Life is painful, okay? Why is life painful?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-17
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's good to have pain! If you don't have pain in your life, then you will feel that your life without pain is a kind of pain. Happiness cannot be truly experienced without experiencing suffering.

    For example, if a child from a very good family does not worry about money and can get whatever he wants, then he will not be able to realize that his wishes come true is a kind of happiness, but he will feel a kind of emptiness. It's not often said that "I have nothing but money, and I have money left." Nothing else".

    Many people scoff at it, and people who think this way have not experienced the pain of not having money. When there are parents around, children do not think that having parents to teach and accompany them is happiness, but when their parents are not around, he can experience the pain of not having parents, and he can understand that having parents is a kind of happiness.

    In short, if you want to truly experience happiness, you have to go through pain in life. Only when we have experienced pain will we strive to create and pursue happiness and cherish it. Because pain and happiness are the twins of life, and life is incomplete if you lose either one.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There is pain in life, and like death, no one can escape it. The pain is different for everyone. The point is that it depends on what kind of pain you are experiencing.

    Some pain is temporary, and it will fade as things go by. However, some pain can be eternal, and it a thorn in your heart, and it aches faintly from time to time. I hope that this kind of suffering is not too much, otherwise, life will be worse than death.

    However, there is some pain that is valuable and will help you grow while tormenting you – a pain that, while painful to experience, will be thankful for once you overcome it. In a word, there are pains in life, sometimes disasters, sometimes wealth.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    For some it is good, for others it is destruction. Proper suffering is also a good thing, but you can't dwell on it. Taste the flavors of life, do you have an aftertaste when you are old?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Well, he will hone your will! Too much pain can turn into a disaster!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Life itself is a painful thing, and the most painful thing is not knowing what pain is.

    Regardless of whether you feel good or bad, pain will always exist, and life is the carrier of pain.

    Born is destined to be bitter, and I don't feel bitter, I am still pursuing all kinds of so-called happiness and happiness, and in the end, pain will follow, there will be all kinds of complaints, jealousy, hatred, dissatisfaction, complaining, and finally helplessly hand over life.

    Getting what you don't deserve can be a disaster. What you get is not necessarily good, and what you can't get is not necessarily bad.

    People are self-absorbed all day long: I'm right, and no one else is right. Then you will never be able to see the truth, and to see the truth, you have to have a spirit of selflessness.

    Truth is manifested by abandoning the idea of self-consciousness, and the pain disappears.

    Anything that increases does not matter what is perceived, and anything that decreases does not matter what decreases, because these aspects are only images of the mind and have no physical substance.

    Therefore, you must learn to let go of your worries, let go of your separation and go to work and study, then you will be very happy, and your pain will naturally disappear.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are two kinds of things to look at, of course it is painful for you to fall out of love, but are you very happy to be in love!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because of people. He who is born to cry will suffer in time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    People come into this world to suffer, and they come with all their suffering.

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