What should I do if I am always ridiculed and can t make friends?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-17
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Of course not. I don't think you think it's because of your stutter that you can't make friends. Because my friend has this problem, but I like him very much.

    The problems are: 1 You are very introverted, afraid of being laughed at by others, and afraid to talk to others. 2. Other issues, such as some social etiquette issues.

    The first question is that you need to exercise. In public, be bold, dare to speak, have a cordial and sincere expression, and then find a random person you like to socialize. Be sincere, think more about the other person, consider the problem from the other person's point of view, and talk about topics that everyone is interested in.

    Don't care too much about your image, or have been afraid of stuttering, slowly, you will find that chatting with people is very happy, friends are still afraid?

    2. In this regard, you can ask your colleagues, classmates, and family members. Let them help you identify your shortcomings in this area. Correct.

    You smile at others, and others smile at you. Friends are mirrors.

    Have fun.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    As long as you are confident, don't take other people's jokes too seriously, and face others with a big heart. In fact, stuttering can be improved, low self-esteem, fear, timidity is the main source of stuttering, exercise is not afraid, not inferior, when you can't speak, take a long breath, or change the topic, relax yourself. I'm sure you can change it!

    If you are sincere and tenacious, you will definitely have friends!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, as long as you think you can, you will definitely be able to, don't take other people's words too seriously, I believe that you can do heart-to-heart fellowship, and you will definitely find friends.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I support your friend, it's not that you can't find a friend, but your friend has always been by your side, and you haven't cherished it well.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Then you have to think about whether it's your own problem or something else

    Be right for the situation

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Reply to her, it's enough for me to have you.

    Friends are very good feelings, have a common language and communicate frequently, get along very comfortably, and both parties meet together and get together when they have time. People who have friendships with each other other than lovers or relatives are confidants at their highest level.

    Friends, bi-moons. The moon has the meaning of flesh and refers to two people. Classmates, comrades-in-arms, and colleagues can all be friends, helping and supporting each other, as well as old friends, neighbors, and chess friends.

    Explanation of terms: the object of love, talking about friends, especially referring to lovers. Chen Yuan's "Sociolinguistics": "Old words are given new meanings. For example: "friend" (in certain situations, it refers to a romantic partner, such as "playing with friends", "girlfriend", "boyfriend").

    Friends of the scene, I want to invite friends there, you can choose a suitable thing and do it for me. Two Moments Shooting Surprise".

    Your opponent or your enemy, they know themselves even better than you do, this friend is very special and has a great influence on each other's lives.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think I need to bother with this kind of thing at all. Because if what he says is true, then you should reflect on why you don't have friends, is it your own way of doing things? If what he says is not the truth, you don't need to pay any attention to the person who talks about it, because what he says will not affect your own relationships.

    The most important thing is what kind of life you want to live and how you want to live your life. You don't have to change yourself because of someone else.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A person who can taunt you for not having a friend is not your friend either, and you can tell him that I would rather be alone than make friends with someone like you! In the future, you don't have to communicate anymore, friends help each other and comfort each other, not hurt each other and ridicule each other, I'd rather have no friends than make friends like this!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When you are taunted by a friend, you should distance yourself from the person if you don't have a friend. A person who can't see your good intentions and still harbors ill will towards you shouldn't be too close. He will only hit you with a high profile, fill and satisfy his personal vanity, and does not consider you as a friend about your feelings, over time, you will gradually lose your self-confidence, if he is normal to others, and only bullies you, you will even wonder if it is because you are not good enough.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, if I encounter this situation, if they say the truth, I really don't have any friends, then I will not pay attention to them, because at this time only I can understand myself, there is no need to care about other people's opinions! If I have friends, then I don't even bother with them, because besides me, there are my close friends who understand me best!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Just smile, just don't talk, if you are serious, you will lose.

    The world of feelings is like this, I thought you were my friend, but in your eyes, I was nothing, just one of the people who hurried by. In this case, there is no need to contact in the future except for interests, after all, time is so precious, and time should be reserved for important people.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think I'll refute it, that's because I don't have fox friends, my friends are better than me, and they can help me in my studies or life, unlike you, all I have made are a group of fox friends and dogs. Then I would have chosen to just walk away and not continue with him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I would cut ties with this kind of friend. I don't have many friends in my life, but the few friends I have left never laugh at me. On the contrary, they take good care of me, and when they go to play, they will ask me, do you want to be together?

    I'm so happy to have made these friends. I'm curious, what is your definition of a friend? Can the people who laugh at you still call them friends?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This kind of person just has bad intentions at all, and always wants to see, how can the person who is taunting you become friends when you play the ball? You can also be brave enough to go back, he has no friends with me, so you are not my friends either. Don't always be weak, incompetent, unyielding, and easy to mess with.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This kind of person just likes to watch the excitement, and he is obviously my friend and says that I have no friends, which means that this kind of person is not really playing with me. Then I will go straight to the past: "I really don't have friends, and you are not my friends." "Give him a little look.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What is the character of a friend?

    I like to laugh at others....Can this be corrected?

    Is he laughing at a designated person or attacking indiscriminately?

    If it's just attacking someone who doesn't have a good character...It's understandable....If it's an indiscriminate attack....Then you have to consider whether to continue this friendship.

    After all, laughing at Na Shenbi others....Very bad.

    Good luck in the new year!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I feel that the way I treat my friends who make fun of and belittle me at every turn requires different strategies on a case-by-case basis.

    The first point is direct communication.

    Before communicating directly with this friend, you first need to examine your thoughts and words to see if you are also in any misleading or sarcastic behavior that may cause others to misunderstand or make sarcasm or ridicule. If there is, you should reflect and correct it first.

    And when you really want to maintain the relationship, try to talk openly and honestly with them. Point out misunderstandings and come up with ideas that express your feelings and desire to improve your relationship. At the same time, they can also be asked if they are concerned about the impact of this practice, and if so, they can try to reach a consensus of understanding and improvement.

    The second point is to reduce interactions.

    If you don't get a proper response from your friends in a clan rebellion, it may be a good idea to reduce your association with them. You can find new interests and hobbies, expand your social circle, and make more friends who share the same values and behavioral habits to strengthen your physical and mental well-being.

    The third point is to set boundaries.

    If, after adjusting communication and distance, your friends will still taunt and belittle you again in the context of interaction, you need to establish and maintain your own boundaries before Sparrow. For example, respond directly to insulting remarks and express that you don't like to be hurt by such remarks, and behave in a relaxed manner to expand the scope of emotional attention.

    Fourth, ask for help.

    If your friend's language and behaviour have gone beyond the scope of healthy communication and have caused you a lot of distress and influence, then you may need to seek more professional support to address your personality and marital issues in places such as pet army and doctor institutions to keep your body and mind functioning properly.

    Finally, maintaining good interpersonal relationships requires sincere communication and honest interactive experiences, and if we communicate our deepest wishes, we can achieve the survival and development goals of mutual identity.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1] Often belittles your friends, can you still be considered a friend?

    A true friend is to give encouragement and silent support behind him, and a so-called friend always likes to show his superiority in front of you, showing his unique wealth and ability, what kind of friend is this? You're just a contrast he's looking for, and it's okay if you don't associate with such friends.

    Perhaps the embarrassment of your temporary condition is the reason why these so-called friends laugh at you. If he has no vision and no quality friends, how good can he be? This is not called a friend, decisively give up, do not associate with such a friend, but will have a lot less trouble.

    2] Keep a calm heart, I have my own business days, I have my own thoughts.

    The way we choose to ridicule and belittle your friends is to ignore them. He has his life, and I have my little life. Even if it's a momentary scene, what does it have to do with me? We don't go to the stammer, and try to do our own thing.

    Because of such a friend, his mentality is not right, and praising high and stepping on low is actually a villain's behavior. The pattern of thought determines a person's height, and the so-called friends of the villain's ambition are just a momentary arrogance, and they will not be able to make a big scene in the end. He is strong, he is strong, the breeze blows the hills, he is horizontal, and the bright moon shines on the river.

    I just need to have a calm heart, to keep a state of indifference, and there is no need to even argue.

    3] If he doesn't care about you and often belittles you, why should we care about him?

    The secret of getting along with friends is reciprocity, you hold kindness, I hold smiles. Stepping on my shoulder and saying that he is tall, what is the difference between such a friend and livestock? By belittling one friend to cater to another, such a person lives in hypocrisy all his life.

    Turning our faces shows that we have no quality, not to mention that excessive explanations are better than silence, no more contact or less contact, this is the wisest choice. Because such a friend is actually not worthy of being a friend. He never cared about you in his heart, you are just a contrast to his pride, so why should we care about this friend?

    Find your pride and live your own life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Friends laugh at you, analyze the reasons, what is ridiculing you, find your own shortcomings, and improve in time, he has no reason to laugh at you. In addition, you don't care what others say about you, as long as you do your own thing and make yourself better, others will respect you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Everyone has advantages, we can tell our friends about the advantages, the so-called threesome must have my teacher is this truth, when others see our advantages of oranges, they will definitely learn from the heart of the group.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First of all, we need to make it clear that the behavior of these friends is not something we can control, but we can control our reactions. We can't let these negative emotions affect our mood and our lives.

    Second, we can try to communicate with these friends and tell them that we don't like their behavior and that we hope they will respect our feelings. If they are true friends, they will understand our thoughts and change their behavior.

    If communication is ineffective, we can consider reducing contact with these friends, or simply severing the relationship. We need to be clear that our mood and health are worse than anyone else's, and that we shouldn't let anyone hurt us.

    Finally, we need to be confident and positive. We need to believe in our own worth and abilities, and not let the words of others affect our self-confidence. We can prove our worth by learning, growing, and improving our abilities.

    In short, when we meet such friends, we need to stay calm, communicate, maintain self-confidence and a positive attitude, and don't let other people's words affect our mood and life.

    Maintain a confident and open-minded mindset.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Stay away from your friend, and what you need is encouragement, not ridicule.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think that's a true friend at all, so don't contact him in the future.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Stay away from him, there is really no need for such a person to be a friend.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Break up with him, and then try to make yourself better, so that he can be jealous.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This is not your friend, why should you be friends with such a person.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You should work hard and be yourself.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    was ridiculed by others for lacking a good job, and taught you to use these tricks to not disturb the polite reply!

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