What does it mean to grow up??? What does it take to be considered an adult?

In fact, growing up is not all about biological age, not necessarily at what age you are growing up, but it is related to time. We grow up with time, we understand more and more things, understand more and more things, consider things more and more, and think more and more maturely, and at that time, we should be considered to have grown up.

You will see your own mistakes, know all kinds of darkness in the world, and not just talk about it, and you will be able to improve yourself through things.

After getting married, learn to bear it.

Not arrogant, not impatient, not angry, not stupid.

When you were a parent.

When people grow up, their mood will really change, and some memories are only now realized, when I was a child, I wanted to grow up quickly, leave my parents, leave my family, and have my own life; When I grew up, I realized that life is inseparable from my parents and family, and the more I wanted to escape before, the more I wanted to have. When I grew up, I realized that only family affection is valuable.

I often work overtime and don't go home to eat my mother's cooking, in fact, only I know in my heart whether I really work overtime or I want to use overtime as an excuse to reduce the time I spend listening to my parents' nagging. Once, I was very busy at work, and it was almost 1 o'clock that night when I finished everything. I remember very well that the alley home was very dark, and I walked very fast alone, walking quickly with my head down, without a trace of stop.

Suddenly, I saw a shadow in front of me, and my heart was pounding, and I was ready to go up and fight! But when I lifted it up, I found that it was not a drunken man or a lewd uncle at all, but an ordinary, powerless mother who just wanted to see her daughter return home early. She waited there for a full 2 hours.

It was then that I inadvertently discovered the silver thread on my mother's head. In fact, we should all know that every mother does not want you to be prosperous and rich. For her, the most important thing is the company of her children.

The sign of a person's maturity, in my opinion, is to slowly understand the importance of family, the greatness and preciousness of family affection, because at this moment, he not only takes into account his own interests and feelings, he understands how to experience his own stumbling growth process, the earnest contribution of his parents, so he is willing to be grateful and reciprocate. Breaking free from the ego and devoting oneself to a tighter environment created by the family is growth.