Short Survey If you fall in love, what do you think is the reason? more details .

My understanding of love is: the moment two people are together, the fierce spark generated by the collision of the deepest and truest feelings of the heart.

I and my her, one eighteen (even), one sixteen or a little more. If I ask why we are together, it is my definition of love.

There was another reason: I made an agreement with her about the future, going to college together, living together, etc.

But it's just me. There are also examples: for sex, for money, for the satisfaction of one's emotional emptiness, etc., etc., etc.!

The landlord, adolescent children will have a rebellious mentality.

The most important thing is a feeling that has never been felt before.

I mean, they want to try it.

They think it's a wonderful feeling.

Because that's how it's usually shown on TV

Another major reason is that I can't control my emotions.

I like each other too much.

Previously inexperienced, ignorant, curious.

And the classmates around you will also have an impact.

For example, I saw some classmates talking about happiness.

I'll be envious of myself.

I like that guy, I daydream every day, and he does have a good relationship with me. Parents and teachers don't know about it.

Love and "extravagant" love.

Puppy love doesn't have to be our rebellion.

It's a normal, indelible phenomenon.

As you get older, it becomes more and more realistic......I hate this feeling ......Puppy love will be simpler.

Curious、I don't have friends around、There are many who are lustful、Have true feelings (probability.

I like each other, I think of him every day, I dream of her.

Because only early love is true love, and after work, it will be swallowed up by matter.

It's because of what I do to her"Love"~``

Adults can't understand it"Love"

Because I'm a nymphomaniac

I'm not going back to the land of early love

Love sprouts, that's pure love.

I like the memories of my childhood

1. Early love is a relatively normal phenomenon, when the child is in adolescence, in fact, the feelings will be ignorant, which is also the natural reaction of people in the process of growth. In fact, all parents will find that they will encounter the same situation at the same age, everyone is an ordinary person, and there will be personal emotions. It is also very normal to encounter puppy love during puberty, so parents do not need to worry too much, we must understand that this is a natural phenomenon of adolescence.

During this time period, our children may admire other people, but we need to understand the reasons why he likes other people, if only because of his appearance, we can tell him the correct view of love.

2. For the phenomenon of early love, it is not necessary to take very strong measures to stop it, we can take a soft way to help the child, so that the child knows that he should do the right thing at the right age. Many parents' first reaction when they hear their children's early love is to talk to their children immediately and tell the teacher immediately, which is actually very wrong. We should first chat with the child to understand the child's inner thoughts, if the child only has a simple love for each other, there is no so-called love.

Then we can take an enlightening way to guide the child, let the child know that the other party is also a very good child, if you want to go into society with him, then you need to be better, otherwise there is no possibility between you.

3. Don't take early love as a wrong behavior, which will make children have low self-esteem, and some emotional children may have a rebellious mentality, which will seriously affect children's mental health. If you stop your child from being in love in a very harsh way when you find out that your child is in love, and you keep telling the teacher loudly to discipline your child, it will put your child in a very low self-esteem state. He may think that his behavior is very inappropriate and cannot be accepted by most people, which will cause psychological pressure on the child, and such psychological pressure may accompany him in the college entrance examination, and he may not be able to exert his due strength.

Children's early love is a problem that plagues many parentsIn fact, there is also a positive meaning in the early love of teenagers. So what are the benefits of early love for children?

1.Enhance your child's desire to learn

A high school student once said to his little girlfriend: I have to study hard so that I can take better care of you. This shows that children feel that as long as their learning improves, they can give a better future to the opposite sex they like.

Therefore, with puppy love, children will have greater motivation to learn.

2.Improve social skills

Puppy love is a process that requires children to come into contact with the opposite sex and win the favor of the other person. At this stage, the child will invisibly learn how to communicate well with the opposite sex. Many people blush when they see the opposite sex after graduating from college.

In fact, it is also related to the fact that you have not learned how to deal with the opposite sex at this stage.

3.Cultivate a sense of responsibility

If a person has no affection for others, then it is difficult for him to take responsibility for himself. Only after realizing that it is their responsibility to defend their home and country can soldiers risk their lives to go to the battlefield. In the same way, children can only accumulate their sense of responsibility if they have love and affection for others.

4.Learn to be considerate of others

Today's only children are generally self-centered. In love, they have to think about each other and learn how to communicate with others in the stumbles of their relationship. When encountering conflicts, how to understand others and solve difficulties.

Mutual understanding in love is also a process of gradually learning to be considerate. I believe that after this early love, children will gradually understand the difficulties of their parents, and will do something to make their parents feel warm.

Adolescent early love is a normal event that children will encounter when they reach a certain stage of development. Parents must see the positive meaning behind adolescent early love, reasonable guidance, and believe that through early love, children will be more motivated to learn, more social, more responsible, and more considerate of parents.

My view of puppy love is not advocated, but it is not too obstructive either. Because there are two sides to everything, early love may also make two people work together for the future, early love is not all wasted studies, and there are many cases where two people encourage each other together, support each other, and get admitted to a better university together.

It can improve the emotional intelligence of young lovers. People who are in early love are in the budding period of adolescence, they are eager to know everything about the opposite sex, and through early love can enrich their emotional life and meet their psychological needs, and avoid overly suppressed emotions.

Sexual maturity, puppy love is the adolescent Colmont is playing tricks, and for the first time he realizes that people are originally divided into men and women, and he is curious about the opposite sex.