What should I do if I feel that college is full of disappointments 15

It's not the environment that adapts to you, it's you who adapts to it!

Therefore, high school life should be cherished, and the feelings are the most genuine at this time.

After adjusting well, I felt that my original worries were unnecessary in the past year. It's all numb.

Thinking too much, why do you have to drill the horns?

The environment of the university is like this, just like a small society, there are many people, intrigues, all kinds of people have it, and all kinds of things will happen, so, friends, I want to open up something and slowly adapt to this small society, so as to pave the way for entering this big society in the future!!

No matter how disappointed you are, accept it.

This is the path that must be passed in life, and you can't refuse to change, you can only change your mentality.

You also said that "it's a bit hypocritical", but there is just a little bit of it, and I believe you can find your own soulmate.

It's also the heroes who adapt to the environment! Now you are the same person I used to be, and after graduating from college and entering the society, I realized that nothing is as beautiful as I imagined. We have no way to change the environment in which we live, we can only change ourselves to adapt to it.

Stop worrying about these questions, it will only make you more unhappy! Good luck every day :)

Then we should try to find hope, just like at night, if we feel too dark, we will find a lamp, although it is not as bright as the sun, but it can also comfort our hearts.

Just starting to disappoint.

This year's senior year, facing a hurdle in work. In fact, before, I was very willing to look at my university with an understanding heart: the hardware was not good enough, so I realized that the funds were indeed tight, and I did not have a strong major in the school; The teachers are not strong enough, but at least most of them are responsible and willing to answer our questions; The resources between the campuses are uneven, and I also comfort myself that I have to work hard for everything, and the school is trying its best to ......I guess I'm the kind of Buddhist student who complains verbally but always tries to be considerate.

But forgive me, as soon as I entered my senior year, I really started to feel disillusioned with my college from the inside out. The remoteness of the location makes job fairs particularly difficult for us to cope with, and attending an interview can mean a long drive and a lot of money, and in such a situation, it is true that the employment situation is very difficult. Of course, you can't blame the school.

But if you can't help us, please don't torture us.

I don't know what it means to be "required" or "I want to graduate on time." I know that there is pressure on the employment rate of the school, but doesn't it feel too ugly?

There is no understanding for us, only such cold persecution. Take 10,000 steps back, don't I have the freedom to choose whether to sign or not? I don't know that the three parties must sign, where can I sign if I don't have a job?

At least in the past, I felt that college was really a place to grow, and after leaving high school, I could really develop my own interests, organize my own life, and grow myself. I have always been very reluctant to think of universities as vocational training centers, and I do not think that the employment rate is an absolute measure of the quality of a university.

But my university is telling me with its own actions that it doesn't care about anything "for love and beauty", it only cares if I pull down its employment rate.

Four years of youth, at this moment is very much like a joke.

I'm pretty happy. There are 3 basic reasons

1.It's nice that everyone is responsible for their actions and for their own future!

2.There are a lot of students around me who don't know how to seize the opportunity and keep complaining, so it's good to have a lot of opportunities for me!

3.There are also many students around who know how to seize opportunities and continue to grow, and it is good to work together!

When I came to college, I really liked the atmosphere of the university - those who didn't develop a good self-learning method and the right attitude in high school suddenly fell into depravity, which left me with a lot of opportunities to fight for it to the fullest.

They will complain that the teachers at school are not good, and only read pptI don't care at all, because the learning of knowledge is mainly on my own. The teacher reads and listens to me, and then thinks, and discusses with the teacher if there is a problem, but the teacher can't solve it, so I go to the senior.

I never cared about the teacher, because I came to learn knowledge, not to play with the teacher.

They will complain that the scholarship is not fairly evaluated. But I can't ignore the fact that it's actually a scholarship for floating clouds. They are so contradictory. On the one hand, he looks down on the surface and doesn't work hard, but on the other hand, he cares so much, otherwise he wouldn't care about this kind of thing at all.

They will complain that the student union is dark. But they can't know what is true in their hearts. Society is like this, whether you do it or not, or you can actively participate, know in your heart, and never do evil.

Either stay away from these and be born. Yes, one cannot do evil, but one must know it. Otherwise, you won't be able to protect yourself and your loved ones.

Those who have a clear goal suddenly rise to the top. It makes me very happy to be able to work with them. In their eyes, there are opportunities everywhere and hard work is needed everywhere.

We talk about projects together, we do projects together, we talk about financing together. Together, we build our vision of life. The best part is that there is no entanglement of interests.

At university, you will be who you want to be, for as long as you want. if you think you can,you can!

I think I'm very satisfied with my own university, everyone's life experience is different from whether you have the same score in several schools, if your score is at a stage in the college entrance examination, then your university is correspondingly satisfied, if you are not satisfied with your own college entrance examination results, and your college time, this is definitely a paradoxical time.

Isn't knowledge good too? This sentence can solve your doubts, where is learning, learning is harvesting, the person who makes knowledge useful is you, but there is no good or bad, everything depends on you.

I wasn't disappointed in my university, I was disappointed in myself. In any case, the popularity of our school in the local area is still okay, at least it is an old school, especially Professor Xu Datong, who is very powerful in our major, because he did not study well, he is ashamed of the school, and he loves you Normal University.

I'm not disappointed in my university, let's be at that level, I think it's already an eye-opener to be able to go to this second class A, and I'm disappointed, right, in fact, if you study hard in college, you still have a great chance of success, and you don't blame the school for being useless.

How to say it I can't talk about disappointment, because it's my own reasons, I didn't study seriously, I wasted resources, but I was a little regretful, and I was wasted by myself.

There are a lot of new students who will have this problem with you.

Many people can't study high mathematics, but there are many majors. In fact, you can pass it, in fact, it is not that difficult, learn to draw inferences.

As for the trade-off between the student council and other activities or learning, maybe you haven't figured out how to look at the scale, in fact, I also missed a lot of activities for the student council, but I weighed the student council at the same time, and decided to let it miss, after all, people's time and energy are limited, you can't have a doppelganger technique, to trust your own choice.

In fact, the class relationship in the university, indeed a lot of it is based on the dormitory, since the girls in your dormitory are very introverted, I believe it may be that you are not familiar with each other, and it will be much better later, you can also try to play with the classmates of other girls in your class, and slowly your life will be enriched, and you will not have so much time to think about these things for yourself, and you will not feel that you are abnormal.

Learn to plan and organize your time.

I'm sure you'll be much better in the future.

If you think too much, let's just find someone to play.

You have to think that everyone who studies medicine must learn advanced mathematics, and you will be happy! Just pass. You can take the test on your own, and you can take whatever you want to study.

There is nothing to talk about in life, there are gains and losses.

This is a symptom of extroverted autism.

The third reason is to find your own reasons when you're disappointed. In fact, I think if you are disappointed in the world, you are disappointed in this society, please find more reasons for yourself, because everyone is on the same level, the position you have now is also you to fight for, the platform you are on is also by yourself step by step, if you are not satisfied with your own results, you can only blame yourself. Because no one is going to force you, if you really don't want to do something, you can completely refuse on your own, but when you don't have a strong refusal, you can only accept it.

Although we may not have a good university, although our university resources are relatively small, we have to learn to improve ourselves.

The disappointment is not caused by my lack of hard work in high school, I don't think there is any need to complain, life has just begun.

I am not disappointed with my university, I am very satisfied because my university is a 211 or 985 university.

I have not been disappointed with my university because my university is a double first-class university with a high employment rate, so I will not be disappointed with it.

Don't be disappointed, education is a stepping stone, and ability is only related to yourself.

From the moment I first entered college, that is, the moment I first stepped into the door of our university, I felt that I had gone to a fake university, and all the good pictures of college in my mind completely disappeared, and some were all disappointed, and the first thing that disappointed me was that the school was too small, how could I buy a bicycle when I went to college? There is no bicycle in the university, you can't finish the day, you have to be late for class, in our university, it only takes ten minutes to walk from one end of the school to the other.

The second thing that disappointed me was the class.,The teachers in high school are all lies.,Say what's easier after going to college.,There's no homework.,There's only a few classes a week or something.,It's all fake.,I only know when I go to college.,Except for no early self-study.,Everything else is no different from high school.,Full classes all day.,In addition to classes.,There are all kinds of activities in school every day.,Many times a day there's no time to even eat with pants.,It's pitiful to think about.,And we have to take notes., Other universities don't have this requirement, just our school, if you don't write notes, the courses you study will be directly suspended.

The third thing that disappointed me was the dormitory, when I signed up for the volunteer, I said that it was a six-person room, and there was air conditioning, and the dormitory had a separate bathroom, but after I arrived at the university, I learned that the dormitory was an eight-person room, there was no air conditioning, the toilet was public, and the water room was the kind that was particularly large, and it could accommodate many people at the same time.

Well,The above three points are the most disappointing places for me.,Of course,There are still a lot of disappointments in the town.,Royal and not very important.,These three points really disappointed me.。