Sister, I m Jinglin, my boyfriend is going to break up with me, I want to redeem it, what should I d

Updated on psychology 2024-06-26
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    In fact, I personally think that you really don't have that need, since he has proposed to break up, it proves that you are no longer the first in his heart, the twisted melon will not be sweet, even if you keep his person, it may not be able to save his heart. It's better to live a good life by yourself, there are actually a lot of difficult people in the world, it depends on whether you can grasp the opportunity.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Since you want to break up, it proves that his heart is already far from you, and the twisted melon is not sweet!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Let's make it clear, what is the reason for the breakup, and what is the relationship? Is he good? First of all, if he really loved you and now broke up due to some factors, then you will see if he is worth keeping or not, and if he is not worth it, you will have to cut off all contact. After a long time, it faded into oblivion.

    You have to ask yourself if he's worth it. If you're nice to her. And he did. Why should you redeem it?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When the man asks the question of breaking up, you can ask Shao Weihua's apprentice to help you see a hexagram, his picking, Qi, Qi, Yan, Want, Jiu, Yan, zero, two, Jiu, zero.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It depends on whether you still love him or not.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love him and redeem it! It's not easy to love someone! It's not easy to fall in love, love him and let go of his dignity, happiness is grasped by himself, I wish you happiness! My girlfriend is also having a breakup, and I love her, so I'm not going to give up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You have to seriously think about whether you still love him? Is it love him or do you love how you love him? Or are you afraid of being alone? After thinking clearly, if you really still love him as a person, then be brave enough to redeem it, love doesn't need a reason but it takes courage.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Look at his current situation, and if you want to redeem it, you can give him some hints.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Everything is a cloud in the face of time, and I still miss my ex-girlfriend a little, but so what. Maybe she'll have to break up with me for a while now!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't stalk. If you want to win back your boyfriend's heart, it won't help just by stalking and pestering. Even if your boyfriend wants to get back together with you, he will be scared away by your vexatious play.

    Maybe the other party can't bear to see you like this and temporarily agrees to you, but the relationship will not last long. Keep your distance and calm down. The boyfriend has just proposed to break up, and he may still be angry.

    Calm down for a while, maybe when your boyfriend calms down, he will regret it a little, and even take the initiative to come to you. Give each other a transition, let each other's hearts have a cooling-off period, and after thinking clearly, think about getting your boyfriend back. Listen to others.

    The boyfriend proposed to break up, and his heart may be messed up at this time. Tell your girlfriends or family members about your troubles and ask them to give you some pertinent advice. We can only refer to other people's opinions, but we cannot directly adopt them.

    You have to make your own ideas about how to do it. Find a fake boyfriend to him off. Maybe your boyfriend only said the breakup in anger, you can find a fake boyfriend to anger him and let him know that you are not unwanted.

    However, this approach is likely to have irreparable consequences, so think twice. Admit your shortcomings to your boyfriend. No matter who you are, it is difficult to face up to your own shortcomings.

    Your boyfriend may choose to leave you because these shortcomings of yours make him unbearable. Admit your shortcomings to your boyfriend and offer to fix them for him to supervise. I'm sure your boyfriend will be happy to see your compromise too.

    Take the initiative to admit your mistakes to your boyfriend. If you really did something wrong, take the initiative to bow your head to your boyfriend and admit your mistake, which is not a shame. In love, there is no one who is nobler than the other, only who loves whom more.

    If you really love your boyfriend, why not admit your mistakes to him? Love yourself and make yourself more brilliant. If you are really not suitable, then separate, a long head is not as good as a short pain, and a quick knife cuts through the mess.

    Many people languished after their boyfriends proposed to break up, and even used alcohol to drown their sorrows. It's all irrational to do it, you have to believe in yourself, and you are just as good as you are without him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, you have to judge whether it is a real breakup or a fake breakup, if it is a fake breakup, then hurry up and coax and buy some small gifts or something.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There are ways and skills to save a relationship and a boyfriend, so to save it can make your recovery effect twice as effective with half the effort.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I broke up, how should I get it back?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You're to blame, so you don't have to make amends. You have cut so many knives in people's hearts, and even after the incident has passed, the wound remains. The harm you did to him led him to give up on you in the end. So, you'd better find someone who is more suitable for you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think that since he already has a girlfriend, it means that he has let go of you, and there is no place for you in his heart. And you've been divided a few times before, and this time he mentioned it, which means that he has already thought about it, otherwise he wouldn't have had another girlfriend in a hurry! You yourself should be calm and calm first, do you think he is unwilling to have a girlfriend so soon, and wants to snatch him back to prove himself?

    If that's the case, it's really unnecessary, and your ex-boyfriend may also want to draw a line with you when he gets a girlfriend, making you feel embarrassed!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since the breakup is the reason for the breakup. Since you don't want to break up with him, why did you agree to his breakup request in the first place Didn't you think that you really wanted to break up this time? Don't have a fluke mentality, it's as bad as your temper after you get better, because it's nature, don't say that you will change it for him, you will change it for a while and not for a lifetime.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Wouldn't it be interesting to chase it back? His concern and concern for you may be just wishful thinking on your part, because you can't let go of it yet. He may just think that after all, it is just a game together, and the affection of friends, so he should jump out of this quagmire as soon as possible. By the way, change your temper.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Sister, I advise you to forget it Brother put the words here Even if you chase him back, the two of you won't be able to grow up No need for me to say With your cleverness, you will also know the truth, it is all persuasion and not persuasion, but there are some things that cannot be forced. I've had your experience too, and in the end it's still empty, why do you still limit the number of words?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What happiness? Can't you hear that? I just don't want to be nice to you at all, and I immediately found a girlfriend again, do you think you can trust such a man??

    I think it's better to forget it, there are many men, not to mention that you haven't been dating for a long time, I advise you to calm down and welcome the next relationship, and find a worthy man.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't change yourself for anyone, it's not you if you do. You are the only one of you in the world, and I believe that there will be someone who will appreciate you in the future!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You've given up on the happiness that should have been yours.

    Do you think it's necessary to chase it back?

    --Find another one to start over, it's not that there is no man, even if you find him, the person who only gets him can't get his heart, is it interesting?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Still treat each other with sincerity and work hard. What happens later is at the mercy of fate.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In this way, you can't think about plastic surgery if it's not good-looking, it's not effective.

    There are also the following ways.

    Dress stylishly and a**.

    Wear some light makeup on your face.

    The legs should be white and slender, and if you don't have them, you should buy suitable and generous outfits and long socks.

    If you have a figure, forget it, no packaging. If you don't, you have to change your clothes.

    If the above is useless, you have to have money, a lot of money, you know, you have to be able to afford a house, a car, and so on.

    One person opens a company, a store like this.

    If you don't look good, if you don't have money, you're an ordinary person, then you have no choice but to look at your boyfriend.

    He doesn't cherish you, so you hurry up and find a good family to marry, don't hesitate. Thank you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you break up with you because of family reasons, then if you still love him, and he still loves you, you are fighting for it, because after all, the reason for this breakup is the worst, and who doesn't want her children to be happy.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Parental interference is the right medicine! It feels like a lot, his parents may like you, but your boyfriend doesn't. If not, forget it! Why bother to change yourself and please others.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    To put it bluntly, he doesn't like you, what are you afraid of! Your parents don't like to change, they don't love you that much. If he really loves you, he will find a way to get his parents to accept you, instead of breaking up. I think that's what he thinks (maybe that's what his parents said).

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Forget it, it's just an excuse to break up with you, why do you deceive yourself.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    That's it. Twisted melons are not sweet.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Break up, that's what everyone says.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If your boyfriend proposes to break up, how to get it back correctly.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I know you love him very much, but it's hard to maintain a relationship when you're separated. Perhaps, you also know that your one-year relationship eventually lost to time and distance, if you really want to break up, be decisive, why drag the mud and water, and find yourself a sore spot? His behavior has made it clear to you that he is going to break up with you, and he doesn't want to redeem it.

    Then why do you have to practice yourself? Why bother trying to redeem and make him even more disgusted with you? In the face of feelings, it is better for both parties to be honest, divide and reunite, and do not need to find all kinds of gorgeous or superficial reasons to break each other's hearts.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you have something to say, you will divide it, if you don't divide it, why bother looking for a sore spot, tell him what's wrong with you, do you want to break up, if you want to divide it, you can say it, it's still a man who grinds and chirps, if you don't want to divide it, let's talk about it, it's not a big deal, women must be weak, you can't pretend to be a strong woman, spoiled or something, tantrums are the best examples, what men hate the most is women who nagging every day, dear, to this kind of man to be soft...

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If he only texts you back in his spare time, and most of the time you take the initiative to contact him, then there is nothing to be done, and he must have a new goal. University life is varied, and you can also explore new fronts.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    What to redeem, a man doesn't want to see you anymore, why are you still pestering him, just talking about love, why must you start from the beginning. When you go to college, you will find that there are more choices, and a person who will not cherish you will not be qualified to enjoy your kindness to him, so change to someone who cherishes you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you get it back after a breakup, the relationship will be flawed.

    Therefore, no matter how good the relationship is, it will be boring to wait until the breakup is redeemed.

    Because two people have tried to learn to live without each other.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Not being able to get along is not necessarily a bad thing.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If the woman says it's okay to break up, if the man says it's okay to break up, then give up as soon as possible.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I'm just like you, I still can't let go of him, and I don't know what he likes me now. After the breakup, he also went to the station to see me off, and bought me a teddy bear, and the bag was red with love written on it. After I found out, he never contacted me again, and often contacted my girlfriend, and the two of them often posted some ambiguous words on the Internet.

    I don't know if I play or not, but I feel like I should play often

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you are separated, you will definitely be together, and there is no need to make it back.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Once separated, it can't be as natural as it used to be.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Try to salvage Send a text message and call a** So-and-so, let's get along, okay, I still love you, let's start over.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Some things to give up is to give up You are like this If he really had you, you would have come back a long time ago Be proud and be yourself He is not the only man in the world.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You can only redeem it by sincerity, because only sincerity can get affection. So work hard and believe you can do better.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    To be honest with you, since the two have broken up, there is no need to redeem it, after all, the twisted melon is not sweet, and it is not advisable to be reluctant to be together, since you have broken up, you should start life again, because tomorrow will be better.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If you want to get your boyfriend back after a breakup, you need to move him with your sincerity and sincerity, and you must let him see your changes.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If he still loves you in his heart, then as long as you say that you still want to stay together, he will naturally be with you, and if there is no problem, there is no need to keep it.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I think first of all, I must talk to him about myself and what I did wrong in this relationship.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If you want to recover after a breakup, unless she still has feelings for you, and then reacquaints with you, and finally returns to the lover stage, there is no possibility.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It may be that the spatial distance also affects the distance of your relationship, if you want to redeem it, then you will be admitted to the university in the city where he is.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Sometimes I propose to break up on the spur of the moment, and I will feel very regretful later, how long does it take for the boy who was broken up to want to get back together? We need to understand the psychology of men and work hard to get back together, so what can we do to get back our boyfriends?

    1. Give yourself time to calm down.

    How do girls get back together when their boyfriend proposes to break up? Stop contacting the other person after a breakup, and don't stalk them. Because feelings are not begging, what is needed is the dedication and dedication of two people.

    The more often you appear, the more the other person wants to run away and even hates you more and more. Expressing a sense of need excessively will invisibly reduce one's own value and make the other party feel that it is right to break up. Therefore, you might as well calm yourself down first, and think about the problem during this time, and how to solve it.

    2. Find out the reason for the breakup.

    If you want to save your love, first imagine why your relationship broke down, because you often quarreled? There are still contradictions and misunderstandings, or mistakes in the mode of getting along, these must be clarified, otherwise it is easy to redeem the failure. It's important to know why before you know what to do.

    3. Change your shortcomings and make them more attractive.

    How do I get back together with my ex-boyfriend? The reason why you broke up shows that you don't have the initial attraction in his mind. Therefore, if you want to win back your boyfriend who has changed your mind, the first thing you need to do is to improve your attractiveness.

    You can make yourself glamorous every time you go out through makeup and dressing, try to change your character shortcomings, and improve your inner being. Only in this way can you regain the chances of redemption by regaining the self-confidence you were at the beginning and re-attracting the attention of your ex-boyfriend.

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