A small survey, the girl thinks it s better to marry an only child, or marry...

Of course, it is an only child, and the benefits are obvious

The property of the parents of the only child belongs to him, and if you marry him, it will be yours.

The law stipulates that if both spouses are only children, they can have two children, which means that if you are also an only child, you have the right to choose whether to have one child or two children.

If you are an only child, your parents have the time and experience to help you take care of the child, if they have other grandchildren (granddaughters), it is likely that they will not have time to help you take them, and it is easy to compare the two grandchildren, if your child is not as smart or cute as the other child, it is likely that he will not be taken seriously.

I want to marry someone I like. An only child, his parents are old and have a heavy burden.

Do you have a fancy for someone's family background?

Or do you like someone else?

If you ask this, it means that you have a thought of infidelity in your heart, so dispel it.

No matter who you marry, the main thing is that you are good.

Each has its own strengths and varies from person to person.

A small survey, the girl thinks it's better to marry an only child, or marry...

What are those dots?

I've been married for 8 years, and in my experience, it's better to be an only child! My husband has a sister who gave birth to two sons, we got married, bought a house, bought a car, didn't help anything, and let us help her every day, and my husband's parents, and didn't let their daughter, help us, but also let us help her, some people say, the only child is burdened, I don't think so, my grandmother gave birth to two sons, a daughter, sick and hospitalized, including death, my parents are in charge, so the child doesn't care how much, the key is not to care about filial piety!

Specific problems are analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

In the past, the country had a family planning policy, and many families had only one child, and in terms of marriage, some people liked to find a family with only one child, and felt that there was no contradiction, and some people were not like this. There are also people who say that it is more difficult for only children to get married, and it is more difficult to get married, and it is more difficult to get married, what is the reason for this? So why is it difficult for an only daughter to get married, and why is it a loss for an only daughter to get married?

Let's answer this question below.

There are these reasons why it is difficult for an only daughter to get married:

1. The burden of old-age care is heavy, if the parents do not have a stable economy, there is no pension insurance, and when they are old, they can't work, everything needs to be borne by their daughters, for men, if they marry an only daughter, they also have to bear the responsibility of the woman's parents in the family, if the man's family is also an only child, the pressure on the two will be great.

2. The only daughter is squeamish, some families are very precious to the only daughter, they have never been angry, and they have never suffered hardship, so some only daughters will have a squeamish character, and some boys don't like this.

There are these reasons why it is a loss for an only daughter to get married:

1. The mother's family will subsidize, and the only child will be favored by the parents, and after the only daughter gets married, in order to make the daughter live well after marriage, the parents will give the daughter a lot of dowry money when she gets married, and she will often subsidize her daughter after marriage, and it is possible to help her daughter raise children together.

2. Boys struggle less, if an only daughter gets married, the parents will generally prepare a car, and will prepare a house, so that for men, the pressure will be less, and the parents of only daughters generally do not ask for bride price, do not value money, even if they want it, the money will still be returned, just a formality. If the only daughter's family has a business, the boy can inherit it later.

In fact, it is not said that marriage is a loss, as long as you truly love each other, then nothing else is a problem.

It is not a loss for an only daughter to get married, because your parents are just a child for you, your parents are responsible for the elderly, and your future life, you are responsible for it alone, and it will not increase your burden, so you don't have to worry, after marriage, your parents will be old and no one will take care of you, and your parents will not add a burden to you, they will love you as a baby, and your parents will not burden you, so the only daughter will not lose money when she gets married, don't worry, your parents will add a burden to you, and after marriage, your parents will give you all the love, you won't suffer, your parents will support the elderly, and in the future, you don't have to worry, because you have the ability to support them, so you don't have to worry, your parents will support the elderly after marriage.

1. Only children are generally pampered, can't do housework, and are lazy, and they can't do anything at home when they marry and go home.

Second, only daughters generally have princess diseases, and they are afraid that men will be angry when they marry home, and they will be pampered and domineering.

3. I am afraid that I will have a heavy burden in the future, and it will be very tiring to take care of both parents when they are old, especially the woman's parents.

Fourth, if the only daughter has a child after she has a child, she is afraid that her mother's family will treat the child as her grandson and compete with her in-laws for the child, especially the first child, and some mother's family will let the first child have the mother's surname, and the second child will agree to take the father's surname.

Fifth, the only daughter is the pearl of the palm in her own home, she is favored by her parents, and she does not know how to deal with interpersonal relationships, which is easy to cause conflicts between her mother-in-law, especially the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Precautions before marriage for an only daughter.

1. The character of the other party's family.

If there is an individual in the other person's family who has major problems in terms of personality, then this kind of person will definitely bring you significant and lasting harm in the future. Then there will be no happiness in your married life, on the contrary, there will be frequent problems and become a kind of suffering.

2. The attitude of the other half towards the family.

When an only daughter is looking for a partner, she must find the kind of man who has a really good personality, cares about people, and hurts people. Therefore, before marriage, you have to carefully observe the other person's attitude towards the family.

If he is very arrogant and selfish in the face of his parents and relatives, only knows how to think about himself, and never cares about his family's thoughts, it is recommended that no matter how much he loves this kind of man, he must give up.

My personal experience has taught me that it is easier to marry an only child, but it is relatively free to marry a family with brothers.

Many people choose to marry an only child, thinking that there is only one son in the family, and the in-laws will wholeheartedly help them take care of the children in the future, and the money will also subsidize themselves in all aspects, and all the property after the only child will be their own and their husband's in the future.

Indeed, mothers-in-law in single-child families are generally better to their daughters-in-law and will help take care of the children. But it is precisely because there is only one child that many mothers-in-law put all their minds on this one son, staring at the life of their son and daughter-in-law all day long, urging them to have children, interfering in the lives of the younger couple, and the younger couple are not so free. Moreover, many mothers-in-law of only children are particularly dependent on their sons, and when their daughter-in-law marries, it is easy to compete with their daughter-in-law for favor, and their future life will not be so easy.

But marrying into a family with brothers is relatively free.

An only child will have a lot less conflict, but a family with a brother will have little and a lot of pressure.

Many people choose to marry an only child because there are few people, and there are not so many things in their later life. If you marry a family with many brothers, and your mother-in-law is partial, then the relationship between the concubines is really comparable to a palace fighting drama. Married to a family of two brothers, if the in-laws are partial, it is difficult for the two concubines to get along harmoniously, and they will not only face the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future, but also the contradiction between the concubines.

But marrying a family with brothers, if the relationship between the two brothers is better, the parents-in-law and mother-in-law are more fair and reasonable, and the two families get along well. In the future, the pressure will really be much less, usually there is a companion for big and small things, and when there is really difficulty, brothers are always better than outsiders. And when the parents are older, the family of two chaotic orange brothers can really reduce the pressure of many young people to provide for the elderly.

Everything in the world has two sides, as the so-called ruler is short, inch is long, the only child has the advantage of being an only child, and the two brothers have the benefits of two brothers, whether it is marrying or marrying, we should respect the decision of the person concerned and value the character of the other party's family members.

Some only daughters will be very loved by their parents and more pampered, so they hope to find a other half who can pamper themselves, spoil themselves unconditionally, and let themselves. Such a boyfriend is difficult to find, can unconditionally tolerate their girlfriends, some only daughters are more willful, in love, marriage is more self-serving, it is difficult to find a suitable other half.

The object of the only daughter will face the parents who take care of the girl, if the other party is also a family of only children, then the two people will face four old people in the future, and the pressure will be greater for people nowadays because of the pressure of life, and they will think more about things.

Advantages and disadvantages of being an only child

Under normal circumstances, the only daughter is well-behaved and sensible, the economic conditions are better, there is no problem of financial division, both sides can be home, life is relatively a family with a younger brother, and the family of the only daughter makes the man have a sense of integration, because after all, everything in the future is two people, and the woman's parents are relatively closer to the boy and have a more family atmosphere.

However, there are some only daughters who have been doted on by their parents since childhood, and their personalities are often not too independent, plus no one has fought for her since she was a child, she eats things by herself, and plays with toys by herself, so that only daughters tend to be more self-conscious and do not pay much attention to the feelings of others, especially girls, if they make mistakes, their parents will generally be merciful, and over time, she will become willful and selfish.

In other words, whether to marry an only daughter or not, economic conditions are not a prerequisite, the important thing is to look at her character.

If she is indulged by her parents at home, develops the temper of a little princess, and does not know how to respect others, even if her family conditions are good, she cannot marry. If she has a good family education, knows how to be well-educated, and knows how to be filial to both parents, especially if she knows how to honor her in-laws, then this only daughter is worth marrying.

After talking about the only child, let's talk about the girl who has a younger brother.

A girl who has a younger brother in the family is generally relatively independent, can take care of people, is patient, responsible, and has a strong ability to deal with things.

In many families with sisters and younger brothers, parents are usually busy, most of them will let their sisters take care of their younger brothers, most of the younger brothers are willful and naughty, many parents are patriarchal, girls will accommodate their younger brothers in order not to cause trouble, which makes girls develop the habit of swallowing their anger, such girls are generally more obedient and know how to hurt the tenant, but the disadvantage is that they are more cowardly.

Because of her younger brother, she is used to being obedient, even if she is not satisfied with you, she will not say it, and the conflict will deepen as the days go by.

Girls who have younger brothers, under normal circumstances, the economic conditions should not be very good [except for individual ones], because the younger brother wants to marry a wife and have children, and the parents generally tilt their energy and economy towards boys. The only advantage of a daughter who has a younger brother is that when her parents are old, she has one more person to share when she takes care of her parents.

My suggestion is that it is better to marry an only daughter under the same conditions, and you can save a lot of trouble in living in the future, and as for taking care of the elderly on both sides, as long as you work hard and save more money, you can ask someone to take care of the elderly.

Nowadays, the development of public welfare pension is very good, and it is also a good choice to let both parents go to the nursing home to care for the elderly when the time comes!