The girl I chased before, now hints that I want to be nice to me, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-06-17
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I can understand your experience, you are still a little unwilling to marry your current girlfriend, and you feel that the other party is not sincere enough to treat the relationship with the woman you have chased before, it is more realistic, you can clearly say that you are now a fan of the authorities, from the perspective of a bystander, or your current girlfriend is more suitable to be with you, because it feels more realistic to not choose your woman because of your poor economic conditions before, if you still have nothing, will the other party still choose you? Maybe you have always had a regret in your heart that you couldn't be with her at the beginning, and you can see that you like that woman very much, but a moment of beauty does not mean that it will bloom forever, this situation is very contradictory, and I am now in this problem, my girlfriend is very suitable for life, but I was hooked by another girl, which is really embarrassing, and the best way is to wait and see.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Have a good talk with your current girlfriend

    And the woman before you, the two ways to do it are to either keep your distance or keep the relationship quietly.

    Listen to your description, the woman you chased before was a vain woman, and if you gave up your current time with her, there wouldn't be any happiness, and you would see her run back to see better, but you just want to have fun.

    You should cherish the woman you are now

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think you better break up with your girlfriend, you just hurt her by hiding her. Every man and other woman feel guilty about their girlfriend after doing that, and I hate this kind of man. I believe your girlfriend hates it too, who wants to give her boyfriend's body to someone else and then give it to her?

    Isn't it second-hand! It's divided, it's good for everyone.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You deserve to be a man, looking at what's in the bowl, looking at what's in the pot.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No need, there is no benefit in saying it, it will only make your current one jealous, you still cherish the person in front of you, and don't talk about it again if the past is over.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I have chased other girls before, and I can't talk about it with the current one.

    Of course, if the current question also needs to be confessed, it means that there is no need to hide it and say it boldly, since it is already the predecessor, there should not be much accountability for the past.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello, I don't think the current one needs to be heard if he doesn't ask, because everyone has a past, which cannot be erased, and it is also normal.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's better not to talk about it, so as not to cause more trouble, and it may also worsen the relationship between the two of you, so avoid talking about it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I suggest you just say it lightly, I have chased other girls before, but now I only have you in my heart, so I'm afraid that you will be jealous, so I'll tell you first.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you talk to other women, oh, if you talk to the current one, it's actually not good, so there's no need to talk to the current one, just keep it like this.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you care about these things very much, there is no need to say it, after all, it is just chasing, not chasing. Saying it will only add some unnecessary troubles to you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Based on personal experience, this cannot be said. If you say it, it will make the other party jealous, and it will also make the other party feel very unhappy, and it will also affect the relationship between the two people, so there is no need to say it at all.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There's no need, as long as you take your feelings seriously about the current situation, even if you know it, you won't change.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think if your current doesn't mention it, you should not say it, because most of the exs will mind the relationship between you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If the incumbent didn't ask you, don't say it yourself, because who hasn't chased a few people? Right, if you say it, he must think that you still care about this person.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think it's better to say it, if you say that the current one will be jealous, why should the girl who chased her before say it to her ex.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's best not to mention this question in front of your current girlfriend, because girls are the most taboo about such questions, he will feel very uncomfortable, and he will also think that you still have him in your heart, which will affect your relationship.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you don't take the initiative to ask about this matter, you don't need to talk about it, but if he asks, I personally think you should talk to him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In the face of a new relationship, what has passed is gone. Try not to mention it if you can. Because some feelings are mixed with the past. Cracks will appear.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. Dear, the woman sent it to me, in fact, I was also scared, I used to talk about it, I was very good to me when I was chasing me, and it changed after we were together. The meaning of the woman's sentence is that she wants to fall in love, but she is afraid of the boys who pursue her, and they are all very good to her at first, and they will not be good to her after they are together, and the relationship will change.

    The woman sent it to me, in fact, I was also weirdly scared, and I used to talk about being very nice to me when I was chasing me, and it changed after we got together.

    Dear, the woman sent it to me, in fact, I was also scared, I used to talk about it, I was very good to me when I was chasing me, and it changed after we were together. The meaning of this sentence is that she wants to fall in love, but she is afraid of chasing and begging her boys, who are very good to her at first, and they will not be good to her after being together, and their feelings will change.

    In fact, she longs to have a beautiful love and sincere feelings in her heart.

    So how do I talk to her.

    Do you have a crush on her.

    Yes. You just say: I like the girl, I will be sincere and sincere to her all the time, because I love her, I want to give her all my love.

    Are you going to be the girl I am?

    Yes. Did she send it?

    Yes. That's agreeing to be with you.

    Then you say: I will love you well for the rest of my life and give you happiness for a lifetime.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Hello dear, it is a pleasure to serve you. The meaning of the girl's sentence is to say:

    He doesn't believe in feelings very much now, and in his feelings is that I hurt me, and after being with someone who was very good to him at the beginning, the relationship has changed when it is dull. So he's very afraid that you're such a person. At this time, if you really like him, you must tell him that you really like him, and you will not change like others.

    Then he expressed great distress that he had this experience. In this way, the girl will cherish you very much. Very happy with you.

    The woman sent it to me, in fact, I was also weirdly scared, and I used to talk about being very nice to me when I was chasing me, and it changed after we got together.

    Hello dear, it is a pleasure to serve you. The meaning of the girl's sentence is: He doesn't believe in feelings very much now, and I hurt in his feelings, and after being with someone who was particularly good to him at the beginning, the relationship has changed when it is dull.

    So he's very afraid that you're such a person. At this time, if you really like him, you must tell him that you really like him, and you won't change the source like others. Then he expressed great distress that he had this experience.

    Kai disturbs this girl will cherish you very much. Very happy with you.

    So how do I express it.

    Let her believe. My dear, you can say this: time will test everything.

    I think I like you a lot, and I'm willing to work hard for it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since you are chasing the first girl, you should be firm in your attitude, if people do not explicitly reject you, they will give you another chance, saying that it is to introduce you to other girls to see your attitude.

    Now that you've added a second girl, the first girl might think you're more distracted. Wavering.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I guess it's a test for you. It's a routine.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Maybe she was tempted and wanted to test you, but I didn't expect you to agree to add, and I was a little disappointed in you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's testing you, obviously not satisfied with your operation.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Are you sure she's not a routine?

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