My boyfriend and I are in a different place, how can our relationship not fade?

The biggest problem between the two places is the lack of communication, ** and SMS communication is not able to replace face-to-face communication, lack of communication will be estranged, and then there will be contradictions, more will directly affect your feelings, I have an experience is that 2 people in a different place, lack of communication, but when they meet, they do not communicate, but enjoy the sweetness, which takes into account communication, after all, the number and time of meeting are not much. So try to find a way to live in one place, and it's always bad to be in two places.

In any case, if you have been separated for a long time, it is still not good. Time can change everything. Feelings also do not stand the test of time and space. It is better if two people work in the same city. It's better to see each other often.

Actually, I am in a similar situation to you, and I have also experienced it, after he was transferred to another place by the company, he was very good to me before, but one day in less than two months, his mobile phone was in arrears, and since then I have found that it is not as good to me as before. It turns out that I am back now, and it is still like this! Therefore, it is better not to think of you alone, if two people's hearts are together, even if they are far away, they will be together.

The key is to see the attitude of the two of you towards this relationship, isn't it?

;I think...

The only way.!

It's that he loves you, loves you, and lives alive.!

You don't marry that.!...

Otherwise, it is impossible to pull without fading.!

After all, he also touches other women...

Hey hey little kids insights.!

Try to develop in one city, you can't get married and live separately, right?

It's going to fade, it's not nonsense.

Even if it** text message.

But your environment is different, the people you know are different, and over time, the topic disappears.

That's how I broke up with my former boyfriend!

Realistically, unless you try to come together.

If he's kind, send more text messages**.

If he's not kind, then just disappear.

I walked with her for 1 year and 8 months, one in Hunan and one in Sichuan, I thought we wouldn't be like others said, but the truth gave me a slap in the face, woke me up, I talked to her every day, and it turned out to be like this, I don't want you to give up, but I want you to be prepared.

To change, right? Then you can work hard to get to a city.

Don't try to maintain it

The points will be scored

A long-distance relationship is indeed a great test of the relationship between two people, if two people still have feelings, they can choose to end the long-distance relationship, and two people may be able to get better together; If it doesn't make sense, ending the relationship is also an option。With the continuous development of society and the increasing convenience of transportation, it is not uncommon for young people to have long-distance relationships. Many people face the situation of being together when they were in school, and having to live separately for work and life after graduation.

A long-distance relationship means that two people who love each other are thousands of miles apart, although distance is not a problem, but for couples in love, this distance may still become a stumbling block to the relationship between two people. You and your boyfriend have only been in a long-distance relationship for more than a year, which is not a long time, but the relationship between the two people has faded, which shows that the distance has a great impact on you, and it also shows that the relationship between the two of you is not particularly deep.

If you still want to be with your boyfriend, then you should actively save the relationship and discuss with your boyfriend to end the long distance. Ending a long distance means that one person must give up his existing life circle and settle in the city where another person lives, which is not something that others can decide, and must be negotiated with the boyfriend. After the end of the long distance, the two people have more time together, maybe the relationship can heat up.

If you don't feel the need to maintain the relationship anymore, it's okay to choose to end it. The long-distance relationship has only been around for more than a year and there is no topic, which shows that this is not just a matter of distance, there is a problem in your relationship, and since you don't want to be together anymore, it's good to give up.

There is still a long way to go in life, and the choices you make are related to your marriage and family, so there is no need to rush to make a decision. Try to make a list of possibilities and try to make the most sensible decision you can make that you can't regret later.

1. Mutual accommodation. Girls should calm down and be more considerate of each other. 2. Keep yourself busy. Use your free time to find something fun to do and don't worry too much. 3. Listen more. The two of them pick a time and have a good chat.

In such a situation, you must communicate with each other in a timely manner, and you should usually create some interesting topics, you can tell each other about some interesting things that happen in your life, often have to play ** or open**, if you have time, you can go to each other's city to surprise each other, and you should also pay attention to the sense of ritual when you celebrate the festival, and prepare some gifts for each other.

You can try to go on a date with two people, or find a common topic, and you can also solve such a situation by sharing things in your life.

1. The frequency and method of chatting in long-distance relationships.

Long-distance relationships should maintain a good frequency of chatting, even if they are usually busy, do not ignore the importance of chat communication. Usually be diligent in contact, share more of your life dynamics, remember to greet when you are tired after work, and reply to messages in a timely manner; If there is really something urgent that you can't take care of, it's best to inform the other party of your arrangements in advance, so that he will think that you care about him very much, and he will think of him in everything, and his favorability towards you will gradually increase.

2. Daily interaction in a long-distance relationship.

The day-to-day interaction of a long-distance relationship is very important, and although there are not many opportunities to meet, it does not mean that you can't participate in each other's lives. You can interact more in your daily life and do things that both people can participate in, such as playing games together, reading a book together and sharing your reading experience, etc. When two people do something together, they maximize each other's participation in love.

In this way, the distance between each other will be shortened on the psychological level, and the relationship will be more harmonious.

3. Openness of relationships.

Distance will continue to reduce the emotional trust of two people, and they need to continue to maintain intimacy. Once there is some relaxation, it is easy for the relationship to crack. The best thing to do about emotional mistrust is to make your relationship public.

Let a friend, colleague, or classmate know that you are in a relationship, that you love each other very much, and that you are doing well.

4. Buy small gifts.

Usually send him some small gifts, snacks or order takeout, so that he can feel as if you are around, skills create surprises, and can improve his psychological satisfaction with feelings through the attention of the people around him.

5. Meet regularly.

The frequency of meeting can be agreed between the two parties in advance, such as once or twice a month, and couples from other countries or farther away can agree to meet for a longer period. The principle is who is convenient for whom, generally the man goes three times and the woman goes once, and sometimes you can suddenly go to the other party and give the other party a surprise.

Hello, most long-distance relationships are easy to break up irretrievably because of the distance and the relationship fades. So when the relationship is getting weaker and weaker, there is no better way than to go to his side and accompany him.

It depends on whether you want to keep him or her? If you can't let go, do something that can move the other person and let the other person know that you cherish the relationship. If the other party is not moved by your actions, it is probably his problem.

What should I do when the long-distance relationship is getting weaker and weaker? Now there are only two paths to take. One is to contact her as soon as possible, and then it is best to solve the problem of the current long-distance relationship.

Don't be in a long-distance relationship, because. It's hard to avoid it because of the increasing distance. The second is to say that because of this kind of distant love that is getting weaker and weaker, it may be given up in the end, and it is estimated that this road is only to give up.

The long-distance relationship is getting weaker and weaker, which means that the two of you are two. It's not suitable to break up soon.

Then you have to ask him if he is green, and this year is his natal color.

The long-distance relationship fadesIt should be a relatively bland experience, which can be said to be uneventful, and the heart is particularly calm. After all, this process is relatively long, after all, the long-distance relationship fades not overnight.

The long-distance relationship itself is particularly difficult to get along, although there are many times when two people have a certain emotional foundation together, and the relationship between the two people will be better, but all of this is not able to withstand the test of time and distance, especially with the passage of time and the two people are not together, after a long time, the two people communicate less, and the relationship will naturally become weaker, it can be said that the final result is the most familiar stranger.

When I face the long-distance relationship and the relationship fades, I am calm in my heart. After graduating from university, I entered a large factory to work, and I had relatively more contact with colleagues in other departments at work, and after a long time, I became very familiar with one of my colleagues, especially in some jobs that need to be completed by two people, and after a long time, I naturally have feelings.

This kind of relationship is not particularly optimistic in many people, working in a company, such a relationship is not particularly convenient to manage, and there are many times to be discussed by others, but they and the other party can eliminate these external factors, and they can manage this relationship with their hearts.

The beginning of the relationship is relatively good, the two people are more enjoying this relationship, and later due to work reasons, they were transferred to a branch in another city to work, and it was okay when they first separated, after all, there is a certain emotional foundation between the two people, and the two people will often contact. After a long time, when the other party encounters difficulties or is sick and uncomfortable, I can't care for and take care of the other party, although I am also helpless, but the reality is that I can't make myself better to give her more care and care.

In this way, the relationship between the two people began to undergo subtle changes, and the two people became different from the original and would say anything to each other, especially when the other party was in difficulty, she would not want to get help from herself, but would find a way to solve it by herself, which has given herself a clear signal, and she was also more entangled at the beginning, whether to continue to insist on this relationship, whether she should reapply to return to the original company, but there is still a certain gap between the idea and the reality, As time goes by, the relationship between two people becomes very unfamiliar, basically they don't communicate much or don't communicate much, and they don't feel as much as other friends or colleagues, and the final result can be imagined.

I and her broke up peacefully, and there was no quarrel between the two of them, and there was no major contradiction, but now that I think about it, I still lost to distance and time in the end.

The general feeling is that it is experiencedFrom the most familiar to the strangestHow do you feel?

He and I were high school classmates, and we were at the same table in high school, and everyone understands that most of the love in high school is relatively pure, so studying together, secretly listening to songs together, and correcting mistakes together are some very happy feelings. It's just that early love is not allowed in high school, so we only got together after the college entrance examination.

It's just that the time together is also very embarrassing, and both of them didn't say it in time for some reason, and when they said it again, they had already filled in the volunteers. So there was no way, so I was forced to become a long-distance relationship.

When I first started, I felt like I would never have it again in my life. ProbablyI would like to be able to be together anytime and anywhere, and I would want to share any little details of my life with him.

What I remember most is that I would bring my phone in the shower and keep chatting. At that time, it was not a smartphone, it was a flip phone, so the motherboard of the mobile phone was burned out because of wet hand typing, and I was scolded by my parents for this, saying that I didn't know what mobile phone to bring in the shower.

Every time I encounter something happy, the first thing that comes to mind is him. Later, when he came to Chengdu from Chongqing to see me, the first time he held hands, it was a feeling that he did not have in his later life.

I still remember the first time I was separated at the train station, and when I saw him slowly disappear into the crowd, I really couldn't control myself, and my tears kept falling (later, I never met anyone who would make me feel that I should shed tears when I was separated).

But as the time in the field gets longer and longer,Slowly, you will feel that it doesn't matter if the other party has or not。I feel that whenever I need the other person the most, the other person is not around. Many times I want to share the joys, sorrows and sorrows with him, but in fact, when I think about it, I feel that it is not interesting.

The general feeling is that many times, the person I want to share with in the first place is actually not him. In addition, the circles of the two people in the back are completely different, in fact, it is difficult to find common topics, so the back is getting colder and colder.

In the end, when I said that I broke up, I just replied with a faint good, and I didn't even have much fluctuation in my heart. So we can also be regarded as a peaceful breakupAfter separation, they did not become enemies, but they still kept in touch.

Of course, the two of them have new feelings and are now at peace with each other. It's just that occasionally I still think of my sincerity and sincerity at the beginning, I miss myself who was brave enough to face anything at that time, and I feel that some people actually have it very well, and there is no need to be together.