After a long time, what should be the state of the relationship?

In fact, your question is very good, you just need to understand, whether you and he are in love with each other is enough, your worries are superfluous, from your words I found that you should be looking forward to a love like Liang Zhu, hehe, I don't know if I guessed right, in fact, I can tell you with certainty that vigorous love is always short-lived, and it is like a flash in the pan and gorgeous fireworks, and after the brilliant is calm.

Sweet words, he doesn't say you can say it, love is not just for the man to pay, the reason why he won't say sweet words to you is because he doesn't think it's necessary, if you have to use sweet words to tie you up, I can only say that your relationship is too fragile.

I have always believed that feelings are composed of plainness, warmth, tolerance, understanding and trust, sweet words can be had, but they cannot be called the most important part of your love, if you feel that he does not say sweet words to make you feel uneasy, and you are embarrassed to remind him that you can do so.

Just write what you want to say in your heart and give it to him in a letter, don't feel ridiculous, this may be the key to saving your happiness, although I have never been in love, but my mother and I often quarrel, and then we both understand each other after using this method, and we are still happy and warm, isn't it great?

Less suspicion and anxiety, more happiness and warmth, this will make your relationship last longer!

Finally, I wish you happiness!

Now it's all in this state, and marriage will only get weaker and weaker.

Any relationship will go flat, it's just a matter of how dull it is.

Men have different types of personalities If there are men, they like to make you happy.

As soon as you lose your temper, he will coax him into a habit, and this will not fade.

You know she loves you??? How much love ??? Do you really know ???

Think about it for yourself???

If you don't feel anything together now, I suggest that you don't get married, otherwise it will be more painful in the future, now your parents are just sad for a while, and when you get married and have children, it will not be so simple to divorce at that time. It's not that I'm cursing you to divorce, if you don't have feelings together, men will look for women outside, and they will be even more indifferent to women. This is something that the woman can't accept, and it's also an unbearable pain.

If he is looking for a woman outside, you can't divorce for the sake of the child, and the woman has to pretend not to know. It's painful. Think twice, and if you don't feel it now, it's too early.

In the future, the responsibilities and for the sake of the children will be much more complicated.

But I still hope that your relationship can be sublimated.

After getting married, it's definitely like this, I think. I think you're just me, although I have a little grudge against him, but maybe I'm not as good as him at all if I find someone else! Believe in our vision and our future!

Find happiness in the ordinary, and at the same time give him some small suggestions, let him be more attentive to you, since he is a person who loves each other, he will definitely change.

No one has their own business! If you put love first for a long time! , love is about to deteriorate, occasionally separated, is to keep the freshness of love!

It's a better encounter next.

Feelings need to be considered slowly, if you are like now, this situation will occur after only a while of separation, it means that the relationship is very unstable, if someone goes on a business trip or something after marriage, it is not to divorce? I think you can ask for your parents' consent and think about it a little longer, after all, a boyfriend is a boyfriend, and if you call your husband, the responsibility of the representative is different, and the meaning is different.

Over time, there will be less love! Behind is habit and dependence, and getting married is a responsibility!

What kind of relationship lasts longer? Why?

1. The relationship that knows how to tolerate will last longer, and it will not alienate him because of the other party's shortcomings.

It is very enviable for couples to have a long-lasting relationship. However, in reality, we often find that there are some couples who stick together every day, only to find that they have broken up after a while. If you want to make the relationship more durable, lovers should know how to tolerate each other, we should be aware that everyone has shortcomings, if we correct each other's shortcomings, and continue to blame, then, I feel that there will be quarrels in life, and after a long time, both people will get bored and break up.

If you are more tolerant, then the other person's advantages will be discovered by yourself, and then you will love each other more and more.

Second, the relationship that has experienced wind and rain can last for a long time, which will make two people cherish their relationship more.

In daily life, we will definitely encounter all kinds of difficulties, if two people face some hardships together and find a way to solve them, then, in the future life, we will definitely cherish this relationship. Even if the other party does something wrong, he will remember his good and choose to forgive him. If we can only enjoy happiness together, but not suffer together, such a relationship will not develop for a long time.

3. The relationship that is obtained after hard pursuit can also be long-lasting, because such a relationship is not easy to come by, and you will know how to maintain this relationship better.

What is too easy to get, but will not be cherished, I believe this is a truth that many people understand, and the same is true of feelings. If you get a relationship very easily, then in the process of dating, two people will not cherish themselves, thinking that the other party loves them, and they don't have to go to great lengths to please him, and he will not leave him. Because with this kind of thought, it will hurt the other person's heart.

If you finally get this love after a lot of hard work to pursue each other, then, in the days to come, you will definitely manage it well, and you will firmly grasp the other party's heart.

After two people face some hardships together, they will cherish this relationship more, even if the other party does something wrong, they will choose to tolerate and not be alienated because of each other's shortcomings.

Two people go both ways, have a common topic, have a common hobby, have a common three views, are right, and the two have an emotional foundation, because in this way, two people can pay for this relationship.

The relationship of mutual tolerance and accommodation lasts for a long time, because after a long relationship, you will always find more and more shortcomings of the other half, love needs to go both ways, and mutual tolerance is the long-term way.

Of course, it is family affection, which is an emotion on top of love and friendship, which contains responsibility, mutual assistance and responsibility.

There are many necessary conditions for a long-term relationship.

First of all, the two people are of the same level, they are the right people, they have common hobbies and interests, and their life goals are relatively close.

Only in this way can we have a common language and common needs, it is easier and simpler to communicate, and we can live together in harmony.

The second is that after a period of running-in, the two people feel more suitable and are willing to be together.

When two people encounter contradictions and differences, they can compromise and forbear, and they can also understand and support each other. Only in this way can the relationship between two people be long-lasting and stable.

In the end, it is like-minded, happy with each other, and loving each other, and this kind of emotion will last for a long time.

It's not that it's due to external pressure, but the kind of love that comes from the inside out, especially likes each other's personality, or external figure, appearance, temperament, likes to be with each other, appreciate each other, and achieve each other.

Only such feelings can be together for a long time, based on interests or impulsive feelings, most of them are short-lived, and they come and go quickly.

Therefore, if you want to have a long-term emotion, you must choose the right object, follow your inner needs, have a long-term plan, don't just look at the surface of the other party, have a correct understanding of the other party's personality and ability, respect yourself, respect others, and the relationship will last for a long time.

Happy families are all similar, unhappy families have their own misfortunes, and it is the happiest thing for people to find someone they like in their life and accompany them for life.

If couples want their love to last longer, don't be short-sighted and do something that hurts love! But some people have no experience, they are in love for the first time, they don't know how to maintain it, even if they talk about it several times, they still don't know how to maintain their love! In love, in fact, you still need a little trick, so as to make the relationship between two people longer.

When two people are together, it is not enough to have love alone, but also to have a career for each other. Love with a career wants to be protected by a thick barrier! Like those loves without a career, they can't experience too much wind and frost, and when they encounter something at all, people's feelings will erupt into contradictions, and then the two will tear their faces apart until they are tired of each other, and then separate!

Some people are just not satisfied, stupid or accustomed to being ambitious, and always want this and that! Obviously, the person in front of her is very good, but she just doesn't cherish it, and she won't regret it until she loses it! Whether it is a man or a woman, it is so important that you must be content, so a person who is content, and knows that the love in his hands is precious.

Complementary love is also very important, for example, two people in love, the man is more careless, and the other half is delicate, when traveling, the girl always prepares everything, at this time if the man lacks something, ask the woman, she can give it one by one, such a tacit understanding, it is really rare! And if you are both careless, it is very bad.

In fact, couples don't need to be entangled often, the two are tired of being together at night, don't get tired of it during the day, you can do your own thing, go out when you should go out on a date with your girlfriends, start a business when you should start a business, and chat with your brothers when you should chat, there is no need to stick together all the time! Have your own space and do something positive.

Determining the feelings of a relationship too quickly does not mean that it cannot last long, the important thing is how to get along together. If there are any of the following situations, it means that the two of them will not last long, and it actually has nothing to do with the determination of the four weeks.

1) Often quarrel over trivial matters, and no one will let anyone.

Many people say that being a lover means arguing. Living under the same roof, our daily lives are inevitably bumpy. There is no reason not to quarrel.

However, there is still a big difference between loving and unloving. Even if a loving lover quarrels, there will always be one party who is willing to bow his head first. Every time a loveless couple quarrels, both of them would rather die than give in.

Everyone wants to be a winner. Both are aggressive, and neither will throw in the towel.

If the two often quarrel over trivial matters, neither of them will let the other, and the two of them blush and have thick necks every time, then they are not far from separation. Although those loving couples usually quarrel over trivial matters, there will always be one party who will give in. The main reason is that they still want to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, which shows that there is still love in their hearts.

2) No more sharing, no more heart-to-heart talking.

Although each other is the closest person, if two people feel harmonious and intimate, and the other person has something on his mind, he will tell each other first. Whether he is happy or unhappy, the first thing he thinks of is his partner, and the first thing he wants to share is his lover. Sharing and taking responsibility for each other is something that many loving lovers often do.

Therefore, if one party never tells the other party what is on his mind and always hides it from the other party, then in his heart, he has actually lost trust in the other half, and there is already a gap between him and the other half. In this case, if he does not communicate in time, the relationship will not last long.

It is basic for two couples to have a deep relationship, not hide from each other, and be honest with each other. If two people don't even have this basic trust, there is no long-term at all.

3) Likes to belittle the other side.

A good relationship must be one of mutual appreciation. Only if you know how to appreciate your partner and have a good impression of you from the bottom of your heart, will you want to live with you for a long time. If one party always belittles the other party for no reason, and uses all kinds of vitriol words to belittle the other party all day long, then such a relationship will be very difficult, because no one can live in a state of being despised by the other party all the time.

This question is not absolute. Because some people think that whether the relationship lasts or not has nothing to do with how fast it progresses. Generally speaking, girls like to be slower, and they don't feel like they suffer for a long time; Boys like to be faster and have the feeling of taking advantage, but the idea of losing and taking advantage is unhealthy.

It is necessary to start from your own heart, "devote yourself to liking a person, and even lose yourself", and silently rub the relationship that is determined only by suffering from gains and losses, so that it will not last long.

If the relationship starts quickly, you may be attracted by each other's characteristics or clothing at a certain moment, of course, it may also be obsessed with each other's appearance and temperament, so as to show your likes and love in a hurry and without reservation.

After this kind of relationship has passed the love period, without the "beauty filter" and the blessing of hormones, it is likely that some contradictions will arise when facing many life details and conflicts with the three views. When a series of problems ensue, the relationship that cannot withstand the test may "go their separate ways" and become strangers from then on.

Therefore, it takes time for feelings to run in, why do you say that the feelings of "flash love" and "flash marriage" are nine times sad. Because the lovers who directly get married and confirm the relationship are all doing minus points, gradually reducing from a full score of 100 points to a negative score.