What if I m so na ve and innocent? What should I do if I am too innocent and na ve?

It's terrible, I'm the same character as you. Now that I'm a freshman, I don't know what about you. I'm always likeable, and the kind of love at first sight always happens to me, and it comes and goes quickly, which is likely to make others mistake their good feelings for likes.

Therefore, it is difficult to find true love, and there will be many people who like themselves but gradually resist. There is also work, and my seniors say that I am capable, but too young a girl, emotionality will ruin a lot. So someone cultivating must make themselves mature, mature and lovely girls are charming, really can't be too naïve, so simple I don't want to change, I'm working hard, what about you?

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I used to be like this, and I wasn't deeply involved in the world.

The more you experience, the more mature you will be.

Don't fret, this period will pass.

Sure, anyone will like a girl who is as simple as water.

Girls want to be innocent, to be innocent, not too scheming.

In terms of safety, a long snack will do......Nothing else is necessary....

Slowly you will become not naïve and pure.

I like it very much, girls are simply beautiful, and I don't dare to chase it if I'm too scheming.

Time will make you more than pure! Believe in the power of this society!

In fact, most boys like such girls and have no scheming.

When you fall in love, whether you succeed or fail, whether you are hurt or hurt others, for yourself, what you gain is experience and lessons....

There are definitely men who like you.

1. Talk less: Strive to be a person who talks less, chattering all day long, noisy, that is a child, talking when you see someone, saying anything is naïve, you must understand the truth that trouble comes from the mouth, and if you say more, you will lose it, and you must make less promises to others, strive to be a listener, listen more to the conversations of your elders, listen more to the opinions of others, listen to the feelings of others, gain experience from the conversations of others, obtain the truth of life and life, and solve problems.

2. Less greedy to play: children will be greedy to play, play do not know the length of time, play forget to eat, want to grow up and want to mature every day to tell themselves to play less games, nothing less QQ chat, that will waste a lot of their time, arrange a good work and rest time, go to bed early and get up early, stay up less late, be kind to yourself, know how to feel sorry for yourself, the body is your own.

3. Complain less: If you want to be mature, complain less, don't complain about the injustice of fate, complaining is a manifestation of cowardice, is a manifestation of psychological immaturity, mature people know how to face life positively and optimistically, know how to work hard to change the unsatisfactory in life, instead of complaining about the depression and degeneration after not wanting to forge ahead, and when encountering things, it is the idea of working hard to overcome and make yourself stronger.

Although you feel more innocent now, I think you must make yourself smarter, as long as you go through more things, you will become a very mature person, so don't worry about yourself.

On campus, you can still maintain your innocence, and when you get out of the society, you will naturally begin to grow up after experiencing the baptism of society, and there are no simple people who can maintain their innocence after experiencing the dangers of society.

Being merely naïve is not a bad thing, and people will live happier than scheming people. However, people who are also naïve and innocent will suffer. Suffering is a blessing. You should read more books on how to live in the world and learn more experience. You will become better and kinder.

Now that I'm in my third year, I can make myself mature, communicate more with my classmates, communicate or try to fall in love, make myself mature, believe in myself, read more books, and have my own thoughts.

You don't need to think about what to do, it's just naïve, there's nothing wrong with it, what a precious and scarce character!

Your detailed description, I have read it carefully, the mentality is normal, the thinking is normal, the intelligence is normal, the expression skills are good, the literary skills are excellent, there is nothing that needs to be changed.

My advice is that I want you to stay simply happy!

It's normal to be a little innocent when you're in school, because you're carefree at this time. But you need to be constantly changing and growing. In this way, you will be able to become no longer innocent and naïve.

It can only be experienced by the beating of society!

If you think it's not good to be simple and naïve, then you have to change yourself and learn more mature people!

What should I do if I am too innocent and naïve?

Because you have to go out into the society to hone and exercise, otherwise you will not grow up and be easily deceived.

First of all, don't think that your innocence is bad, like those who wear masks in their work and life every day, do you think it's good? In fact, your simplicity is very valuable, other people say that lobbying your words, you don't misunderstand them as derogatory terms, of course, you have to think that you are so bad, you can speak in a bad way, don't have a joking tone, at work, don't chat as much as possible, pay attention not to say everything to others, as for the scheming you say, God is absolutely lacking is not to say that there is, this has to rely on daily accumulation, see more, think more, listen more, in order to learn! Hehe!

Don't let me lose your smile because of what I said, and finally wish you a happy and harmonious !! every day.

Summary. One of the most effective ways to change a person by dressing up a little more maturely is to first change his or her appearance, thus affecting his or her inside. People with naïve thoughts can start to change themselves from the outside, and if the mask is worn for a long time, we will not be able to take it off, and we will be sublimated and changed, so that we will not be so naïve, and become more excellent.

04 can learn etiquette, take courses to cultivate their own temperament One of the biggest manifestations of a person's naïve thinking is that there is no temperament, a mature and stable person is usually a person who has cultivation, understands etiquette, and has a temperament, if we feel that we are too naïve, but it is difficult to change from the heart, we can learn etiquette and cultivate our own temperament courses, so as to become more mature. 05 Make more friends with mature people, naïve people may be caused by the life environment, we can start by changing the friends around us, and change ourselves. Look for more mature partners who can communicate and be friends, so that if we can integrate into the circle of mature people, little by little we will be infected and become mature.

What to do if it's too naïve.

Hello, dear, give you a few ways to try.

01 Read more "Books are the window of the soul", which can allow us to understand the world, learn more knowledge and ability, and teach us how to be a person and how to face life, so that we can become more mature from naivety, day by day, childish thinking is not terrible, what is terrible is that there is no change in the heart, read more books, read good books and we will be better day by day. 02 Accept yourself, seek to break through the naïve thinking of many people, not only us, first of all, we need to accept ourselves, face ourselves, in order to change the naïve self up positive role, so that they become mature, in fact, naivety is not terrible, only can not distinguish between right and wrong, naïve can also play a positive role, believe in yourself to change the naïve self.

One of the most effective ways to change a person by dressing up a little more maturely is to first change his or her appearance, thus affecting his or her inside. People with naïve thoughts can start to change themselves from the outside, and if the mask is worn for a long time, we will not be able to take it off, and we will be sublimated and changed, so that we will not be so naïve, and become more excellent. 04 can learn etiquette, take courses to cultivate their own temperament One of the biggest manifestations of a person's naïve thinking is that there is no temperament, a mature and stable person is usually a person who has cultivation, understands etiquette, and has a temperament, if we feel that we are too naïve, but it is difficult to change from the heart, we can learn etiquette and cultivate our own temperament courses, so as to become more mature.

05 Make more friends with mature people, naïve people may be caused by the life environment, we can start by changing the friends around us, and change ourselves. Look for more mature partners who can communicate and be friends, so that if we can integrate into the circle of mature people, little by little we will be infected and become mature.

If you can consider these questions, it means that you are clear-headed, have a strong analytical ability, and want to change yourself, which is a very gratifying state and will definitely achieve results in the coming days. Be happy for yourself, because many people have been kept in the dark for a long time.

The mental age is small, it's nothing, in a way, you live an easy life, don't pay too much attention to that.

Straightforward and fast-talking, it is a sign of youth, and some of them are still like this after a lot, and if you notice that you will offend people, it means that you will change a little bit slowly. It's easier said than done, but some things have to be thought about before speaking, some things can be said without saying, some things can be said in another way, some things are only half said, and it doesn't matter how you want to say some things, and you will slowly have some understanding. But being straightforward and quick to talk is also a characteristic, and it will be good to deal with it well, and everyone will like this kind of character, so don't be too eager to change.

There is a generation gap with middle-aged people, which cannot be changed, because the social environment experienced by people in each generation is different, and there are also differences in psychology, thinking and ways of doing things, but the quality can be compared, and a good person is a good person. When dealing with them, as long as you think of yourself as a good person, even if there are differences in the way you speak and do things, they are acceptable, and they will be very happy if you do well. Don't think about hypocrisy, complexity, etc., young is young, and they will understand.

But maturity is a matter of time, and of course it is better to be earlier, the relationship will be more harmonious, the way things will be more perfect, and the work will be more productive. Take your time, don't rush, don't be distressed, you'll be at ease.

What is mere so? I think it's a complete belief in the nature of the world. I often hear people sigh and want to return to their childhood, shouting to keep their childhood, to keep their innocence, and the value of simplicity can be seen here.

He seems to be something that belongs to life itself, and it cannot be missing. Sadly, in the process of growing up, we are almost destined to lose our innocence, just like holding on to the fine sand, holding on tightly but losing it even more. Even the innocence that is forcibly left behind is the kind of childhood that belongs to childhood, a mixture of naivety and ignorance.

In today's mixed society, it is because of this mixture of naivety and ignorance that simplicity has become the reason why some people excuse themselves to be easily hurt, and it also makes many people want to give up their simplicity for a while. Fortunately, after simply losing it, it can be refounded.

Simplicity is not naivety, let alone ignorance, it should be a complete belief in the nature of life and the world, believing that there will be happiness behind pain, believing that there will be kindness behind betrayal and deception, and believing that there is always something behind this cathartic complexity that supports the operation of the world. For example, love is the essence of believing, believing in happiness, you think to pursue it.

People know the beauty of love, and they want to have it so much. When we explore life, we have doubts about life, and even about exploration itself. This kind of vacillation is terrible, and the slightest misfortune will destroy the hope of life like a flood of the embankment, so we need simplicity, and this rediscovery is a return to simplicity on a higher level after many terrible unfortunate experiences in life.

Life is simple, but we must seek it again. This seems to be a process of deepening and purifying, because life must always move forward, dealing with everything that is different from us, whether we fall into it, or return to the original from a higher level. When we are dazzled by the world of flowers, we might as well regain the original desire and confidence, and maybe at that moment, we will find a different world, a clear sky, and a new world pops up ......

Of course not, it is simply the idea that the mind does not have any burden, and naivety is a way for the weak to protect themselves.

Certainly not, it simply means that you are kind-hearted and have no evil thoughts, and you are naïve and child-like.

No, it's just that you see things more easily than others, and I like it....

It's a bit simple, the idea is very good, I hope the world is full of harmony, there is an old saying: you can't hurt people, you can't have the heart to prevent people. The world is beautiful and complicated, you can think of yourself as someone else, but you must not imagine someone else as yourself, after all, he is not you, he is just another individual.