In life, what types of people can t have deep friendships and are easy to chill?

One is a hypocrisy, and the other is a miser. Hypocritical people are often inconsistent on the outside and behind their backs, and they feel very fake. Stingy people are stingy and often go their separate ways because of money, which chills their hearts.

People who are particularly snobbish try not to have deep friendships, because such people are more realistic many times, and they will not do things that are not beneficial to them, and even those who are particularly hypocritical cannot have deep friendships, and many times such people have a big gap between what they say and do, and they will easily deceive themselves.

People who are jealous and can't see the good of others, are not worthy of deep friendship, are scheming, like to face one set, one set behind the other, to stay away as soon as possible, people who don't know how to be grateful, are not worthy of deep friendship, are afraid of seeing the wrong person, love is afraid of giving the wrong heart, sincere people will have a heart to heart with you, and hypocritical people will play with you.

In life, these types of people can't make deep friends, are easy to chill, borrow money and don't pay it back, and raise you to a moral height.

The first type of person is very concerned about their own personal interests, takes interests too seriously, does not understand the value of friendship at all, and regards friendship very closely. The second type of person is someone who cheats on you a lot and thinks you don't know and thinks you're a fool. The third type of person is to be hypocritical to you on the surface, but in fact it is to earn your personal interests.

For these three kinds of people, you must not have deep friendships, and it is very easy to chill.

There are 7 types of people in life who can't have deep friendships, try to stay away, otherwise they can only drag themselves down.

1. No integrity, not punctual.

If a person is full of lies, then his character is most likely problematic, he can lie to others, and he will lie to friends, it is difficult for you to figure out the bottom line of a person who has no integrity.

In addition, punctuality is also an externalized manifestation of dishonesty. Of course, we shouldn't be harsh, it's not punctual to be late or miss time for some reason, and if he is constantly unpunctual and finds a reason every time, it can almost be inferred that there is a problem with his integrity.

2. One set before the person, one set after the person.

This kind of person is harmless to humans and animals on the surface, and only says good things to everyone, but behind the scenes, he likes to make bad things and often makes small reports. For such a two-faced person, you must stay away from it, in his eyes, there are no eternal friends, only eternal interests, and praising you and stepping on you is just a matter of thought.

3. No filial piety and no respect for parents.

If a person is not filial to even his parents, then he must not have a deep friendship with him. You think, even the parents who gave birth to him and raised him can ignore it, which means that he does not have the most basic sense of gratitude. There are also people who are very disrespectful to their parents, that is, the attitude of contempt in their bones, this kind of person is not allowed to have deep friendships, and he doesn't need a reason to betray you at all.

4. Spoof has no bottom line, and likes to fight to persuade friends who drive to drink.

Some people always like to spoof at friends' parties, ostensibly trying to set off the atmosphere, but in fact, they are joking about other people's lives and health. At the wedding, he had an idea to be vulgar, and he forced others to not get off the stage at the wine table, and he looked down on him if he didn't drink. This kind of person must not be deeply acquainted, and it is only a matter of time before something goes wrong with him.

Words are not believed. Very insidious people. The way of doing things is very vicious. The city is very deep. The speech is very arrogant. The way of doing things is extreme. Very unreasonable. Very. It is very merciless and unrighteous. Very snobbish.

People who are very selfish, very stingy, two-faced, and do bad things behind their backs are not allowed to have deep friendships.

One thing on the surface, one thing behind the scenes, always saying bad things about others, complaining about others, not thinking that they have any mistakes, we don't want to get along with these kinds of people.

Life is inevitably in contact with people, the maintenance of various social relationships, and when I grew up, I found that there are three types of people who cannot be deeply acquainted, the first type: people who try to take advantage of them, but never give.

The second category: getting along with the other person, making you feel unpleasant, and not bringing you the slightest positive emotional value.

The third category: people who interfere excessively with your normal life.

No matter how good a friend is, he will have a "degree" in his heart when he gets along, and he will not interfere too much in each other's life, but do something and not do something.

1. People who always ask for and don't pay, don't make deep friends.

Someone said that friends get along with each other by two hearts, as long as the other party can treat you sincerely, this person can be regarded as a good friend.

But in fact, friends also have to be cautious about "talking about money", and the better the relationship, the more money will be talked about.

Have you ever met someone like this in your interpersonal interactions?

They always take and like to take advantage of small advantages; When we go out to eat together, he always hides at the end, it's time to settle the bill and make excuses to go to the bathroom, and he only comes out when others have finished settling the bill.

When others invite guests to dinner, he always arrives at the first time, but when it is his turn to invite guests to dinner, he always makes excuses that he doesn't have time.

From the relationship of interests to eating and drinking, he always likes to be calculating and is never willing to suffer.

In other words: he just wants others to spend money on him, but he is never willing to spend money on others.

How can such a friend get along?

2. People who always bring you "negative emotional value" should not be deeply acquainted.

There is such a group of people, they habitually confide in the outside world about negative energy, always complaining.

When there is a problem at work, he does not look for his own reasons, but puts the responsibility on his colleagues;

I always get stuck at work, which leads to being late, but complains that the company works too early.

No matter what happened, they immediately thought of shirking responsibility, but they did not look for the reason from themselves.

When getting along with others, they are used to transferring negative emotions to others, and all unpleasantness, worries, trivial matters in life, etc., must be vented on others.

In your chat history, you can see that he is always talking, and you are always passively listening.

And when you encounter confusion, emotional difficulties, and want to seek his advice and help, he finds reasons to shirk it.

Not listening carefully, perfunctory, indifferent.

Such a person is not worthy of deep friendship at all.

3. People who interfere too much in your life should not have deep friendships.

When people get along with others, there should be a sense of proportion, and excessive interference in the lives of others is a manifestation of disrespect for others.

Each of us has our own small space, both in the living environment and in the spiritual space.

When our thinking, our thoughts, are excessively interfered with by others, we feel uncomfortable.

When we live in an environment where we are always disturbed by others, we feel that there is no privacy.

People who trespass too much into your life are not really friends at all, because they have "no sense of proportion".

Distance produces beauty" is not wrong at all, only by keeping a proper distance can we leave a beautiful impression on the other party's heart.

On the contrary, your interruption will only make others disgusted.

When people really grow up, they will find that there are three kinds of people around them that they can't have deep friendships. If you have a deep relationship, it will not be good for yourself. People who are not kind.

Another person who is not worthy of association is the person who is not kind.

Kindness is the basic of human beings. A person who is not kind, no matter how good he is, it is in vain.

From ancient times to the present, kindness has always been a quality admired by people.

You've seen multiple people say a quote about kindness.

For example, Victor Hugo said: A good heart is the sun.

Shakespeare said: A good heart is worth **.

It can be seen that kind people are popular.

Therefore, if you are not a kind person, it is best not to associate with him, and it is not worth having a deep celery.

People who can't keep secrets.

Those who can't keep secrets can't have deep friendships.

Some people's mouths can not only eat, but also say a lot of things that should not be said in the first place. Such people are very annoying.

You just tell him a little thing, and he might spread it to the public.

There is a word to describe such a person, called "Eight Po". When we say that a person talks a lot and can't keep secrets, we will call him "Ba Po", regardless of whether he is male or female.

For those who can keep secrets, it is worth associating, at least he will not give away all the eighteen generations of your ancestors.

Really, when it comes to choosing people with deep friendships, people who can't keep secrets will only hurt you, not be friendly.

So such a person is not worthy of deep friendship.

People who don't talk about their credibility.

People who don't talk about credit naturally can't have deep friendships.

The person who was most impressed was once considered my best friend, but through one thing, I blocked her.

The year before last, she asked me to borrow money, and she said that she would pay it back in a few months. A few months later, she didn't pay it back, but when she said sorry, I forgot it.

After another year, she still won't pay it back. This time, she didn't even say anything, even as if there was no such thing.

I mentioned it to her later, and she lightly didn't have it for the time being, and returned it when she did.

It's not a lot of money, and I can afford to lose it.

Seeing that she owes money but is justified, I blocked her in a fit of anger.

I don't want to make friends with such people. The money should be given away.

Therefore, when I grow up, I will understand that these kinds of people cannot be deeply acquainted.

After experiencing an incident, while involving the interests of both of you, he overrides your interests to obtain benefits, and you feel very wronged, this kind of person can't have a deep friendship.

In front of interests, he only sees benefits, even if he hurts you and deceives you, he will get back his own interests. This kind of person can only be a friend who nods back, and if he is a deep friend, he will suffer a big loss sooner or later.

The five kinds of people who have improper mental skills must not have deep friendships.