A colleague said in front of the crowd, You can t believe what you say. What should you do

Updated on workplace 2024-06-10
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If it's a work problem, then you say that let's study the following together, maybe I'm negligent. If it's life, you can easily make a joke.

    Sometimes it is not that you feel that you are not lying, the words must be credible, do not rule out that you have accepted the wrong information, resulting in the untrustworthy factor of your words, in fact, you are not lying, what you say is what you know, but it is also possible for people who know the correct information to think that you said the wrong thing!

    Leave yourself a way out and give others a step ......Your life will be richer!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In society, friction inevitably occurs between mixed people, and there is no need to be afraid of what a person looks like, and he does not need to be told by others

    You tell people what I look like, and everyone gets along with each other for a long time, and you know La

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Facts speak louder than words. There is no need to explain more, some things are getting darker and darker, let time tell.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If she's joking, you can be funny with her, and don't take it seriously, you can say who you believe, your husband's. Because if you take it too seriously, it will make the people next to you think that you have a problem. But if she is honest and honest about you, then you don't want to offend her, then you don't have to say anything, and let the facts prove that you are not lying.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe I should find a chance to talk to her and find out what the problem is.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe it's because of some occasional misunderstanding.

    I wouldn't blame her.

    I believe that each person's every move will silently affect the other.

    When she finds out that she blames you wrong.

    Your friendship will endure.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I was told a long time ago that when someone spits in your face, if you are really good, you should do three things: first, announce that your face is a drop of rain falling from the sky, and second, wipe him off; Third, let your determination and courage burn stronger.

    Pretending to be able or dare to forgive others is the ability of the strong and the virtue of the capable. Regardless of whether this is a self-seeking step and self-balancing Ah Q spirit. In any case, learning to be tolerant is also a sign of maturity.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think anyone who encounters such a thing will feel embarrassed! Once or twice, you don't suffer at all if you are generous! But remember the premise, just once or twice, and if it's always like this, you can say to him seriously, do you think it's funny to tease me like this?

    I respect you, but I also want you to respect yourself!

    There are a few suggestions that I would like you to check out!

    After all, it's just a joke, and turning your face easily will make everyone think that you are stingy! So you should have your own personality in normal times!

    It's like, you and a friend laugh every day, even if you scold him, he smiles and doesn't care, if suddenly one day, you just talk in a heavy tone, he turns his face with you, you will feel that he shouldn't be so ungraceful, and even the colleagues you see around will say that he shouldn't be so angry!

    Actually, you know what, apathy conquers everything!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Try to avoid the disadvantages, convert them into your own characteristics, and then forgive him, don't care, just make a joke.

    It's good to drop everything.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you say it to you, you can tactfully say that you don't understand it very well, and if it is said to others, you can ignore it, why disturb your mood.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    See if you have a good relationship with your colleagues! If it's good, you can just say what you say I don't understand it in Mandarin Say it again If the relationship with your colleague is not good, you can avoid it He obviously doesn't want you to understand it deliberately (give me an adoption, thank you).

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In other words, you don't want to understand their language.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    He doesn't want you to understand, avoidance.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Teaching you in private is for your good, teaching you in public, obviously using you as a ladder and stepping on you to climb, this kind of person should not be merciful, or he will not move, and find a suitable opportunity to refute him fatally, but he can't swear! Otherwise, no one in the unit will take you seriously in the future! When I was young, I mistakenly thought that colleagues could be friends or elders, and as a result, I suffered again and again, and then I figured out that there was no difference between colleagues and enemies, so I began to pay attention, and now I am much more confused!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Let's have some fun for you!

    The sun is sick, the moon is tired. What are they doing?

    1. The sun worked hard for the moon and got sick.

    2. The moon feels sorry for the sun and is tired.

    3, what a beautiful pair.

    They fell in love! Bless them all!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Stay away from her. Don't waste your time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You don't have to look back at all to see who is the person who cursed you? If a mad dog bites you, do you have to lie down and bite him back?

    Sit quietly and think about yourself, and don't talk about others.

    Observe your own mistakes, don't judge others.

    The heart of the villain, prevent inadvertent hair.

    With the heart of a villain, spend the belly of a gentleman.

    Whoever doesn't talk about people behind their backs, who doesn't talk about people behind their backs.

    The words of an honest man are as reliable as his collateral. --Cervantes Confession is so cool, and it can win the hearts of the people the most. --Balzac.

    Go your own way and let others say go!

    The gentleman is in righteousness, and the villain is in profit. — Confucius.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There are such people everywhere, you just don't associate with them. This kind of person can't have deep friendships.

    Your adoption is the driving force for me to move forward, remember to praise and adopt, and help each other

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are too many such people, everywhere,

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I know that it is not snow, but there is a dark fragrance.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Say your own thing, let them go. In fact, I used to be afraid of giving speeches, training colleagues, or speaking in the company. As soon as I stood on the stage, I blushed and couldn't speak, and even if I said it, I was stumbling.

    But now that I can sway freely, I don't deliberately correct or learn, but I am fully prepared before the speech, and I will think about what kind of effect will appear in any place. There must also be reminders, don't memorize them, but don't read them either, just look at them casually, so as not to forget the words because of nervousness. The main thing is not to be afraid of the people who listen to the guests, in fact, they don't understand anything, what you say is what you say.

    In fact, it was like this at the beginning, and after talking about it two or three times, it will get better, and I believe that you will succeed @

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No one is born to talk eloquently in front of the audience, and no one can control themselves well the first time.

    Take it easy. The first thing you have to do is not be afraid to speak in front of everyone. (Because you yourself know that you need to exercise yourself).

    Wait for standing in front of others to become a habit. Naturally, I was not nervous, and I was free to :)

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Say to yourself like this, it's nothing, say it wrong, just make them laugh. Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

    Cheer yourself up in your heart, have some self-confidence, courage, free and easy, and are not afraid to be responsible for doing wrong things.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    That's not something that can be overcome in a day or two, you should talk more in front of everyone, deliberately exercise yourself to show yourself in front of everyone, and the effect will be after a long time, of course, your self-confidence in this exercise is very important.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Just try to speak louder.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Like. The supervisor cares and loves each of us, and I believe that everyone likes it as much as I do.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In the face of colleagues' love to speak ill of others, as a teacher, you should have noble ideological qualities and good moral cultivation. Speaking badly will not only have a very bad impact on your colleagues, but also affect your own personality. As a new teacher, I will treat my colleagues sensibly and love to speak ill of others.

    First, as a new teacher, I should integrate into the new group as soon as possible. Observe more, do more, talk less, and don't speak ill of others. I will get to know your personality and style of doing things in the way you get along with you.

    Second, I will be rational about the preferential treatment of my colleagues for speaking ill, if my colleagues often cause trouble. If I say bad things about others, I will face them with a rational and tolerant attitude, and will not affect the cooperation between colleagues. And after the usual observation, say something about being said badly in a relaxed atmosphere, the teacher's merits, so that others can see his shining point.

    Third, if this colleague points out my mistakes objectively, even though I don't approve of talking about other people's problems behind my back. But I will also reflect on myself and make sure that I don't make the same mistakes.

    Fourth. I'll go through this thing. Adjust and reflect on yourself, do your own work in the future work, and at the same time, treat every colleague with a positive and optimistic and tolerant attitude, see and learn the shining points of each colleague, so as to infect this colleague and make colleagues get along more harmoniously.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Ignore it. Be myself, work hard in my work, do my job well, and lead myself to discern. It's better to say it than to do it well.

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