How can men be more humorous? How can a guy become humorous?

Read more, and talk less and talk about the classics. Don't say the meaning directly, metaphor is the key. Humorous people must know more, otherwise it will be a bad joke, and you will laugh. There are also humorous people who like to pretend to be deep and talk back.

This humor, first of all, your personality is extroverted, not extroverted, how can you be humorous if you don't like to talk? Secondly, watch more jokes, comedy, etc. Finally, if you are not humorous, you will always laugh at yourself, no, I will cry!

Look more, a man can read a lot of books, and only then will there be something in his stomach, and there will be something to say. Experienced and knowledgeable.

Talking is your humorous outlet.

Life without humor is boring, in order to make your life colorful and interesting, everyone should learn some humor, in order to relax your sorrowful brows, resolve your troubles, dispel bad emotions, and at the same time bring joy to the people you come into contact with. In fact, it is not easy to do this, it requires long-term observation, accumulation and learning, as well as a deep understanding of life, so it is necessary to consciously cultivate it in order to obtain the natural expression of humor.

First, we must learn to "regulate" ourselves, cultivate our noble tastes, and lay the "foundation" for humor in our thoughts and emotions. People with the psychological quality of humor are able to be positive, enthusiastic, compassionate, and can "turn hostility into friendship" in clever words and actions, or in a self-deprecating way, to change their relationship with those around them, and also to put themselves in an emotional state that is beneficial to their physical and mental health.

Second, it is necessary to step up study and broaden one's knowledge. Because humor is a kind of cultural accumulation, it needs to reach a certain level of cultural level. The storage of a person's knowledge is directly proportional to the cultivation of the individual.

Only those who are knowledgeable can have the ability to judge the situation and size up the situation, be able to talk richly, make interesting remarks, make appropriate analogies, not worry about the gains and losses based on the trivial matters in front of them, and be more elegant and less reckless.

The third is to be diligent in thinking and cultivate deep insight. Humor is a kind of psychological calisthenics that requires long-term mental exercise. Therefore, constantly improving our ability to observe things, develop our wits in practice, and cultivate an agile style is an important aspect of improving our sense of humor.

Life is the source of humor, only with the love of real life, the yearning and exploration of the unknown, the deep understanding of the essence of new things, and the rapid capture, can we discover the humor of life itself and create the real humor of life.

Have an optimistic attitude, deal with people more, watch more comedy movies, funny variety shows, and usually have humor in conversations. It's good to get into a habit after a long time.

Read more and sleep less. Eat more vegetables and read more newspapers.

Why be humorous, do what you want, don't be a shadow of others.

Let's talk about the mentality first, if you want to be easily humorous when chatting and playing with girls, you must always maintain a relaxed, excited, happy, and indifferent mentality. On the basis of these mentalities, the effect of humor will be better, and it will be easier to enter the humorous and interesting atmosphere with girls. It is difficult to be humorous when you are nervous, but it is easier to be humorous when you are relaxed.

Therefore, whenever a boy is nervous, he should consciously relax his limbs, exude a confident temperament between his gestures, and it is best to maintain a relaxed and chic attitude towards everything externally.

How does humor work? This kind of rhetorical skill lies in the fact that the boy's words surprise the girl and are also reasonable. In other words, humor is the same as unthinkable and reasonable.

The types of humor include nonsensical connections, absurdity, exaggeration, misunderstanding, and homophony. Laughter is a way to release tension, so after a boy has said a humorous word to a girl, don't laugh out loud because he is afraid that the sentence is not funny enough, and then laugh first, in the hope that the girl will be infected by his laughter and laugh. Don't do this, after the boy laughs, this nervous energy is released, and the girl will not feel so funny.

At the same time, if the boy is worried that the joke is not funny enough, he will laugh first, and the girl will convey a sense of inconfidence and insecurity.

I don't think it's very useful to cite some specific humorous words in the article, the key is that the boy should be familiar with that kind of humorous mentality and feeling. If guys really want to be a little more humorous, I recommend watching comedy TV like Love Apartment regularly. I think Love Apartment can be said to be a very good elegant comedy in China, not only with a lot of laughter, but also very intelligent.

Dear readers, did today's wave of humorous dry goods make you suddenly enlightened?

Good-looking skins are the same, interesting souls are one in a thousand, humorous people often have a strong attraction, and there are two things not to do and two things to do if you want to be humorous. The two don't do it are not to ridicule each other's shortcomings and not to make jokes about ordinary friends; The two things to do are to know how to laugh at themselves and praise others with humor.

Accept yourself, be good at discovering your own strengths, be optimistic and positive is the most important, don't have to force change your own bad side in order to cater to others, you are you, unique you!