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Of course, my family was afraid that I would be unhappy in the future, so they did this. Of course not. In fact, your family should be against it.
Just think about it, you can't help but have any contacts in five years, and it's strange to see it, people really don't know you in Chengdu! The biggest problem is your family"Not at all"Therefore, I think you should try your best to make your family change their opinion of your boyfriend, if you can't do it, you can only break up!
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First of all, as a parent, you are thinking about your own children, which is understandable. But it doesn't seem very appropriate, and that could be counterproductive! You have to put yourself in your parents' shoes and think about whether your boyfriend is worth competing with your parents.
If it were me, I would like to have a good talk with my parents, talk about the reasons of both parties, and whether we can find a compromise solution for each other! Your parents understand your thoughts, and they also know what your boyfriend is doing, maybe, come to a hundred and eight turns!
But if your parents are snobs, then your whole life will be ruined by your parents! The parents of those who gave birth to you are also, and the parents of those who have sinned against you!
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I don't think it's acceptable, let alone five years, you can't have any contacts in a year, you can't get through, you can't meet, I think this relationship can't hold up. I think you should communicate well with your family.
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Yes, the family is also good to you, saying that in this way, it is just a good test of whether your relationship is strong or not, whether the love is deep enough, if you are still the same after 5 years, it means that you have not waited in vain, and you will be happy all your life because you have found someone who truly loves you.
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Is there such a necessity that true love can be stopped by something else? If it's me, I'll pursue my true love, if it's the person I love, I won't care if he has money, whether his career is successful, I'll stay by his side and work hard with him, I won't accept the arrangement of my family, otherwise you don't love him, if you really love him, it's not something that can stop it, isn't it
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Decide for yourself the events of your life. Freedom to marry! Love if you want! You are living with your significant other for a lifetime, not with your family!
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My problem is the same as yours, but my man has been in prison, so my family doesn't agree, I can understand, I gave up, and my heart is bitter
I'd love to stick to it
But I can't
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Your family won't harm you, there must be something wrong with him that your family has discovered, as long as it's not your family who wants to use you as a cash cow :)
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So who is picking a son-in-law? It's just picking "money".
Happiness is not found in this way.
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This proves that your family loves you very much!
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Family love is love.
Weigh it yourself.
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When we are separated, we will be sad for each other for a while, but if we are not separated, we will always be sad with each other, and if love is too crowded, we can't help but separate.
Sometimes, love hurts. Cruel people choose to hurt others, and kind people choose to hurt themselves.
Some encounters between people are like shooting stars, bursting out with enviable sparks in an instant, but they are destined to just pass by in a hurry.
Sometimes, it is for the sake of love that they quietly dodge. What is hiding is the figure, but what can't be avoided is the silent feelings.
We had to part, say goodbye softly, and thank you for the deep friendship you had given me.
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Family advice can be referred to. But it doesn't have to be copied.
You can also use this "opportunity" to distance yourself from your boyfriend and give him a chance to prove himself.
Talk to your boyfriend.
Just follow the advice of his family and give him a few years, not necessarily five years, but preferably no more than five years. In the past few years, he has to make a lot of achievements.
If your relationship is deep, or if he really cares about you, he will definitely try it.
And you, pay attention, it is not the result of him who is tested, but the process! In the past few years, has he done his best to fight for your future? If you do your best, even if you don't meet your parents' requirements, it is enough to prove that he has a heart for you!
The two of them are really together, and they spend more time together than five or ten years, but many five or ten years. If your relationship can't stand the test of a few years, how can it stand the test of a few decades?
Of course, in the past few years, you can't help but meet, and you can't help but fight! This is simply inhumane treatment!
On the contrary, if you take action, you should silently support him and encourage him!
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I think there is a right and a wrong way to do this, and if you think about it, you have to pity the hearts of your parents, they are good to you, and you yourself understand that they have their reasons for doing this, and there must be something to adopt, but I think you should give up, between family and love, you have to choose family affection, because family affection is only once in your life, and love you can choose many times, not more than once.
Come back and talk about how he has no career How will you support you in the future Will you work hard to make money in the future Just for the house that others already have Is the car worth What is love What will happen after the shelf life You are very tired Five years is not long But for your relationship It is too long How many things have happened in five years You are dizzy Maybe you will meet someone who is better than him You like it more Think about it carefully I hope you get rid of the problem as soon as possible and be in a happy mood.
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Oh, your family's words, take us to the era of the late Qing Dynasty, hehe.
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If you are sure that you love him and he loves you, then don't worry about your family.
Doing things intuitively can sometimes be rewarding.
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Your family is ridiculous, they don't even have human rights, will you do what they want? Do you think that's right?
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In fact, Qiong Yao is a little bit, as long as there is love, it doesn't matter if there is anything else.
However, I think that in reality, even in the feelings, no matter how strong they are, they can't resist the erosion of time, and from a certain point of view, such a request has been severed from your love.
Ho ho, it's just a little humble feeling, I can't accept it.
But I hope I can open some!
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Hehe. Are you still in school? I was the same as you when I was in school, my family didn't agree, but I didn't separate from him, we were together for more than 4 years, and I proposed to break up a few months ago because he didn't have the ability to give me a good life, and bread is more important than love in comparison.
So listen to your family, they won't lie to you. lest the wound be deeper in the future.
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I think you should also appreciate your own responsibilities and your family.
They were right to catch them.
But also wrong?
One is to make you happy in the future.
The second is to see if your boyfriend doesn't talk about it.
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Although I don't have much experience, I think that even if he has a successful career in 5 years, after such a long separation, your relationship will still be as good as before. Also, is your family really committed, or is it because they don't like your boyfriend?
Of course, it's me, if I really love him, he really loves me. If I can't convince my family, I'd rather elope. Know what a painful torment it is! I can't stand it! ~~
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Trust your family's choice, otherwise you will regret it one day. It's true!
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I betrayed myself only to realize how ridiculous this was.
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It's happy, it's fast, and it's painful.
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How will you live after you let me live?
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Asking what is the situation in the world is a promise of life and death.
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I think that distance can only produce farther distance.
There is also a stuffy sentence of the lyrics of the stool I like it a lot, in fact, love needs to be accompanied Not an oath can solve the rough elimination.
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No, it's because the other party is running away and unwilling to face it.
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Not good, if you don't like each other.
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True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), when you see you, you will be excited, your heart beats faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her). Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist
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