I don t feel like I m using it at all.

Do you have any interests or something? Find out what you're good at first, and don't change jobs until you find it, leaving yourself a way back. As you said that your expression skills are not strong, maybe your family is also like this, because they are a family, they are not very good at expressing their feelings with others, you may need to think about how long it has been since you sat down with your family to chat quietly?

If you feel bored at work, this is not the right job for you, so take it as a kind of training, and the sky will fall on you. If you have anything on your mind, you don't have to hide anything in front of your family, find out your strengths and weaknesses, find a way to make yourself happy, and remember: a bodhisattva will not leave any useless person in the world.

Have faith in yourself!

You're so much better than me, you still have the technology, I don't have anything. I worked as a coolie in a factory myself, and I didn't like to talk to people, so I had very few friends. You still think too much, and it's okay if your family doesn't like you.

If it's me, I don't like to go to someone who likes me. Maybe it's just your one-sided idea. I'm annoyed and I don't know how to help you, because I'm someone who needs help.

Have you never done anything, even if it was small, that you worked hard to do and do well?

Every character has the advantages of this character, and there is naturally a job that is suitable for this character. As long as you play to the strengths of your character, do what suits you, and do it well, you will get better and better in a few years. No one does any job well as soon as they get started.

You can write down your 10 virtues on a piece of paper and read them every morning and face each day with confidence.

At the same time, you can write down the change you most want to achieve, it doesn't need to be too big, and only establish a goal in the same period of time, too much will be difficult for you to achieve, and it will discourage your own ambition. For example, if what you want to improve most at the moment is your presentation skills, then you need to write down the tasks you must complete every day to achieve this goal, such as reading the newspaper or favorite article aloud for half an hour, such as communicating with at least one person for 10 minutes. A better way is to come up with it yourself, write it down, do it, stick to it for 20 days, and this action will become a habit.

Who said you were useless??? At least you know your shortcomings! Since you want to be useful, and you know your shortcomings, why not change your shortcomings?

Make yourself useful? If you can't even deserve the shortcomings that you know well, then your only use is to support those talents!! Remember.

In a word, I am born to be useful.

To be a human being, you are either busy surviving or you are busy dying.