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Marriage can't stand the toss repeatedly. From complete strangers to forming a warm little family, two people need to go through various tests. If you meet the so-called true love after marriage, you might as well think twice.
Everyone will have a side that likes the new and hates the old. However, marriage is a lifelong thing. If you don't have any feelings for someone from the beginning, and you are not physically and mentally prepared and planned to get married, then it is best not to easily agree to marry someone.
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I think if this person you like very much and you decide to be with him, then you make it clear to your partner and tell him that you have met someone better and you want to pursue your love.
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Contact the opposite sex, contact fate, etc. If you meet the right person you like, then connect the life between the opposite sex, and contact each other's fate, hoping that each other's love can have a common intention.
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After getting married, how to deal with the right person when you meet someone who is really excited?
Don't be touched once in a while and ignore the long-lasting warmth. If you've been in a relationship for a long time, you'll feel that the other person takes everything for granted. Time will invisibly fade away a lot of things, making us forget that the person who has paid for a long time does not have to be like this, but is just willing to pay for love.
Many people meet the opposite sex after marriage, and a large part of the reason is that the other party's inadvertent behavior gives them a warm feeling. However, we must also understand that occasional touch cannot offset the dedication and care of the person who has always been by his side. What we have to do is to cherish the people in front of us and cherish the feelings we already have.
Keep your distance, don't see each other again, don't think of each other again. At the fork in the road, you're on the left, I'm on the right. We are all stubborn and never look back.
Maybe it's the oath of the past life, but it's also the reality of you and me in this life. Love has a time limit. There is a difference between knowing too early or too late.
In different spaces, you will know different people. This is called fate. If it's not the marriage of husband and wife, it's just the fate of passers-by.
Actually, you don't have to indulge yourself and put yourself in an intolerable situation. Regret is the past that cannot be returned; As a result, I couldn't bear to cry. Don't be hurt by love, you will be lost.
Don't linger in regrets, you will miss out on more beautiful sunshine.
You must know that marriage cannot withstand repeated tosses. From being a complete stranger to forming a warm little family, two people have to go through various trials. I believe that you wanted to marry someone in the first place because you really like the other person, you are true love.
If you don't love someone at all, you probably won't marry them easily. Marriage is not as good as you think. Marriages will have some regrets or shortcomings to a greater or lesser extent.
In the face of imperfections in marriage, we need to tolerate and tolerate each other, and learn to face up to various problems in marriage. If you meet the so-called true love after marriage, you might as well think twice.
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Hello, I am the emotional fairy sister, waiting patiently for me.
I like him by asking questions, but I appreciate them in my heart.
I also feel like he likes me too, only they don't say anything to each other.
Divorce is also immoral.
Just want to go through the dilemma.
But afraid to confess.
The boy didn't say anything, and the drunken gesture was shown.
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Even if you meet someone you like after marriage, the best way you have to do is to appreciate him, and you have no other way.
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If you meet someone you like after marriage, I think you shouldn't be with this person for moral reasons, because if you are with someone you like at this time, then you will still be unable to control yourself if there is another person you like. will ruin their own marriage.
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Here's how it works:
When we meet someone we particularly like, we can't let ourselves not like it. Because this is a feeling in our hearts, we are attracted to the other person, and we are very happy to see the other person. But liking and loving are never the same thing.
If you like it, you can watch it from a distance, and you can enjoy it. And love is the only one, single-minded when you are already in marriage, you should understand that you can't go beyond the thunder pool and do extraordinary things. You can like it, but you must hurt two women because of this like.
Second, you are already in the marriage and have no right to re-enter the game, so don't have ripples in your heart to add troubles.
If you are already married, you need to control your emotions. You can't be emotional, you can't let yourself be like an animal, not controlled by the brain. So you have to understand that inside the marriage, you are not a free body, and you have no right to send and receive such special emotions outside of the marriage.
So, don't trick yourself and let yourself fall into emotions.
What's more, if the other party is looking for their other half, and your intervention will bring great harm to the other party. Then your liking will also become the last thing the other party wants to mention. You will also lose the trust of the other party in the family, and you may end your marriage.
Even if the other person forgives you, it will leave a scar deep inside, and it will become a gray memory between you that can never be erased. There will be fermentation from time to time, which will make the other party find you trouble. Therefore, in marriage, don't do anything out of line to make yourself regretful.
3. Mend the deficiencies in the marriage and let yourself have a sense of happiness and joy in the marriage.
Being attracted to other members of the opposite sex outside of marriage is often in marriage, and the other party has something that we are not used to and dissatisfied with. And those traits on the other party that were once cute and liked by you have also been erased by the trivial things in marriage. Or you have ignored it and taken it for granted.
Therefore, you need to fix the problems that exist with each other in your marriage, so that you and your lover can have that fresh smell again. So that two people have a sense of happiness together, and a sense of happiness arises.
Fourth, break the fantasy of seeing flowers in the fog, let yourself be clear-headed, and don't do stupid things.
We especially like someone, often attracted to a certain point in the other person, and often this is exactly what one party in the marriage is missing, so we will compare, will blindly exaggerate this, and then we will feel that the other person is more suitable for us. In fact, we all know that love and marriage are two concepts, marriage needs to live a real life, need to live together with each other, and live a life of firewood, rice, oil and salt.
So, a lot of times, we idealize the person outside of marriage. It's a bit foggy to see the flowers, and it's a very beautiful feeling. Once you go into the depths, you will find that the reality is very skinny, making you want to lose your armor. So, keep your head clear and don't let yourself be blindsided.
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I like him by asking questions, but I appreciate them in my heart.
I also feel like he likes me too, only they don't say anything to each other.
Divorce is also immoral.
Just want to go through the dilemma.
But afraid to confess.
The boy didn't say anything, and the drunken gesture was shown.
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will not hesitate to choose to give up directly, because such a relationship is destined to be fruitless, and it will also affect your family, so you must be very rational.
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I would choose divorce. Because if you insist on not getting a divorce, you and him will not live happily, it is better to divorce and pursue your true love.
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Netizen: I'm married, what should I do if I meet someone I like, can I be friends with him, can I continue to date? There is no pure friendship between men and women. "Lu Jing's Women's Growth Space".
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I will resolutely forget because I care more about my family, I care more about my marriage, and I know that doing so is unfair to my other half, so I will not do it.
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I will keep a tight control over my actions. Take control of your thoughts. Think more about your family and your loved ones. Avoid having such thoughts.
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Strangled in the cradle, can not be infinitely magnified, you have to consider your own family and children, are adults, do things to be responsible for their own consequences.
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We must think carefully, rather than in exchange, it is better to concentrate on one person to manage with heart, 95% of the feelings in life can be solved through business processing, only some feelings are really bad to a certain extent, only choose to solve through divorce. In a relationship, although not everyone can be 100% loyal, when our eyes shift from the person we love to other people of the opposite sex, sometimes it is more because of freshness, or because we feel that the other person can give you something that your current lover can't give you. But at this time, don't make a decision lightly, leave your current lover, and be with the opposite sex that you just come into contact with.
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After marriage, you meet the person you like, you should be responsible for your husband and children, you can't get another heir, just want to end your marriage, you see another person just on the surface you think is suitable, completely let go of this deformed relationship.
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Well, after getting married, you will live a down-to-earth life, don't look at the mountain high, the mountain looks at the mountain high, live with this man, and think about another man.
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After marriage, you will meet the person you like, and at this time, you have to use your reason to overcome yourself and your husband's good life, or you can also choose to divorce to pursue the person you like.
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Changing one's mind is instinctive, but loyalty is the choice, heartbeat is never the answer, heart determination is.
When you meet someone who makes your heart beat, your heart beats faster. The brain secretes dopamine to make you happy, you are like a different person, you are very motivated to do everything, this physiological response to be aroused by desire, and a person who likes to eat chocolate sees Defu, and a person who loves to drink meets Moutai is not essentially different. So when you meet someone who makes your heart flutter, you may just meet someone who can satisfy your desires, and that's it.
In life, we will encounter all kinds of encounters, not every desire needs to be satisfied, some desires are satisfied after a short period of happiness may have to be paid for with a lifetime of regret and difficulty, God gives you a gift with a very good package, after opening you may be doomed. The desire to not bring positive meaning to your life is called a trap, anyone knows that you are very happy when you play games all night, but in the long run it is harmful to your health, and there are still people who can't help but do it, this is called depravity. Another example is to play a game to clear the level, not once can make your adrenal hormone rise, dopamine secretion greatly increased, but this happiness is short-lived and cannot bring positive meaning to your life.
When you meet someone who makes your heart flutter, on the surface it seems that every time you meet, it is happy, but it also buries explosives for your life and brings hidden dangers. One day you may have to pay it back with ten times your grief. Therefore, it is best to keep a distance, to be affectionate, to stop at courtesy, not all good things have to be tasted, not all desires have to be realized.
Reason can make your life smooth sailing, and restraint can protect your life.
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What should I do if I meet someone I like after marriage? Family is a responsibility, marriage is like this, it starts with love, and slowly it becomes family affection, so we must cherish the present, cherish the present, and cherish the feelings of so many years. The so-called meeting a heart-warming person is that the hormones are playing tricks at that time, and it will become family affection after a long time, so when you meet a heart-warming person after marriage, you can't do anything to be sorry for your husband and children.
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What should I do if I meet someone I like after getting married? The time has come to test you. Don't forget that you're married.
You are responsible, so the omen. Heart-warming people. Don't think about it.
Too much. Leave him at once. Always thinking about your family waiting for you.
As long as there is a home in the heart. There will be no other distractions.
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If a person, whether a man or a woman, is married, he is responsible for his family, his wife, his spouse, or his children, so this should not happen at all.
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There are many kinds of heartbeats, some are the kind that want to get married, and some are just the excitement of the brain in the face of special things, you have to be clear about the actual meaning of your marriage and the person you say you are excited about, so that you can have the most mature choice.
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What should I do if I meet someone I like after marriage? Now that you are married, if you meet someone you like, you must also learn to restrain yourself, your heart is not swayed by feelings, and you have to be responsible for your wife and family.
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If you're married, don't be tempted anymore. Treat the family wholeheartedly and use your reason to restrain your emotions. There are many good people, don't ruin a family for your so-called heartbeat.
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Now that they are married, they have two children. No matter how good the men are outside. But you are the mother of which child, you can't just think about yourself. Imagine your responsibilities. That's what makes a good mother.
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Control your mentality, you are already married, you are responsible for your family, and you are responsible for your every word and deed.
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