Is the daughter in law always better than her mother, no matter how good her heart is?

This kind of thinking can be contradictory even if you get married... My wife couldn't stand it. As the saying goes, a son is not as good as a daughter-in-law.

A good daughter-in-law is the last word, after marriage, you must be better to your wife than your mother, on the face, as long as you are not unfilial, everything is your wife's right, and your family will be harmonious. My wife married into your family, for what, other people's parents support you, and people haven't honored their parents yet, so they come to honor your parents. , why shouldn't you be nice to others?

If you don't have one heart with your wife, what are people doing? Is it just for you to criticize others?? I didn't have an overnight feud with my parents.

There is no overnight feud between husband and wife. It's up to you to deal with it. It must be with his wife that is the last word.

Marriage requires a process, from a young couple to an elderly couple, the relationship is not the same, this is stability, but it depends on the feelings of the two.

How to say, dealing with the problem of husband and wife is the most important thing, as long as the relationship between two people is harmonious, the family will be harmonious. As a man, it is actually difficult to be a mother on one side and a daughter-in-law on the other, but if you do it well together, you will be a good man, and everything will be prosperous!

It is the nature of a mother to be good to her son, and she does not want to reciprocate. The daughter-in-law is different, what are people marrying into your family for, and the daughter-in-law should not owe you you, but also serve your parents, if you want to have a harmonious family, the harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law depends on you, who is a son, only by doubling the good to your daughter-in-law, he can honor your parents well.

This is a topic that men will always be entangled in, and a strong man will say to his daughter-in-law that you are doing to my mother, and I will do it to your mother. But personally, I think that a man who can give in on the issue of filial piety is by no means a useful commodity, and the daughter-in-law can be found again if she runs away, and you can find it back if your mother is gone? It's just that he has no ability, and he is afraid that his wife will run away and he won't be able to marry his wife.

Before I got married, I would tell you that I would ignore him for the rest of my life!

But marriage is not like this, have you ever heard a sentence in the halfway couple: two people together, like two hedgehogs spending the winter together, far away - cold, close - prick! It can only be one person who cuts off half of the thorns, which is not cold, but it hurts a little!

In the four precepts, it is said that the greatest time a husband and wife are together is tolerance, which does not only mean tolerance of the husband alone, because marriage is the integration of two families.

Originally, men and women have different ways of thinking, think about whether this husband will understand his wife's behavior, and the mother will always be his mother no matter what she does. For the sake of my husband, don't do this again!

This is not to say that the daughter-in-law apologizes to her mother-in-law from the bottom of her heart, but just let your husband get by on the surface, the mother-in-law will never be her own mother, but her husband is pro, give him a face. After all, my mother-in-law also said it, and my daughter-in-law made a lot of trouble (what did you say)!

Even if you want to be together, don't continue, the contradictions are getting deeper and deeper.

I am a person who loves my husband very much, so I will be like this, what I get is my husband's better care for me, so that in turn he will think behind his back that his mother is doing too much, although he doesn't say it, but the man understands in his heart!

I wish you happiness.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, and they must understand this truth first.

Then think about it: in fact, some quarrels in life are not necessary at all. What is more needed is tolerance.

Let's make an assumption, if it wasn't her mother-in-law who was talking about her brother outside, but her own mother, she wouldn't have anything to say.

Don't tell your mother-in-law's family about your mother-in-law's family in the future, this is a big taboo! If you don't say it, how will she know, more is better than less. This is also self-inflicted. Since it happened, she can only say it, and it can only be that both sides are more restrained!

You should ask your mother-in-law to apologize and promise not to say it again in the future.

In fact, the daughter-in-law is also quite splashy, with a small belly and chicken intestines, she can only blame her husband for not being strict in discipline.

According to the current situation, if you want to restore the relationship, you can only apologize to your mother-in-law, and your daughter-in-law can also apologize and express her attitude.

After all, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not in harmony and do not speak, and the two families are very painful.

When my husband and I got married, because of the different rules between the two parties, my mother-in-law told me that my mother was not good, that was not right. I said at the time, we don't have that over there, I don't know! Then I said to my husband:

In the future, don't let your mother say that my mother is not good, that is not good, no matter how bad our family is, I will not kiss your mother." I think he'll make them converge.

The landlord, it is difficult for the Qing officials to cut off the housework, and each step back to open the sea and the sky, is it easy to make it?

That's for sure, isn't the daughter-in-law especially good to your mother for your mother to be good to her, that's why your mother is towards her, and if you don't say anything bad to her, other mothers are not happy.

Your mother is right, the daughter-in-law is not raised by herself, and she must be good to her in order to buy people's hearts.

A daughter-in-law and a son can live with your mother for the rest of your life, and you always have to get married, so you don't have to worry about this, which makes you stingy.

It is a good thing that the daughter-in-law is good, and the family and everything is prosperous.

I feel that I can rightly accuse others of being bad in this way, but I don't consider the problem of harmony and harmony from the standpoint of the whole family, and focus all the contradictions on you, which is also the problem that exists in most families at present.

Then again, have you considered your family's position?

Once the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law occurs, most of them are dead knots, and it is difficult to untie them. At this time, it is necessary for someone with authority in the family to stand up and decide.

Therefore, in order to change your current situation, you must first establish a unique authority in your family. In other words, whatever you say must be listened to by anyone.

If you can't establish authority yourself, and you can't silence dissenting opinions on small things, you may always be caught in the middle.

When the conflict intensifies, your mother may offer something to break up your family.

There are thousands of people in the family, and there is one person in charge. You can't just talk nonsense.

Some of them are nothing, but once they are said with salt and vinegar, they become right and wrong.

The smell of the near, the fragrance of the far. If there is a conflict, try to live together as little as possible, and look at it during the New Year, it must be very harmonious. After a long time, your mother must have thought that your daughter-in-law snatched you away, and you can only fight tit-for-tat against people who have a strong desire to control, and your daughter-in-law is right.

To be honest, such a mother is a bit troublesome, the daughter-in-law has been with you, and not with your mother, your mother always talks about people this and that, which is a bit annoying.

You have to pay the greatest responsibility for such a thing, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will always exist, and how to deal with it depends on the son to a large extent. First, if the mother's intentions are good, but the way of doing things is wrong. Then I think you should come forward and tell your mother.

Sometimes the effect of the son's speech is different from that of the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law may be angry when she says it, and the son may not have a problem if she says it. Secondly, it is necessary to communicate well with your daughter-in-law, I don't know that you have been very independent since you were a child, and you are quite assertive! What is the concept, in my opinion, to write like this means that she does what she wants, without considering the feelings of other people.

I don't know if I'm right, but I don't think that's a reason to quarrel with your mother. You can not accept your mother's advice, but you can't be honest with her. I have always only believed that there are only unfilial children, and there are no mothers who have cheating children.

I have to find someone who makes my aunt willing to listen to this. Or if you go to communicate with your mother, you will be angry at both ends, and you will be tortured in the end, if your mother really hurts you, you are really wise, and there will be changes. It's the same with my daughter-in-law. You still have to communicate by yourself, and it is not a long-term solution to be with thin mud.

The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always plagued this married person, the war between your mother and your wife can only be handled by you, from which you mediate, you are the lubricant between your mother and your daughter-in-law, so you need to maintain the direct relationship between your husband and wife and your wife and your mother, and also improve your emotional intelligence, learn how to deal with the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and ease the relationship between the two of them, if you don't know what to do, you can tell me in detail about the situation between you.

After all, the old man is an old man, you should respect her, maybe your mother is menopause, you have to understand your mother more, your mother is a knife mouth tofu heart, so, as long as you two say a few more nice words, coax your mother to be happy? Mom is happy, happy to do anything, in addition, you do your daughter-in-law work, treat your mother-in-law as your own mother, don't have too many ideas, there is a living aspect, don't always look at the mother-in-law's is not, look at the mother-in-law's good family and everything is prosperous.

A mother with a strong personality will definitely love her daughter-in-law. As a son, we must first respect her, be filial to her, and all hearts are the same, if you are filial to her, he will not be unreasonable.

Communicating feelings with each other is the way for couples to get along.

Mutual tolerance is also for the sake of family harmony.

Whether it's the other party's temper or not, it's something you should love.

Therefore, it is better to communicate more and communicate tolerantly.

Go home more to see your mother, he's jealous. However, the level of thin mud is also low, and everyone in the family has contradictions, coaxing a good daughter-in-law, loving more, caring about the elderly and not being jealous of their mothers. They don't stand in line for small contradictions, just coax at both ends.

I used to think about what to do if my daughter-in-law and my mother didn't get married in the future, but now I'm worried that my mother will worry about me if I don't get married...

Say daughter-in-law, like mother-in-law, this is an old saying, if this woman is so easy to compromise, there will be no villain, women are difficult to raise, if your daughter-in-law is a little bit, don't let your mother bully to death, you talk to your mother, let your mother compromise a little is very likely, in fact, smart women are gentle and virtuous, the lower the IQ of the woman The greater the temper, I can't wait for the whole world to know that she let her, a gentle and virtuous woman is a blessing for three generations,

The battle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is inevitable, and we can only meet as little as possible, and now most of the only children have their own personalities.

It is really difficult for a mother-in-law to raise her daughter-in-law as a daughter, so you can only rely on yourself to be a person, persuade your mother well and then coax your wife more.

Women always complain, so you just have to be a listener and just go along with whatever both parties say. After all, both parties are their own relatives, and they must accompany and love If you still have the ability, do something filial to your daughter-in-law and do something to love your daughter-in-law, this can ease the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and after a long time, they will take the initiative to understand the situation of family harmony between the two sides, and the key depends on you!

If you put yourself in the middle every time to reconcile or use yourself as a punching bag, it will never be solved, and even if your own situation is getting more and more difficult and worse, the only way is to try to slowly let your daughter-in-law take the initiative to talk to your mother.

You coax your wife to tell her to coax your mother, and you are saying more good things about your wife in front of your mother. This kind of thing still depends on your wife's attitude.

In this case, it can only reduce the chance for the two to meet, and they work hard in the middle to mediate. For your mother's complaints, you just need to listen patiently, comfort and comfort the elderly, take the time to accompany them, and buy something in the name of your wife. Say good things for the old man in front of your wife, and say good things for your wife in front of the old man, the biggest taboo is to pass on bad words.

In fact, the elderly don't ask for much, they just want to be accompanied more. If you book a time to meet and chat with your mother regularly, I believe you won't complain from time to time. It is best for your wife to be willing to accompany you to see the elderly, and if you don't want to, don't force it.

It's worth it for the sake of two women who love themselves.

This is your mother's fault, you treat your daughter-in-law well, can she not look at you.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are essentially strangers. Whether it is good or not depends on both sides. It's like making friends. If the three views do not agree, don't deal with it.

Of course, the daughter can speak casually, but the daughter-in-law should pay attention to the language. However, some mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law also get along very well, as long as they are attentive and worthy of themselves, they can get along well.

There are also a few mothers-in-law who are good, but I am not so lucky to meet them.

Mom, you're growing up, mom teaches you let's live, you don't understand mom's heart!

You can't generalize! It's because you don't spend as much time with your mother-in-law as you do with your mother. Also, if you have to treat your mother-in-law as your own mother as soon as you open it, it will be much better!

Definitely, I'm stupid to think about it, I think of my mother-in-law buying it for her first, and in the end, it's not that I'm a wicked person.

You have grown up, you need to talk to your father calmly, to use your sensibility to impress him, don't start yelling after three sentences, talk about the bits and pieces of your family of three, talk about your father's best, praise him, and talk about your mother's hard work, how important is the harmony of the family, you let him bring into your thinking, if you bring him a daughter-in-law back, then how will he deal with himself.