How do you reply to someone who is disrespectful to you?

My uncle was very disrespectful and spoke very poorly, and once when I went to his house to get something, he said: You said that you are old, and you are not looking for your mother-in-law, it seems that you are going to be an old girl! I was so angry that I jokingly said:

Yes, it's like an uncle, who got married so early and gave birth to an unfilial son.

Don't take my good cultivation as your shameless capital. Since you don't respect me, let's "meet in the mountains and rivers", I hope you can continue to be so arrogant in this civilized society.

I have been in the school security work to check illegal electrical appliances, it is common to encounter disrespectful senior sisters, the more she disrespects me, the more I respect her, I don't want to influence her, but with actions to tell her: I am a civilized person, I have a good cultivation.

Once the teacher scolded me for being a waste in front of the whole class, so I glared and said: As a teacher, you say that your students are waste, then you are not as good as me!

Once when I was walking on the road, a little girl came to me and said, "Auntie, you look so ugly." I was directly stunned, and after I reacted, I said: "Child, you will be beaten to death if you talk like this." He turned around and ran away in fright, but he was so angry!

My roommate often said that I was a sissy, and I couldn't bear it that day, so I said to him: Then you should call Mom, I'll listen! He hasn't said anything about me since.

Yesterday I bought a new dress, and when I went to work, a colleague said that it was pretending to be x, and I was angry at the time, and I didn't even look at him and said: You have the ability to pretend to it!

Today my daughter said: You didn't promise me ice cream after lunch, you are the worst mom in the world! Then I burst out and yelled at her, "That's enough, you don't even want to watch TV this week!" "I gave birth to you and raised you, and I still say that I am bad!

With my violent temper, how can he be presumptuous in front of me! I would simply and rudely say: Please leave my sight with minimal friction! It means to let him get away.

There was a young man who was very disrespectful to me before, so I said: People like you waste air when you live and waste land when you die, I don't care about you, and when you see me in the future, stay away, otherwise you will see me and fight once. Then he didn't speak.

If you have a mouth in your heart, you will spit out something, and sure enough.

A friend of mine has never known how to respect others when he speaks, and once when I was talking, he came over and interjected, and I continued: Since you love to talk so much, then you can say it. Then he shut up.

A few days ago, I met a young man who yelled at me, and I glanced at her and said, "Is it the same for your parents that you have no culture?" And then I was gone.

Fight back against him with what he says.

Mark Twain once met a noble lady, and the noble lady said, I never give way to fools. Mark Twain said, I happened to do the opposite, and then made way for her.

There are two sentences that can solve most situations, and these two sentences are: about you and about me!

I only talk to people who know how to respect other people's words, and you are not in this ranks.

Don't come into contact with such people, if you meet such people, avoid them and be yourself.

In fact, in real life, there are many people who have no quality. They worship high and step on low, yang and yin, and judge people by their appearance. Especially in the workplace, such people are even more common.

For example, when some people see a leader, they greet him with a smile. When you see someone who is lower than your own ability, you will bow down and step on the low. When your performance is not good, people will laugh at you and look down on you.

If you accidentally work with such a person, you become a colleague. I think it's better to stay away. But if someone insults you, especially in terms of dignity, then you have to fight back.

If you meet someone in your life who doesn't respect you, then stay away. Let's say you go out and buy coffee. But some people always like to cut in line, and when you say a few words to her, people start to get angry.

Started scolding the streets, scolding your ancestors for eighteen generations. You are very annoyed in your heart, and you always feel that you have not done anything wrong, why should you be scolded by others? If you keep arguing with her, you won't be able to argue about it.

So, it's better to keep silent and walk away on your own. Some women are like that, they like to dominate their mouths. And then when it's outside, it crushes you head.

This is the embodiment of no quality. The ancients didn't say that only villains and women are difficult to raise. So, don't get too concerned with women.

Some people who don't respect others are often the kind of people who have no quality and no education. If you argue with him, you won't be able to argue about anything. And there is one point, even if you communicate with him, the three views of the two people are different, and it is very difficult to communicate.

So, when two people have an argument, it's good to keep silent. A slap doesn't make a sound, let him say there himself, this fire can't burn. But don't be too tolerant, this size must be grasped.

Otherwise, it will make people think that you are a coward.

To be a man should know how to respect yourself, when a person always brings you discomfort and hurt, you must learn to stay away, there is really no need to compromise, you must know that such a person is intentional, if you forbear, the other party will only get worse, you will be hurt more. In fact, we are not RMB, how can everyone like you? So it's normal for someone to like us, someone to dislike us, or even look down on us, and we don't have to force it, let alone strive for perfection.

Go back. Because you don't have to respect those who don't respect you, you should be brave enough to go back.

You have to retaliate, he doesn't respect you, you don't need to respect him, there's no need to be too cowardly.

You should fight back directly, and you should tell the other party what you think, and secondly, you should let the other party know that you are not easy to mess with.

You can reply to yourself that there is something, or you can reply to it, you are really very rude, I don't want to talk to you, and then pull him into the blacklist, I think this kind of person is really special and hateful, so in ordinary life, deal less with this kind of person, when talking to yourself, treat it as if you don't see it, don't pay attention to him.

If you don't respect people, you can go back. In the way of others, they should also be treated by others, so that they understand that if they want to be respected, they must first know how to respect others.

I don't want to reply to such a person, and sometimes I don't have a good tone, and I feel like it's a hurt to myself to have a good temper in the face of such a person.

At this time, you can not reply to the other party, or you can directly reply to the other party, and the attitude should be absolute, this is because the other party does not respect you at all, so you don't need to save any face for the other party.

Hello, it is a very comfortable thing to be respected in life, but in life, we often encounter some people who do not know how to respect others, they may be deliberately hurt, or they may not realize that they are not respectful enough for you, at this time we should: do not need to blindly forbear, your forbearance in others seems to be tolerance without a bottom line, they will bully you even more. Turning a deaf ear and changing yourself, when someone doesn't respect you, you don't need to be impulsive, you can choose to pretend you can't hear, and keep telling yourself not to be impulsive.

This method seems to be a wretch, but it is the most worry-free one. Impulse theory is not the best approach, the best approach is not to theorize. Because of the disrespect of others, after all, they want to make you unhappy, you don't let the other party achieve the goal, you will win, and colleagues must learn to reflect on themselves.

Not all people need to fight back when they express disrespect. There are several situations:

1. Unfamiliar strangers. If you don't fight back, it doesn't matter, just laugh it off. A person's attitude towards others reflects the most basic social qualities of the person.

2. People who know but are not familiar with them. It's good to just take matters into account, and you don't have to fight back against the other party's disrespectful attitude. For nosy, those who have broken their mouths can be exposed directly, and those who are arrogant and feel superior can also be exposed, and the quality of the other party is like that, and you have to change the other party's life.

We don't have that responsibility, do we?

3. Colleagues and friends who know and are familiar with each other. At this time, it is easy for us to lose our emotions and fight back. This is the case with the so-called chess opponent.

Those who can cause strong counterattacks must be at the same energy level as us. If it is an incident, it is necessary to discuss the matter on a case-by-case basis, and talk about the matter from a fair and fair perspective, if there is no specific problem that can be solved and the other party expresses disrespect, perhaps the other party sensitively feels that you are threatening his interests. When you understand the reason behind his disrespect for you, you're half the way through.

If it's a friend, your friendship will have to be redefined.

4. Finally, it is our lover, and parents and children. The disrespect that our close people have for us is often "control in the name of love". But, at the end of the day, it's love, albeit control. This disrespect should be explained carefully and discussed patiently.

There are several reasons why others don't respect you:

1. Always afraid of offending people, dare not show their own attitude. You are always afraid of offending others, others see you as weak, and some people think that you are a bully, because you don't dare to show your own attitude, you don't dare to turn your face with others, so others will not respect you when they see you as a bully.

2. Failing to establish its own borders. You have not established your own boundaries, for example, others make fun of you, not only do you not know how to refute but also laugh silly, which will make others think that you are easy to bully, everyone should have a bottom line, if others touch your bottom line, you should have the courage to fight back.

If others show disrespect to you, then it may be the following situations, the first is that outsiders do not understand you, then he is a sign of impoliteness. In addition, some of your colleagues or relatives may feel that you do not have some rights if they do not respect you. Or is it not going to bring them any benefit, in which case, what about these people you encounter?

It would be nice to ignore them.

What else can you do if no one respects you anymore? Just ignore each other, there is no need to hurt each other openly.

When others don't respect you, keep these 4 points in mind!

It depends on the angle

So say .Is it disrespectful to othersIt depends on what kind of relationship you have

If you are relatives and friendsFirst of all, tell yourself firstPeople may be busy and don't pay attention

If it's in realityThat's a few screamsIf more than once should not be .

I just don't want to deal with you

If it's just an ordinary colleagueNot too familiar with the kindThen don't say that people don't respect youIt's just that people don't want to pay attention to you at all

Don't think about itPeople like you really have a problem not answering meBecause people don't want to have anything to do with you at allIt's not enough to respect this ring

It depends on the specific behavior.

If it's normal communication, then this behavior is really disrespectful.

Normally, others share with you in the hope of getting a reply, but the length of this answer depends on the actual situation, some people just want you to know about it, so the answer is shorter, if he wants you to discuss with him, then you can follow him to say more.

Yes, this is indeed a kind of disrespect to others, if others ask you questions or ask you words, then you should patiently answer to others, tell others the answers they want, you ignore them is disrespectful to them.

This still has to be divided into people and situations. What the other party said makes you feel speechless, so you don't have to reply to him.