

Or not.